Question:
I never went to the mikvah - too embarrassed and too scared of water
Does 9 kabin work in a shower, and what do I have to know?
Answer:
Hello,
If you can't go to the mikva, the next best option is 9 kabin. The amount of water is between 18 and 23 liters. The way to do it is to stand under the shower when it is running pretty strongly, with your hands lightly over your heart. Let the water run over your body for about 4 minutes straight, which should be the amount of time it takes for 23 liters of water.
Gmar chasima tova
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