Question: I’ve seen cholent recipes that include margarine. Are there any Maaris Ayin issues in doing this? Thank you for your time, (if possible could you include sources.) Answer: There is no problem of maris ayin with putting margarine into a fleishig cholent. This is for two reasons, because it is well known to everyone […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Candle lighting and a date
Question: I am usually makpid on lighting candles as close as possible to the time we are supposed to. A shadchan just scheduled my date for 5pm since the boy doesn’t want to drive so late at night and said we will be going out to eat. Is that ok? Answer: There are a number […]
Workplace Chanukah Party
Question: Is it appropriate for a Jewish owned company with mostly orthodox employees to host a short chanukah party and gift giving for all employees? (Including Jews/nonJews/males/females) and should a ירא שמים abstain from attending? Answer: As long as they are not sitting mixed men and women, I don’t see a problem with the fact […]
Bais Hachaim
Question: Hello, could you please provide me the source in halacha that a woman is not allowed to go to the kevurah of a niftar? I think I remember hearing it was based on a Shach somewhere… TY Answer: You are most probably looking for Shach Y:D 359-2. Best Wishes
Why do we repeat the bracha when the menora is over 20 amos, but not when too little oil was used?
Question: Why if a person lit his menorah above 20 amos – he is not yotzah and he is required to make a new Bracha when he relights (M:B 671-29), however if he did not put in enough oil to last 30 min, he also is not yotza but he does NOT have to make […]
Can I live out my passion for writing and music?
Question: I’m a frum teenager. I love being Jewish and am even more religious than my parents, but I have a problem. I’m very passionate about music and writing. My stories aren’t related to Judaism and neither are my songs. I didn’t listen to goyish music for about four years but found it hard to […]
Guest on Chanukah
Question: Hi, If an Ashkenaz guest on Chanukah has parents who are lighting for him in his house, can he light at the host’s house? If he were at his own house, he certainly could, so if he is at someone else’s would that change? Thank you so much Answer: You can be yotza lighting […]
Does a shul that has been converted in a museum still has some sanctity?
Question: A shul that has not in use for some years do to Jewish population changes in my town was converted in a Jewish museum and library. In the library-which is inside in what was the actual shul- I noticed many books that lack tznius and even kofrus. My question is : Once a shul […]
Civil complaints secular israeli companies
Question: I recall two cases in the past regarding an Israeli Cell Phone Company and and Israeli Bank (Both are large, publicly traded companies–i think the cell phone was majority was owned by akum and the bank by a chiloni) Case 1 The Ministry of communication passed a regulation that the companies had to unlock […]
Kiddushin with a shtar or cash
Question: Hello, Two questions: 1) Why do we no longer use kiddushei shtar? 2) Can kiddushin be done with dollar bills (if a ring is not available), or must it be with actual coins? If possible, I’d appreciate knowing the mekorot of the Rabbi’s answers. Thank You, Avraham Answer: Technically a person could be mekadesh […]
Tashlumim ribbit vs “Credit” in Israel
Question: It is my understanding (having talked with a vendor or two) that in a credit card transaction, the vendor can choose “regular (1 payment)”, “Tashlumim (multiple payments)” or “Credit” (multiple payments. My understanding, under tashlumim the vendor fronts the loan and gets payments from the banks each month (depending on what they agreed). On […]
Teshuva for cursing a parent
Question: Hello, Thank you for your help. My question deals with cursing a parent. As a bal teshuva, I am analyzing past mistakes in detail to try to make it right. In the past, I uttered curse words under my breath towards a parent (they did not hear them). G-d’s name was not used at […]
CANDLES FOR LIGHTING
Question: If some uses high quality candles for HUNNAKAH, is it LACHATCHILLA? Great light and clean. No mess. Answer: Yes. A person can use candles for the Chanukah lights without a problem. There is a certain preference to using olive oil, because that is more similar to the miracle that happened, however candles are still […]
wedding
Question: From when do the Chosson and Kallah have to stop seeing each other before the wedding (if it is a week is it including the day of the wedding). Answer: The reason for the custom that the chosson and kallah stop seeing each other before the wedding is because of what is called dam […]
About Magen david necklace
Question: Is it allowed wearing of Magen David necklace on the neck ? If it is allowed, then what is the written source for it ? Answer: It is permitted for a woman to wear a Magen David necklace around her neck, and there is no problem that I am aware of. For a man […]
Going on a bus with using somebody else’s card(Rav Kav)
Question: Hi. The way the bus system works in israel is that one can swipe the card and catch as many bus rides as he wants within one and a half hours of the first use. I caught a bus using a Rav Kav( the card) and when I got home my wife needed to […]
Is there any halachic issue with having a trophy deer head in our house?
