Question:
If my daughter used a spatula for hot cheese omelet and I want to use it for meat what do I do
Answer:
If you think your daughter used it for milchig, you should not use it for fleishig. It is controversial if a spatula, which is usually made out of plastic or rubber rubber is kasherable at all.
Sources:
Chelkas Yackov 2-163, Be’er Moshe 2-53, MInchas Yitzchok 3-68.