Question:
My place of work recently had an event which I couldn't attend, where they gave a gift to all their employees. I've now been informed that the gift is waiting for me to pick up. Am I allowed to receive this gift during the year of aveilus for a parent (e.g., is it considered a gift or part of my wages)? Also am I allowed to accept the mishloach manos that they send to their employees, or should I tell them in advance not to include me on the list this year?
Answer:
An avel may receive gifts given to workers because these gifts are considered as a part of their pay and not as a present. This would even include mishloach anos that is given to workers.
Best Wishes
Additional reading:
- Aveilus and giving gifts
- Avel visiting married children
- Avelus for a child vs parent
- Mishloach manos during availus
- Does an Ovel daven for the omud on Rosh Chodesh
- Can I invite guests for shabbat meal during year of avelut for my father
- Watching TV/playing games on tablet during Shloshim and the year