Question:
Rebbe Zeira refused to eat by Rabba because “not every time does a miracle occur.” Why couldn’t he say, ‘I will come on the tenai that you don’t serve any alcohol?
Answer:
It says Chayav inish l’besuemi…, that this is an integral part of the seudas Purim, but he had a problem with the way it turned out. Therefore he didn’t want to start with him at his seuda.
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