Question: There is a bachur that had a stroke, cannot daven on his own, and different bachurim take turns davening with him (standing next to him and being motzi him). I usually do it Friday by Mincha. Question is, is it a neder (I must do it every time) or could I ask someone to […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
where to daven
Question: Is it better to daven in one’s makom kavua in a beis medrash and b’rov am, or to daven in a shiva house (where they will have a minyan even if I don’t come)? On the one hand, there is a mitzvah to daven in your makom kavua, in a beis medrash, and with many […]
Bnei noach Food
Question: B”H Can a bnei noach eat meat mixture with milk, Pig among other foods forbidden to a Jew? Or should he follow the kashurut of the torah? Answer: It is totally permitted for them to do this. There is no obligation for them to follow these rules at all, as kashrus laws are only […]
My husband is working, and koveia itim. How do I come to a greater appreciation of his learning?
Question: Is it OK if I ask a hashkafa question? It’s not that I’m looking for new information, but I’m just trying to internalize some concepts. It’s really hard for me to relate to the concept of limud Torah, or, more specifically, to be machshiv my husband’s learning. My husband definitely feels good about his […]
dowloading pdf books
Question: According to what I understand, the United States copyright law says downloading for free, the pdf version of a copyrighted book that you don’t own, even for personal use, is illegal. Does this make it assur l’halacha because of Dina d’malchusa? And would it make a difference if I would have never have paid […]
Coloring Tzitzit Blue
Question: If today we no longer have the techelet, which was used to paint one of the threads of Tzitzit, with the color techelet, Sky blue, Since nowadays we have no more traces of this chilazon , can this tzitzis wire can be painted with other types of Paints? What halakha says about that, is […]
Meat utensil in dairy pot
Question: We accidentally used a meat utensil (silicone) in a dairy pot to make macaroni and cheese; the hot food was then placed in ceramic bowls. I believe that I need to kasher the pot and no longer use the silicone utensil for food, but do I need to do anything with the bowls? Answer: […]
Women using nail polish
Question: Is it a shilah according the halachah for a women to Thanks Answer: It isn’t clear from your question what topic you are asking about. On one hand, nail polish should not be worn in a way that it is eye catching, because that would not fit in with the proper tznius befitting of […]
Followup to a previous shaila
Question: Hi, I’d like to clarify that your response to #56724 refers to both of my 2 questions that I asked over here -https://dinonline.org/2020/06/08/need-to-reimbursemechila-for-small-damages/ – rather than to just the second question. Furthermore, does it make a difference that the boys’ parents don’t know (in the first case:) that I used the watergun without permission and (that in […]
Birkas Kohanim 2
Question: I Recently asked a question to Dinonine-https://dinonline.org/2020/06/24/birkas-kohanim/ Question: If one is next to a sefard minyan that does Birkas Kohanim should he or could he go listen even if he will miss a kadish or kedusha of uva letziyon? Answer: There is no obligation to answer kaddish etc. to other minyanim while you are […]
The extent of Rechilus
Question: Why does the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch (30-1) start by giving the case of Doeg relating to Shaul HaMelech that Achimelech gave Dovid bread and a sword? It was true and not a derogatory statement. Doeg didn’t know Shaul would be angry. Why is this rechilus? A more common example, I thought, would be relating […]
Lashon Hara and Kibbud Av V’em
Question: B”H Thank you so much for your help. A close relative is currently dealing with a medical condition that causes him to become confused and mix up details. I called him and he repeatedly called me by my siblings name, thinking that he was speaking to my sibling. I said (maybe a total of […]
Lubricant on Shabbas
Question: Hi, can one use liquid or silicone lubricant on Shabbos? Answer: It isn’t clear from your question which halachos you are referring to. My assumption is that you are asking in regard to memareiach- smearing. If it is runny and not thick it would be permitted, however if it is thicker than that it […]
Wearing mask on Shabbos when you don’t wear one during the week
Question: Is it muttar to wear mask on Shabbos, if by this time one no longer wears one during the week (since in some areas corona is BH down to less than one percent), but one will be attending a shul that still requires masks, or similar reasons? Answer: This question should be addressed to […]
Eating ice cream after wine
Question: When I eat a seuda with wine and ice cream, do I make a bracha on ice cream even though I already made hamotzi as well as hagofen? Would it be better to make a bracho on the ice cream before the wine? Answer: It is controversial if wine, which exempts all liquids from […]
Birkas Kohanim
Question: If one is next to a sefard minyan that does Birkas Kohanim should he or could he go listen even if he will miss a kadish or kedusha of uva letziyon? Answer: There is no obligation to answer kaddish etc. to other minyanim while you are davening, if you want you may. However if […]
