Question:
If one has had anal sex before marriage more than once, with a Jew, full penetration, are they still considered a besula?
Answer:
She is not considered a besula and therefore cannot marry a Kohen Gadol.
Sources:
Yevomos 59a, Yerushalmi Kesuvos 1:3, Rambam Isurey Biyah 17:14
My fiance has had anal sex without knowing that it was considered the same as vaginal. She stopped and did teshuva at that time. She is not interested in having a wedding if they don’t say besula at the wedding. What can be done? Thank you
please see the following link https://dinonline.org/2016/12/31/being-called-besula-at-wedding/
I discussed this there.
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