Can you ask someone to be mochel money you owe them. For example, A while ago, I told my friend I would pay her money if I broke my diet that I was going on for a short period of time. I broke it but I didn’t pay her. Even though I meant it, I don’t think she is really expecting it, but I can’t remember if I said bli neder. Can I ask her to be mochel that money.
If your friend is mochel the money you will not have to pay it to her. Even if it would be a neder, if she says that she is mochel it, you will not have to give her the money.