Separate Seating at Chuppah
Question: I understand why there is a partition during the dancing of a wedding. But why do I often see separate seating during the ceremony of a wedding? Is there any Jewish source that dictates this custom or is it merely a custom amongst some communities? It just seems odd because those seated during the […]
How to wrap a tallis
Question: I have seen many (Ashkenazi) people put on tallis in a particular way: they bring the back half of the tallis to the front of their body and then put the entire tallis over their left shoulder. Is this the correct thing to do… an obligation or just a praiseworthy action? What is the […]
Forgetting to pay
Question: What is the halacha if someone rented a car service from a goy over a year ago, and now he remembers he forgot to pay the goy at the time. The goy never asked him for the money. Is he still mechuyav to pay or is it just a middas chassidus to pay now. […]
Tznius regarding undergarments
Question: Hi would like to ask the rabbi is there any concern to go with briefs underwear. If yes which one is recommended. Answer: Please see the following posts https://dinonline.org/2020/06/23/mens-undergarments-2/ and https://dinonline.org/2017/06/27/mens-undergarments/ Best wishes
Men’s undergarments
Question: HI Im used to wear boxer shorts for my undergarment and i wanna change for briefs is there any halachic problem with it? Thanks Answer: I can’t say that it is a halachic problem, however there is a preference to wearing boxer shorts or boxer briefs, because it isn’t snug against you, as snug […]
Cutting Bread on Shabbos
Question: Why in the act of cutting the bread in Shabbos With a knife or broke it with my hands, It’s not a melacha of Shabbos? Answer: The reason is because although we don’t grind things on Shabbos because of Mileches Tochain, however this melacha will not apply to bread because the wheat was already […]
Wrong utensil used milchig/fleishig
Question: I made onions & eggs in a dairy pan using large oil spray on a designated for milchig induction burner but used a designated for meat silicone spatula that had not been used in 24 hrs if ever (it’s a new set). Is the pan still milchig? Is the spatula still okay for fleishig? […]
Pants not modest for men
Question: I read your response https://dinonline.org/2016/09/19/immodest-pants/ to the issue of pants not being modest for men. But the correspondent who submitted this question complained that other rabbanim gave him beat around the bush answers, and now you are doing the same. You agree that pants are not tzniut for men but you do not prohibit them […]
Friends before Marriage
Question: Thank you for this article, https://dinonline.org/2020/06/18/kosher-dating/ about Kosher Dating. Is it proper for a Jewish man or woman to have lots of friends of the opposite gender whether they are in person or online before deciding on the one to get married to? Answer: This doesn’t sound proper or realistic. It sounds like the main […]
Confusion of utensils w/new coated parve electric frying pan
Question: I have a new silicone coated electric frying pan that I used to make something that was for sure large. I had intended to put it away for Pesach but then used it instead to make a parve meaI. I used a utensil to remove the food but do not remember if it was […]
Pronunciation of daled in front of Hashem’s name
Question: I recently asked what’s the correct pronunciation of Hashem’s name when it has a daled in front of it. I was asked where the that appears. I’ve seen it many times in unkelos and once in uva letzion. Also, if you say it wrong in shnayim mikrah are you yotzei? Answer: Correct, the rule […]
Stimulus Payment for a Yeshiva Bachur
Question: My 18 year old son can theoretically apply for the $1200 Stimulus Payment that the American government is giving out this year in wake of corona. In 2019, we did not list him as a dependent. However, it says on the application: “Do not use this tool if you can be claimed as a […]
How unwell does someone need to be for a refuah shleima
Question: How unwell does someone need to be to say a refuah shleima for them? For example, is it permitted if somebody had a serious virus and although they no longer have it, they are still recovering and very weak and tired? For example, is it permitted for a pregnant woman who is tired and […]
Kosher dating
Question: I recently came across an article on Din Online which discusses various issues relating to mixed gender zoom mingling. The answer mention a number of violations of Torah law that are relevant. Most notable for me were: ושמרתם מכל דבר רע. As well as ואל אשה בנדת טומאת לט תקרבו לגלות ערוה. The full […]
Asking a borrower for my money
Question: Hi 4 years ago I lent someone a lot of money for a period of 10 months. When I ask him 10 months later he told me that he was taking in by a scheme a lost the money. He said he will work to pay me back. Over the 4 years at one […]
Does a nefel have a nefesh
Question: Is there an inyan to say tehilim or give tzedaka or do mitzvos liluyi nishmas a nefel (who was given a name and buried) or is it considered in the Torah as if he doesn’t have a nefesh since it was born dead and didn’t live for 30 days. Answer: Whether he has a […]
Maaser before taxes vs. after taxes?
