Question:
Hello, I would normally ask my personal Rav about this but for personal reasons I cant. My wife if gonna be finishing her first cycle post a miscarriage and she is uncomfortable in the meantime with getting pregnant but has issues taking birth control and therefore is not an option. Every option we heard of (anything from spermicide to any invasive methods) doesn’t work for her as she simply wouldn’t try, and I fully respect that. The only thing she would feel comfortable with is to prevent pregnancy for a temporary amount of time is condom use, which I know is normally not allowed, though given our specific circumstances, would there be room for leniency being that otherwise, unless another option besides what I mentioned, doesn’t exist. By that I mean that otherwise we would simply refrain from relations all together till she is ready for pregnancy. That option is obviously not ideal either and problematic in itself. Please let me know if there is room for leniency or other methods, thank you
Answer:
Because of the delicacy of the question I would prefer to speak to in person. You can contact me in my office 972-2-5810315 Ext 115 between 12:00-13:00 or 16:00-!7:00 local time.
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