my wife did a bedika on her fifth day of shiva nekim, she showed it to me and i originally thought it was fine so she discarded it. i am now concerned that i really should have brought it to a rabbi to clarify. should i be nervous and maybe start her count again? thanks a lot for this wonderful sevice!!
First of all you shouldn’t be nervous, and don’t just start counting again! But you should speak to the Rov that you usually show your maros. He knows you and your situation best.