Question:
dear rabbi,
the hohen feiertage are nearing and maybe an opportunity for meeting the bashert
– אויב דער אויבערשטער וויל.
in any case shammai was straight.
women nowadays seem to look for love.
that is not the base for a marriage.
isn’t it totally wrong to long for love in the other gender before marriage (romance etc. – which i find not straight at all)?
a shabbes mevorach which precedes yom teruah indeed;
all the best,
Answer:
You are very correct, H-shem created the idea of love and attachment to be used in the context of marriage.
May HKB”H send you your basherte, during this coming year, and may we hear besuros tovos.