Question: Is there any halachic issue with having a trophy deer head in our house? Our 11 year old son has an interest in these type of objects. Answer: Halachically I don’t see any prohibition to having them, however it is just not a Jewish thing to do. Jews pride themselves with having compassion and […]
avak lashon hara
Question: There is someone (a rebbi) that I used to eat by on Shabbos. However, I no longer eat by him for certain reasons (having to do with frumkeit). Recently, he met me and demanded to know where I eat on Shabbos and why I no longer come to him. I feel that if I […]
Cut cheese on a parve cutting board
Question: I have a parve cutting board that I have chopped onions on. After being cleaned and not having been used in a week, I cut non sharp cheese on it. Is it dairy? Answer: For the future try that this shhould not happen again, but in retrospect, your cutting board is still pareve, as […]
Nichum Aveilim
Question: Shalom Harav I like to send a text to a rabbi who is sitting shiva who just lost his son since I can’t attend being too far what’s the best way I can express it on text please & I want the Hebrew part that everyone sais it b4 leaving the shiva house as […]
fundraising
Question: I was hired to be a fundraiser for a kollel. I get a nice commission. Am I allowed to get a bachur with a loud voice and charisma to give a clop during lunch and to go around collecting for me, or am I obligated to personally do the collecting? (He is happy to […]
Guess promo code
Question: Hi may a person guess a promo code for a discount while checking out on website (non jew owned)? Thank you Answer: If the person is not entitled to this promotion we may not try to guess it, and to get that promotion is simply stealing. Needless to say that we are not allowed […]
B S D When the rule depends on whether the majority of guests in a hotel are Jews how can a person decide?
Question: Paraphrasing this question and answer from another source and not asking you if their answer is correct: “A non-Jew heats water for coffee and tea in a hotel in which the majority of guests are non-Jews. Can a Jew use the water for his coffee on Shabbat? Yes, he can make his coffee with […]
Mistake in kiddush
Question: For the Friday night Shabbos kiddush, I made the borei pri hagafen. I then accidentally began reciting the yom tov kiddush beracha. I realized my mistake soon after beginning that beracha, and then began reciting the Shabbos kiddush beracha. After doing this, I drank from the kiddush cup. Was this the correct procedure? Or […]
Taking Advantage of Online Shopping Glitches
Question: Rabbi, Retail website sometimes have inadvertent website glitches that result in enormous savings at the checkout. Even if they honor the transaction, is it considered stealing? Should a baal nefesh stay away? Does it matter that the retailer is not jewish, there is no chance of chillul Hashem, and that others will take my […]
Kiddushin and getting a present from a date
Question: Hello, Thank you for your help. My question deals with accepting gifts during the dating process and if this could potentially impact kiddushin. For example, if a man buys a lady he is dating a piece of expensive clothing, or expensive jewelry (not a ring), as a present, is there any issue that by […]
Affixing lock on apartment building outside door against protestations of minority of residents
Question: Some 13 of 16 families voted to affix a lock on the outside doors of the apartment building to prevent neighbors from using the elevators on a passthru basis a phenomenon which has reached intolerable proportions (both in wait time for elevator, resource usage and litter and even acts of vandalism). The main objection […]
Borer in selecting food for child
Question: Lets say one has a mixture of different foods and one wishes to select one to show to a child to see if they would like to eat it. One doesn’t know whether the child will end up deciding to eat it or refuse it. Would it be a problem of borer to select […]
Saying Tehillim at night- ealy morning
Question: Hello. Three questions: 1. I see that it is preferable not to say Tehillim at night–but what, exactly, is “night”? If I wake up at, say, at 5:30 a.m. in the winter, before neitz (while it is still dark), may I say Tehillim? 2. Should I say Birchas Hashachar at that time, or do […]
Straight Menorah
Question: Is there a problem of having a waivy or circular menorah? The Ram”a seams to mention a bowl with wicks which are circular. but today we have menorahs that each spot is clearly separate from the next so is that a problem? Thank You Answer: What you are asking is the opinion of […]
kipah
Question: BS”D Shalom dear Rabbi, Question: I remember yeshivah said We couldn’t use a kippah without two screens. is there a law against using a kipah without two screens on it? Answer: My apologies but I am not aware of any halacha that states that a kippa has to have two layers. As long as it covers […]
Cover for Tefillin
Question: BS”D I bought a tefilin and it came without the plastic protective caps, it disqualifies somehow my tefilin Answer: Congratulations on your new tefillin. The tefillin are kosher and they may be used. The teffilin on the hand (shel yad) usually comes with a protective cover, but it is exactly that- only for protective […]
Kibbud Em
Question: Shalom Thank you so much for taking my question. A relative is visiting from overseas. We arranged to meet. When I spoke with my parent and mentioned I was meeting this relative she was upset that this relative had contacted me as she said they had had a disagreement. I didn’t cancel the planned […]
Is it permissible to drive for Grub Hub.
