Question: shalom, based on that text: לימוד שחיטה בהתכתבות הרב יעקב משה טולדנו פסק לסוחר מספרד שמותר לו ללמוד שחיטת עופות למרות שאינו תלמיד חכם כדי שיוכל לשחוט לעצמו. ומצטט את רבי יעקב אבן-צור שכותב שגם אשה יכולה לשחוט. הרב טולדנו ביקש את חוות דעתו של רבי רפאל אנקאווא שהיה אז במרוקו וכך השיב הרב: […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Is it appropriate to spank a child for chutzpa or defiance?
Question: Is it appropriate to spank a child for chutzpa or defiance? Answer: Thank you for your question. In the topic of chinuch, the cardinal rule is as the posuk says “chanoch lenar al pi darco”, “teach a child according to his way”. Therefore, each child and situation is different and has to be weighed […]
Which comes first Al Hamichya or Borei Nefashos
Question: What happens if I’ve ate a meal without bread. For instance, spaghetti and tomato sauce with a side of potato salad. What would be the after bracha. Each one has to fall into separate categories. For example, Al Hamichya and Borei nefashos. Would this be the proper way of doing this? Thank you. Answer: […]
Is one piece of bread sufficient for it to count as a “bread meal”?
Question: Hello, Is one piece of bread sufficient for it to count as a “bread meal”? Thank you! Answer: One slice of bread is definitely enough to make your meal a bread meal. If one ate a “k’zayis”- (lit. an olive worth) of bread it is considered a bread meal. An olive’s worth is about […]
Frozen bread
Question: Can bread be taken from the freezer and then eaten as a bread meal without heating? Or is this considered disrespectful if the bread is not fresh and then not heated up? Answer: Your sense of respect for brachos is remarkable. Whenever we say a bracha on food it is prefferable that the food […]
EXCHANGING AN OLD MEZUZAH WITH A NEW
Question: If someone is changing his front door old MEZUZAH for a new more HIDUR MEZUZAH. IS A BRACHA MADE for the new one? The old one is kosher i believe, but the new one is HIDUR. Answer: Thank you for your question. What you are asking is a bit controversial, however most poskim say […]
Corona test on Friday
Question: Am I allowed to take a Corona test on a Friday in Israel? It seems almost certain that a Jew will be testing the samples or at least in putting the data on Shabbos to ensure we get our results within 24 hours. Thank you for this service Answer: Taking a corona test on […]
Maaser fulfillment through donating appreciated stocks
Question: Shimon receives a gift of $100,000 and wants to give maaser. Shimon has a stock portfolio with a base cost of $6,000 that appreciated to $10,000. Can Shimon donate the stock to a shul or Yeshiva and thereby fulfill his giving of maaser on the $100,000 gift? The 2nd part of the question is […]
Cheese on veggies made on fleishig stovetop
Question: I cooked parve veggies in a parve pan on burners that are used for fleishig. I then put cheese on the veggies and warned up in dairy betty Crocker/microwave. Is it ok Answer: Assuming that your burner didn’t have any wet fleishig on it at the time, the veggies and the pan are still […]
Can a gentile keep mitzvot
Question: If a gentile wishes to sincerely serve God can they keep mitzvot like wearing Tallit or taffilin Answer: A gentile may put on tefillin or tzitzit however he may not keep Shabbos or study torah. The proper way for a gentile to serve G-d is by keeping the 7 Noahide mitzvot properly. If he […]
Fasting with an eating disorder
Question: Hello, I have struggled with an eating disorder for a while now and I’m finally recovering well. I’m afraid that fasting might trigger my disorder again. Am I allowed to not fast certain fasts until I know it won’t trigger me? Answer: It is very possible, however it is hard to really answer you […]
MEZUZAH on GARAGE
Question: Im attaching a mezuzah to my garage. The garage is used for storage. Do I make a Bracha? Answer: It is controversial if we make a bracha on a place designated for storage, most poskim says that we do, and this seems to be the minhag. If you do make a bracha you definitely […]
nasal flush on a fast day
Question: My daughter suffers from sinusitis and uses a nasal flush daily. Some of the saline usually goes down the back of her throat, although it is not intentional or pleasant. Is she allowed to do the nasal flush on Asara b’teves (or any other fast day)? Answer: Thank you for your question. Even if […]
Torah study on a Christian date
Question: Shalom, today because it is a famous Christian date, is it forbidden to study torah? or gemoras? Answer: There are differant customs regarding learning torah from nightfall until midnight. Chassidim and some others have the custom not to learn then, however the rest of the night and daytime are fine. In fact according to […]
Yashrus with Online Course
Question: I paid for an online course with several sections. The course tracks the “completion” of each section, once the participant watches it. There is no professional component, it is just for personal education. If the course is “completed” within 90 days (ie the user has “watched” the entire course), the participant has lifelong access […]
Rating a Jewish company/product
Question: Is it Lashon Harah to rate a Jewish owned company/product with a rating less than 5 stars? (4 stars?) If yes, would one have to be mevarer to see if a company/product is owned by a Jew before giving a rating? Answer: If the company is a large company, then giving a 4 rating […]
Laced Top/Front Shaitels
Question: According to the opinions that shaitels are permitted (of course with appropriate length and style), what is the halacha when it comes to laced top/front shaitels? Ive heard that many people cant tell that these women wearing them are covering their hair. Answer: Correct this is indeed why numerous rabbonim say not to wear […]
Starting a 501(c)(3) nonprofit corporation with Maaser money
Question: Can Maaser money be used to begin a nonprofit organization? The purpose of the organization is to increase and improve Torah learning and help people donate money to Torah scholars. The money would be used to develop apps, create marketing collateral, etc. Please provide as thorough an answer as possible and resources for further […]
Fast day
