Question: Hi, Thanks so much for all your help – I have a question regarding drinking coffee before Tefilla. I am currently at home during the day with my 6 month old, and don’t have time to daven until a few hours after waking up when the baby takes a nap (still well within the […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Is a person allowed to go a vort while in avelus?
Question: Is a person allowed to go a vort while in avelus? Answer: You can go in for a short time to wish mazal tov, and even have something light such as a piece of cake or fruit. If there is music playing you can only enter to say mazal tov, and must leave immediately. […]
Praying Amida while sitting
Question: Thank you in advance, I fly for work as a Pilot, and typically find myself in places were I don’t have the opportunity to daven while standing up as to not be obvious as well as not able to wear a kippa while praying. I try to either pray in the airplane after passengers […]
regarding the גדר of גזל
Question: We were on a trip and we needed to make a rest stop. we were in the middle of nowhere and we found a restroom to use in the middle of no where it looked like. later on, a women pulled up and opened her little store that was in that same area and […]
Shema without Netilas Yadaim
Question: Dear Rabbi, If taking the time to wash netilas yadaim after waking up will cause me to miss zman krias shema, may I recite shema without netilas yadaim and wash afterwards? Is there a point in quickly wiping my hands on something instead of washing, and only washing later? Thanks Answer: If it is […]
Understanding Tfillah
Question: I’ve been davening 3 times a day for most of my adult life, but I’ve never really taken the time to understand the words of the prayers I’ve been saying. I know it’s important to focus and really understand everything in order for the tfillah to be valid, so I’ve recently started to focus […]
Urge to use bathroom before benching and shmoneh esrei
Question: Is it true that one cannot have ANY urge to use the bathroom while benching and davening shmoneh esrei? Also, is it true that if one goes to the bathroom (or tries) before either of those tefillos, one doesn’t have to be concerned about the urge? If so, does it have to be immediately […]
Chatzitzah for hand washing after the bathroom
Question: Hi, I was wondering if you could help clarify something for me. I know that rings must be removed when washing Netillat Yadayim to avoid a chatzizah – does the same rule apply after washing hands after the bathroom and/or before davening (For cleanliness purposes, therefore washing without a bracha)? Thanks Answer: When […]
Conversations with husband – Toeles?
Question: My mother in law is coming to town. I dont like how she intereacts with our kids sometimes. I want to know if I can halachically discuss my discomforts with my husband, before the fact and after the fact. (We used to talk openely about family until we learned more about hilchos loshon hora) […]
Erva in front of Goy
Question: Hi, I am unclear as to Halacha of showing skin on beaches ( not wearing stockings or socks but wearing skirt) low neckline, show hair…when I am certain only non Jews are around. Is halachos of tznius only in front of Jews or they are as applicable in front of Goyim?( this is a […]
Chalifin and Chiliyon
Question: Bava Metzia 47a/b uses Rus 4:7 verse in a discussion about transferring ownership by exchange. This is called chalifin (eg using a shoe). The Gemoro is unclear whether the redeemer gave his shoe to Boaz or the other way round. See also Bava Metzia 7a. Is it just coincidence that the chalifin is similar […]
Words of Torah while changing child’s diaper or in bath
Question: My toddler like to talk about Parsha and sing songs of Torah and pesukim. I assume that I cannot sings/talk to him about these things while changing his diaper if its dirty. Is that correct? What about saying things that are not directly Torah like: “The month is Tamuz” or “Yes, on Pesach we […]
Reading on Shabbos
Question: Dear Rav, Reading science and story books give me a tremendous amount of oneg shabbos. I also have an issue that I’m more prone to depression than other people. Is there a heter for me to read these books on shabbos? Of course, I’ll try to spend most of my time learning. Answer: […]
Flicked off lint (I think) from bedika
Question: I learned that if something can be flicked off of a bedika cloth, its not a problem. Im in 7 nekiyum. A few days ago, I did a bedika which had a hair or lint looking line. Out of curiosity, and without thinking carefully I flicked it off. The rest of the bedika was […]
2 year old saying “Elo-” and “Ado-“
Question: My 2 year old is verbally advanced and has learned brachos by hearing adults say them. He knows the correct brachos but, being 2, he has developed a game of making of his own brachos when he is playing. Sometimes in this pretend mode he say “Baruch ata … [shem hashem]..” and then “bla […]
Unclothed in the bathroom
