I recently broke off an engagement, and I have a sweatshirt from my ex-fiancée. Do I halachically have to return it to him? We have completely cut off communication with one another, so if i would return it I would have to uncomfortably give it to his sister-in-law (who was the original Shadchan).
I don’t want to keep it, and otherwise I would just donate it.
If you feel uncomfortable about returning the sweatshirt you do not have to return it to him.