Question:
Yesterday was my onas haveses. My morning bedika looked questionable to me. I’m on birth control and sometimes this happens to me. In my mind I assumed I was a probably in the beginning stages of getting my period and told my husband I might be a niddah but wasn't sure but we should act as if just in case. The evening one turned out to be completely clean from any stain whatsoever. Which shocked me. So I dropped them both off at our local mareh drop box today explaining it was my vestos and which was the morning one and which was the evening one and that I haven’t had any issues since. The response was they are fine! But now I don't know what to do based on the wording I said to my husband. I don’t think I for sure called myself a niddah but can't fully remember how exactly I worded the bedika issue. I’m too embarrassed to call our halacha hotline. What do I do now?
Answer:
As long as you said that you aren’t sure and didn’t say definitively that you are tameh, it is not considered as if you said that you are tameh.
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