Question: Is one allowed to be unclothed in the bathroom or shower room because its not generally a problem to be unclothed there (i.e. people shower in the room anyways)? Answer: The Shulchan Aruch O:CH 2-1 says that a person should try to stay covered even in the privacy of his own home. The reason […]
Kriyas shema al hamita by day
Question: Hi, My son is 6 months old, and I’ve been saying shma Al hamita for him before putting him to sleep since he was a newborn. Now that it’s summer and his bedtime is no longer after dark, is there an issue with saying shma Al hamita since it is intended to be said […]
Pastry and flour
Question: Shalom What pastry and baking flour is kosher Answer: Any, if it only contains flour. Best Wishes
Large Samech in Bemidbar 13:30
Question: The mesorah records that the samekh in 13:30 is large (see marginal note in Artscroll and elsewhere). Yet none of the printed editions which I have consulted actually conform to this tradition. Have you come across any info on this? Answer: Interesting point, but I don’t have any information on this. I looked around […]
Respect for bread
Question: If I see a lot of pieces of bread on the side walk do I have to pick them up because bread is not allowed to be on the floor? Answer: It is not that it isn’t allowed to be on the floor, rather because people might step on it, and it suffices to […]
Aishes ish
Question: Is one transgressing the issur Aishes ish if the has relations derech eivorim? I understand its frowned upon, im only asking if has status of being boiyel Aishes ish? Answer: “Frowned upon”!? It is yehoreg val ya’avor! One is obligated to give up his life, and allow himself to be killed, if forced to […]
Covering the Knee
Question: 1. What is the source for covering the knee. In Halacha the most it says is “עד”. 2. According to opinions that tefach beishsha applies to all body parts would it be permissible to wear a skirt up to 3.5 inches above? Answer: is a machlokes among the poskim what is called “שוק” that […]
Checking for bugs
Question: Shalom How do i make cabbage ,lettuce ,spinach,broccoli ,cauliflower ,strawberries and rapsberry’s kosher at my home Can you please help me Kind regards Answer: The only issue with the vegetables that you mentioned is basically insect infestation, (unless it is produce that came from Israel). Please see the following link which has a guide […]
Took items from seminary
Question: I took something from the seminary I was in when we had a baking class. The school didn’t let us take some of the extras that I took and they specifically told us not to take. If that is considered stealing What am I supposed to do about it now after the fact? Answer: […]
Do metal cookie cutters require tevilat keilim?
Question: Is there מקום להחמיר לכחילה? Thanks alot! Answer: Yes they should preferably be toveled, since they come in contact with the food. However it should be without a bracha since the cookie dough is not yet edible. Best Wishes Sources: Taz Y:D 120-7, the Kosher Kitchen pg. 465.
Showering a child on shabbos.
Question: Is it permitted to bathe a kid on shabbos if they are super dirty. Covered in mud and dirt etc. Answer: The Ashkenazi minhag is not to take even a cold bathe or shower on the whole body on Shabbos. However since over here there is a need so it is permitted. Technically you […]
Poured milk into fleishig sink
Question: I was at someone for shobbos. They had one washing cup for both sinks. I filled up water in the washing cup that I had just picked up from the Milchig sink and realized the water looked a white’esh color so I spilled it out in the fleishig sink (that i was about to […]
Trimming
Question: Helle Rav. I saw in a post that it is assur for a man to trim his pubic hairs for beautifying purposes the Posek said therefore it would only be permitted in a medical instance why is the only options beauty or medicinal what about for comfort (even without a rash) Answer: It isn’t […]
Hot chicken placed in a dairy Tupperware container
Question: This is in followup to question 52170 in which I was asked a followup question by email to clarify my case. I sent the reply by email but it’s a “no-reply” address so I’m not sure if you will see that response. You asked me: “To get your question clear, you baked it in […]
Rosh Chodesh related
Question: Hi Till what time can i daven Mussaf on Rosh Chodesh & Till when Hallel? Answer: Preferably until an hour after chatzos, but if you didn’t , it can be said the whole day. Hallel can also be said all day. Best Wishes
Do I say yiskor in first year of avel or not
Question: Do I say yiskor in first year of avel or not Answer: Hamakom yinachem eschem b’toch shar aveilei tzion v’yerushalayim. There are different minhagim and many people have the minhag not to say yizkor during the first year year. Among the reasons is that the avel should not remember their departed relative and come […]
swimming after shloshim during the summer
Question: Can I go swimming after shloshim in the summer? Answer: Yes. An avel in the year of mourning may go swimming, the same way that showering is permitted. It is also permitted if it is not done as a joyous social activity.
