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Veset – Please answer as soon as possible.

  1. Your veset started tonight at shkiya, which in this instance is the thirtieth day, and it happens to also be the yom hachodesh, (since the last month had only 29 days in it). You should also keep the 31st day, as part of the onah beinonis, which would mean from now until shkiya on Thursday.
  2. The only thing that is forbidden is actual relations, however there is a preference to abstain from hugging and kissing.  The harchokos are permitted.
  3. You should a bedika sometime during the day tomorrow, preferably towards the end of the daytime, and if you can, another one on the next day.
  4. If you don’t get your period this month you will not have to worry about next month, because the onah beinonis is only on the 30th (and 31st) day, and next month will be about 60 days. You will also not have a yom hachodesh because the rule with someone who has a veses sheino kavuah is that if she doesn’t see on the day the next month she doesn’t have to worry about it anymore. Therefore since you already passed the 15th of the month without seeing, you will not have to be concerned about the 15th of the next month.

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