Question: Can one have a regular doctor appointment for a physical on a minor fast day (esther) or is it preferable to choose another day if there are options? Answer: It is permitted to have a doctors appontment on a fast day. Have an easy fast and a good Shabbos
Shmiras Halashon & Discsussing Feelings
Question: To the Posek, I live in a VERY small Jewish community. The way the Rav’s wife dresses bothers me; the standards of tznius are possibly borderline from my perspective and lend itself to an improper message. I would like to discuss my feelings with a Rebbetzin from my hometown community who I respect; however, […]
What can you consume before Kiddush on Friday evening after 10 Tevet
Question: What can you consume before Kiddush on Friday evening after 10 Tevet? After end of fast we are invited for Shabbat dinner which might be quite a bit after the Tanit Assara Betevet has finished. Answer: Thank you for your question. We don’t eat or drink anything before making kiddush on Shabbos eve, and […]
Cursing a parent
Question: What are the parameters of the command not to curse one’s parents? If one gets in a fight with one’s parents, would cursing them out (using contemporary dirty words like… etc.) to oneself without them hearing be in violation of this command? If one has done this, what should one do after? Would saying […]
Kashering pot used with oil
Question: Hello, My wife was making donuts in a parve pot. The pot was filled with a couple of inches of hot oil. My wife mistakenly put a donut stuffed with milk chocolate into the oil. It is debatable weather or not there was 60 times oil to chocolate ratio (definitely not 60 oil to donut ratio) I assume […]
Sleeping on planes
Question: Al pi Kabbalah when one sleeps they should be careful not to sleep with there shoes on as this can cause one to forget their learning (if not mistaken). Based on that when one is sleeping on a plane, does he need to remove his shoes or is not really considered a “real” sleep? […]
minor fast
Question: If one has energy, may one exercise on a minor fast day? Answer: Yes you may do exercises on a minor fast day if you wish to do so. Best wishes Sources:
Saying layihudim loud during Havdalah
Question: Whats the orgins/source of those listening to havdolah to first say the phrase layehudim etc? Answer: I don’t have a good source for this minhag, however as with other minhagim, although we don’t know the reason, we still continue to do them. As the Rashba wrote, that we shouldn’t be lax regarding the minhagim […]
Definition of Koveah Seudah
Question: What does Koveah seduah mean? If one is Koveah seduah (on certain item) say hamozti and bentch. Thank you. Answer: Koveah Seuda means that the person is making this food and eating enough to consider it his meal. The halacha is mentioned in regard to eating certain types of mezonos, which are really a […]
Do sponges used for handwashing dishes need a hechser?
Question: Recently I noticed the hecsher from scotch brite sponges was removed. Does this signify that they are not kosher anymore? Or sponges dont need a hecsher anyway so it is irrelevant? Answer: If there is no soap added to the sponge there is no need for it to have a hechsher. Best wishes
genizah menorah box
Question: Does my outdoor menorah box require geniza? is it considered tashmishie kedusha? Answer: An outdoor menorah box does not require geniza, as it only services the menora which services the candles, and after chanukah is not even considered tashmish dtashmish. Therefore regarding shaimos there is no problem with throwing it in the garbage. If […]
Menorah and HANUKKAH
Question: Is the Menorah a religious symbol? Is Hanukkah or The Festival of Lights a religious service when the Menorah is lite using the Shamash and there are prayers blessings, and invocations to God? Answer: A menorah is a religious symbol, as it symbolizs the Festival of Lights. The Festival of Lights contains the service […]
Kappara for humiliating someone
Question: I was sitting at the table with my family and my wife said something. I disagreed with her and was careful not say something sharp or embarrassing to her in front of the children. This is not uncommon between us and a disagreement is not a source of any angst between us. She told […]
Waking friend for vasikin and gezel shayna
Question: A bachur asked me to come to his room to wake him for vasikin. I knew what room he was in, but due to the early hour and darkness when I entered the room I could not figure out what bed he is on (there are several people in the room). Am I allowed to […]
Shabbat bread meals
Question: Hello, could crackers be used in place of bread/challah? (for example triscuits?) Answer: Essentially, we should be eating bread, challah, etc. for the first two Shabbos meals, and not crackers, cake etc. If one is stuck in an extreme situation then there are times when it would be permitted. As a side point, there […]
Food questions for Shabbat
Question: B”H Regarding eating on Shabbat: 1. If someone uses a regular knife to put parve butter on bread (mindful not to “smooth” but just put the butter on the bread) and the knife leaves lines on the butter that it was taken from, are these lines a prohibition and then the food can’t be […]
5 tevet
Question: I know 10 tevet is a minor fast day. I saw reference to a opinion that 5th tevet should be observed as a fast? n 422 BCE, the prophet Ezekiel heard the news of Jerusalem’s conquest by a foreign power, as recorded in the biblical Book of Ezekiel (33:21). In Jewish law, a period […]
Hatmana in silver foil
Question: Is there a problem of hatmana on Shabbos if I completely cover my kugel (taken from the fridge) or challah with tin foil on my blech or on top of my chulent pot? Is there a difference between using a few layers of foil or just one layer? Answer: Placing food that is completely […]
Menorahs after Chanuka
Question: Could we throw out the cheap menorahs after Chanukah is over? Thank you Answer: Thank you for your question. My assumption is that you are not asking regarding baal tashchis, but if the menora is a mitzva object or not, and if it should go into shaimos. A menorah after one is finished using […]
Is it allowed to use money from maser to give Chanukah gelt to boys rebbi’s ?
