Question:
If all the vests for my wife passed and she didn't get her period yet. Does she have to do a Bedikah before we have relations?
Answer:
Hello,
This is something all couple should do towards the beginning of their marriage to assure that she doesn’t get her period due to relations. She should do a bedikah, before and afterwards both husband and wife do a bedika, and repeat is repeated three times to establish a chazakah that she doesn’t see then. These bedikas are done specifically after the times when she would usually get her period, in order to verify that it isn’t because of her period, rather because of the relations. Therefore, the time to do it is after she her veses have past.
Best wishes
Sources:
שולחן ערוך יורה דעה הלכות נדה סימן קפו סעיף ב-ג' "אם אין לה וסת קבוע, שלשה פעמים הראשונים צריכין לבדוק קודם תשמיש ואחר תשמיש, הוא בעד שלו והיא בעד שלה, ואם הוחזקה באותם שלשה פעמים שאינה רואה דם מחמת תשמיש, שוב אינה צריכה בדיקה כלל, לא לפני תשמיש ולא לאחר תשמיש." "אשה שאינה רואה בפחות מי"ד ימים אחר טבילתה, אבל לאחר י"ד ימים אין לה קבע, עד י"ד יום דינה כדין אשה שיש לה וסת."
Are we only talking about a Vest Kovuha? What about Vest benonis and Vest Haflugah? Should she wait for these to pass before she makes a chazakah?
Yes she should wait until after the time when she wouldn't see becaue of vestos.
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