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Ceremony for Second Wedding

What is the velt minhag on a vort and chupo for second marriages?

Should the vort be private,with just a few family members ?

Should the chupo be small and also private?

Could you please indicate what the sources in halocho are

many thanks

binyomin hakohen

Answer:

This is very much a personal issue.

Although the idea of the luchos shenios being given be-tzin'ah can be cited as a source for making a "quieter" second marriage, and it is clear from the Gemara that the joy of a second marriage is not equal to the joy of a first marriage (which is why there are fewer days of rejoicing), I do not know of official sources that clearly call for a quiet wedding ceremony.

Many prefer to make a quieter ceremony for personal reasons, but if a person wishes to make a standard chasnah, this is also fine.

Best wishes.

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