Question: Grub Hub is a company similar to Uber and Lyft but instead of transporting people drivers are given jobs picking up and delivering food from restaurants. I am pretty hard-pressed for extra parnassa that I can get at odd times that fit into my schedule. Is there a halachic issue picking up and delivering […]
Walmart sent me extras
Question: I do not believe they charged me for it, but they mistakenly sent extras of an item I ordered. Do I need to return them? Answer: If the company is mostly owned by non-Jews, then it is only an issue of returning a lost object to its owner, and here you are not obligated […]
In terms of your tag gentile-on-shabbos how can we know he is a gentile?
Question: B S D In terms of your tag gentile-on-shabbos how can we know he is a gentile? An example might be: “A gentile employee of a hotel heats water for coffee on Shabbos, can a Jew use the hot water on Shabbos?” Suppose such a situation occurs. Maybe he only looks like a gentile. […]
Dress code
Question: What is the minimum dress code a person is obligated for while learning torah. Is there a difference which topic of torah . For example pshat or sod? I am currently listening to a shiur about gilgulim, based on the ramban Arizal and the reishis chachma. Can i listen to the shiur in a […]
Going away for Shabbos Chanuka
Question: A person who lives with his parents, but on Shabbos he goes to eat somewhere else and to sleep somewhere else (different from where he eats), where should he light erev Shabbos Chanukah? Wherever he is at plag hamincha? The parents are frei and are not lighting. I will be away only on Friday […]
Changing Tzitzit for Shabbat
Question: It seems that many achronim say that undergarments would not need to be switched, for kavod shabbat. Would this include a tallis katan worn under one’s regular clothes, or is there a kiyum of kavod shabbat that is more than underwear/undershirt/sock? Would a tallis gadol ideally need to be switched, even though it’s just […]
Do we owe them money?
Question: We owned an apartment that was rented out We had terrible complaints from the downstairs neighbors about continual leaks until we finally replaced all the plumbing a year later we sold the apartment the buyers renovated completely Now they have 2 complaints A. Since our tenants didn’t paint the walls before vacating the apartment (partly […]
opening mouth to satan
Question: The Gemara in Moed Katan says not to open one’s mouth to the Satan. Is it permitted for an actor to say that bad things happened to him (e.g.., to say on himself that he was in a hospital r”l)? This is part of his role. Is it permitted to say this as part […]
B S D Minimum material for tallis gadol begged
Question: B S D Shalom Dinonline,, What are the minimum requirements for the main material in the begged of a tallis gadol (not asking about the corners, but rather the rest of the begged)? Could the begged be made of “fishnet”, for instance? Thank you for your help. Raphael Gellar in Haifa Attached: Attached file […]
Tzitzit
Question: Can you wear a tzitzit on the shirtless body underneath? Answer: The reason why it is customary to wear an undershirt underneath the tzitzis is because ןf the tzitizis are up against the body they will become like a garment for absorbing sweat, which according to some poskim is degrading to the tzitzis. This […]
Walkng while saying Asher Yotzar
Question: I’m learning the laws of Tefillah and currently siman 94 of Orach Chaim. I learnt that in some circumstances it is better to daven while travelling with a settled mind than to daven quickly while distracted before rushing off to a journey. I have a related question about Asher Yatzar (although the same question […]
Yaakov Avinu and Shechem
Question: After Shimon and Levi killed all the men of Shchem, Yaakov Avinu was afraid and he said, “I will be annihilated.” Why is this not considered “opening one’s mouth to the Satan,” as Yaakov was saying a curse on himself? Answer: You are asking a very interesting question, and I don’t have a good […]
Yichud during an x-ray or MRI
Question: When undergoing an X-ray or cat-scan which requires being alone in a room with the female technician, what should one do to avoid transgressing the prohibition of yichud? Even if one’s wife or friend is with him, they cannot be in the actual room due to harmful radiation. Answer: Depending on the circumstances, if […]
bracha on food not in house
Question: If a bracha was made on food that is being eaten now does that exempt food that was not in the house at the time but was expected to come. Answer: Making a new bracha on food that was brought from outside depends if it was in his mind to include that food or […]
Talit buried
Question: BS”D Shalom dear Rabbi, Question: A fearful Jew can be buried with his talit, tefillin and tzitzit? Answer: Many of the minhagim that are done to the niftar and during the burial are based on what the mekubalim and poskim, who understand these things said to do, and what is in the best interest […]
payment which was put in someone’s house
Question: בס”ד Hello. Jacob & his siblings made Sheva Brochos & the caterer said he will pick up the money at the Sheva Brochos. He didn’t come. After a few weeks Jacob saw he doesn’t come, so he called him & asked him to pick up the money. The caterer didn’t know what he was […]
Pikuah Nefesh
Question: BS”D Shalom dear Rabi, Question: If a person finds himself in danger of life, does he have to eat a food that is not kosher? Does he have to make Bracha about that food or does he not need it? Answer: A person that is in a life threatening situation and the only thing […]