Question:
I am still in the year for my father a”h and would like to know if I am allowed to go to a hadlaka on Lag Baomer if there is music.
Answer:
I express my condolences on the passing of your dear father. An Ovel is not allowed to listen to music so therefore it is preferential to go to a hadlaka without music unless there are extenuating circumstances..
Sources:
Y:D 391