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Yichud Between Brother and Sister (for Shabbos)

If a husband will be out of town for over a week is it permissible for the wife’s unmarried brother to come for shabbos or would this pose a problem of yichud?

Answer:

It is fine to come for Shabbos.

Sources:

There is no prohibition of yichud for brother and sister (Beis Shmuel, Even Ha-Ezer 22:1).

Nonetheless, it is not permitted for them to live together on a permanent basis.

There are differences of opinion as to what constitutes a “permanent basis,” but even the most stringent opinions give a time of three days, so that coming for Shabbos will not be a problem.

See Otzar HaPoskim 22:2 in the name of Tzuf Dvash (the most stringent opinion). For the more lenient opinion of thirty days, see Imrei Yosher Vol. 2:43, Shraga Hameir Vol. 4:99, and Toras HaYichud 2:19.

Some define the situation based on more flexible categories of “visiting” or “permanent resident,” without giving fixed times. Certainly, coming for Shabbos is only “visiting.”

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