Question: Is it allowed to use money from maser to give chanukah gelt to boys rebbei’s ? Answer: It is permitted to use maaser money when giving money to a child’s rebbi as Chanukah or Purim present. Although it is a widespread custom to do so, and parents like sending the rebbi money in order […]
Exchanging a book that was browsed thru
Question: I bought my wife a present, a cookbook. She did not make any of the dishes from the book, but she did browse thru it thoroughly. She now wants that I exchange it for a different book. Am I Halachically allowed, or is it considered geneivah? Answer: Thank you for your question. The answer […]
milchig spoon on fleishig counter
Question: My child was making milchig oatmeal in a very hot pot and then put the hot metal mixing spoon on a fleishig marble counter what is the status of the 1.spoon? 2 counter? Thank you Answer: The spoon would not need kashering as we can assum, that the counter was not used for hot […]
Credit card expense when giving maaser
Question: I would like to donate money to a charity in EY. I live in CA and if I pay by credit card I will be charged a foreign transaction fee. Would that be considered ma’aser (ie the fee) or not as the charity is not receiving this and theoretically I could get a card […]
Tearing plastic cover off book on shabbos
Question: Is it permitted to tear a plastic cover off a magazine or book on Shabbat? Someone told me it’s permitted if the plastic cover was partially torn from before Shabbat – does this make a difference? I tried to look it up in the hilchos shabbos book by Rabbi Ribiat. It said that it’s […]
Laundry in washing machine on Rosh Chodesh
Question: Hello, I feel terribly. I did laundry on Rosh Chodesh not realizing the day. I actually do not have the custom of not doing so (I am new to this) and am not married and used a washing machine vs hand washed but I still feel badly. I was doing some reading and see […]
bracha on chanuka lighting very late
Question: If you forgot to light chanuka candles and now it is close to midnight, can you light with a bracha? does it change things if you live alone? Thank you very much! Answer: It depends on where you live and who late there are people walking in the street and passing your home. People […]
Bedika with paper towel
Question: What to do if a woman cannot do a bedika because she says it hurts? She says that she can do it with a soft paper towel. Is that sufficient to do a hefseik tahara on the first day and the last day? Answer: If the area is dry there is an option to […]
How was it fair to punish the generation of the flood?
Question: If we believe there is no morality without Torah, then how was it fair to punish the whole world for larceny and immorality? What else could be expected of people at that time? We know they had tzadikim like Noach and Adam etc… fine, but who says that was a fair thing to expect […]
Maaser for Future Weddings & Extra Tuition
Question: My Financial Situation: I have approximately 6 months worth of savings plus a retirement account with approximately 6 months of savings in it. My income fluctuates. Without calculating maaser, I earn enough money to continue to put away the maximum allowable in my retirement account each year (19,500) while keeping my 6 months savings […]
Bedika question day 1
Question: So today was day 1 of Shiva nekiim. I performed morning bedika but not sure if I did it correctly like if I did it deep enough or rotated enough. I try to do both best of my ability but this time I second guessed myself so I waited a bit and did it […]
A question (Doubt) from torah
Question: Shalom, I heard once from a rabbi who says that Lili was actually Chavah’s daughter with Narash, and that after the separation of Adam and Chavah, he had a relationship with her and the Lilins were born, is that true? if so where is this Midrashim written? could you help me with that dear […]
Toveling a mandoline
Question: Hi, Would a mandoline slicer thats used primarily for slicing raw vegetables (ex. potatoes for chips) that will be cooked later require tevilla and if yes is the bracha said. if the answer is yes to both why would this be a kli seudah? thank you Answer: It should preferably be toveled. Although it’s […]