after an extended hospital stay, my parent passed away,z”l. My husband and I are exhausted and I myself am overwhelmed and extremely stressed out. My husband intends to take me out of town for 3 or 4 days to the countryside, to rest, and is quite insistant, fearing for my health. I agree that I need this, but I want to know if I am entitle – halachicaly – to go.
If not, what do I do about Shalom Beit, as my husband is planning to go no matter what, since he feels too tired to return to work in this state.
Answer:
Yes, this type of trip is permitted.
Sources:
See Shulchan Aruch Y:D 389:25, the Aruch Hashulchan [seif 33] explains that only travelling with large groups which makes a pronounce festive atmosphere should be avoided during this time. A personal trip to recuperate is permitted.
