Question:
Hi,
I have a close friends wedding on Mikva night
If I don’t go my friend will be hurt if I do my wife might be what is the right thing to do
Answer:
You are married to you wife, not to your friend, besides you have a mitzva d'orayso or onah that night. Try juggling both, go for the beginning of the chasuna and then tend to your wife's needs.
Best Wishes
