Question:
Is one who is still in the sheloshim for one’s father allowed to attend a wedding l’chatchila? Can one attend only the chupah or is it best not to go at all?
Answer:
If possible it is better not to participate at all, (even to be present only at the chupah) until the end of the shloshim.
Sources:
Y:D 391:3 Ramo