Regarding benching and ברכה אחרונה
Question: I know a person isn’t supposed to bench with a medal knife on the the table. Does this apply to על המחיה and בורא נפשות? What if I’m at the table and I want to bench but others are still eating. so their knives are still on the table can I bench anyway with […]
Egg donor
Question: My wife an I recently hosted a woman becoming a baalas tshuva. she informed us that her Jewish mother had fertility issues, so her mother used eggs from an anonymous surrogate which were implanted inside her mother and from that pregnancy this baalas tshuva was born. I believe this is a machlokes if the […]
Korach’s Mishkan
Question: Please see Bemidbar 16:27. Why is Korach’s dwelling called a Mishkan rather than an ohel or bayis? Answer: You are bringing up an interesting point. A possible answer may be the following. The Chizkuni (Shemos 38-21) on the words “Eyleh pikudei Hamishkan, Mishkan Haedus” asks, why does it say “Mishkan- Mishkan Haedus”? In order […]
Mezuzah on porch
Question: Porch is 50 x 140 cm – do I need a mezuzah on it Answer: You should put a mezuza on it, but it should be on the right side when you are entering it from the porch, and not the right side going out to the porch. The reason is because the porch […]
writing that one worked on Shabbos
Question: A person who works from 8 in the morning to 10 at night and it will look strange if he writes down that he works so many hours, may he write instead that (for example) he worked 8 to 2 on Monday and 8 to 2 on Shabbos (instead of writing all the hours […]
blackmail
Question: Hi I’m in a dira in Bnei Brak and someone has info on me and he is forcing me to give 1000 dollars or he will leak the info. I want to know if he is halachali allowed Answer: It is hard to answer without knowing the other side, but from what you are […]
Grind coffee on Shabbat
Question: I own a manual coffee grinder which involves placing coffee beans in the top and then grinding it into powder. The mechanism is that the beans are pulverized by coming into contact with a burr blade inside the cylinder. I know that grinding is generally forbidden on Shabbat but that there are also some […]
Is using whip cream an shabbos an issue because of molid?
Question: Is using whip cream an shabbos an issue because of molid? Answer: Whipped topping that is discharged from a can should not be used on Shabbos according to most poskim. The reason for this is, that when the topping is inside the can it is a liquid. Upon contact with air, the liquid is transformed […]
Pressuring recipient of a Gmach
Question: If someone runs a Gmach that has money that belongs to other people (all the money has to be returned eventually). What principles could there be with regard to someone’s check bouncing? What kinda of limitations are there with regard to contacting him about making the payment? Answer: Essentially the prohibition of “Lo t’hiyei […]
Paying with shekel a credit card fee charged in dollars
Question: A friend used my credit card to pay for several flights over three months time. The card was charged in dollars but she is paying me in Israeli shekel. The first time she paid was before she traveled and she gave me an extra 100 shekel towards the return trip. Then she came back […]
selling a gift card
Question: Someone gave me a gift card as a present, am i allowed to sell it? someone mentioned that it may be עני המהפך בחררא since the person buying maybe would anyway buy from that store? Answer: It is permitted,as long as you are not buying it from inside the store itself. When someone is […]
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Kashrus agancy
Question: I wanted to know if the kashrut symbol of what looks like the luchos habris with a K inside the symbol is a reliable hushgacha? Answer: I never heard of such a hechsher, and you can check up which hechsherim are recommended by the CRC of Chicago at the following link. http://www.crcweb.org/agency_list.php If it isn’t […]
Can you rent an apartment in Chutz Laretz to someone who will bring in idols.
Question: Can you rent an apartment in Chutz Laretz to someone who will bring in idols. Answer: It is permitted to rent him an apartment, even if he will bring his idols inside it, (as long as it isn’t being rented in order to store his idols there). However when he leaves make sure that […]
Geniza
Question: What is required to create a Gueniza “bor” in our school? (only dig a hole and put all material in-papers from students like tests etc or that is another requirement?) Answer: Since you are only burying books and papers and not tefillin, mezuzahs, sifrei torah, or neviim, you do not have to bury them […]
Promising on a form
Question: I am interested in joining a club that has has an application. The application has a paragraph stating that “I promise to do XYZ”. I intend to do it, but I don’t want to get involved in nedarim or any other halachic issues. It is a non-Jewish club that does not involve a mitzvah […]
Is a table considered a michichtzah while walking in front of someone davening shmoneh esrei
Question: If one finishes shemonah esrei and people behind him are still davening shemonah esrei may he take his 3 steps back if there is a table where they’re davening if not what should he do Answer: A table is not enough to permit walking or crossing in front of a person davening shemona esrei […]
Not sure where im up to in shemona esrei
Question: What the halacha if someone is in middle of shemona esrei and spaces out and is completely unsure where he is holding? Does he go back to the the last bracha he remembers even though it was awhile and definitely went further Answer: Someone in such a position is really in a tight spot. […]