Question: Hi, If we are giving 10% maaser from our income before paying income taxes Vs somebody who gives 10% maaser after paying income taxes, in essence is person who gives before income tax giving more? For example, if two people made $50,000 income each. – One gives maaser from top giving10% from $50,000 = […]
Nefillat apaim when davening outside
Question: In order to minimize the risk of spreading COVID-19, we have moved our davening from the sanctuary of the synagogue to an outside area in which the Succah is constructed during the Succot. The open area is behind the sanctuary and adjacent to the social hall. We have sifrei torah in the aron in […]
Kiddush Night wine
Question: In case I have a bottle of wine and used to make the kiddush last week, left wine in it can I use for the next Shabath to make the kiddush? Answer: You may use the remaining wine inside the bottle for kiddush this week. As a side point, there is an idea, that […]
Is tzedakah time sensitive per year?
Question: H 1. If one didn’t give the minimum required amount of tzedakah not necessarily maaser (I read its 1/3 a silver shekel) for a few years is one required to backpay it? Is it time dependent per year? And the obligation ends when the new year begins? 2. Also are their any authorities who […]
Do you need to eat a kezayis of the bread you made hamotzi on?
Question: Do you need to eat a kezayis of the bread you made hamotzi on? For example, at seudah shlishit, if you have two shalem less tasty breads and one half-eaten tastier bread – after saying hamotzi on one of the shalems, is it ok to eat the kezayis from the half-eaten tastier bread that […]
Cut onion with meaty knife and cooked in pareve pan
Question: I cut an onion with a meaty knife. And then cooked it in a parev pan (with minimal oil). I realised before the onion got too hot – i was able to touch it… so perhaps it wasn’t yad soledos bo but that is a sufek. What is the status of the onion and […]
Loshon Hora and Shiduchim
Question: I am asked about a boy for a possible shidduch. I “heard” he has OCD problems, although not manifest and I have not personally seen it when I have previously interacted with him. I am asked, “does he have any problems like OCD?” What should be my response? Another person advised me not to […]
loshon hora
Question: My friend needs a handyman to do the exact same thing that I had him fix last week. The handyman did a very poor, and messy job. I was dissatisfied with his work. Can I tell my friend my experience with this handyman? Is it loshon hora to do so? What should I do, […]
Is Zoom Mingling Permitted?
Question: Is it a breach of modesty for a single Bas Yisroel to organize Zoom events (whether it is private or public) with the sole intention of mingling with the opposite gender? Thank you. Answer: This is a topic that isn’t easy for people to hear, because there is indeed a very big yetzer hora […]
Dental work during the three weeks
Question: I have an appointment at my dental surgeon to have implants done on the first day of the nine days. Can I keep that appointment or should I change the appointment for after the nine day Answer: If the procedure involves any danger, if possible it is preferable to postpone it until after the three […]
Adding oil to cholent on shabbos
Question: I like my cholent with lots of oil in it. By the time the seudah comes on Shabbos my cholent isn’t as oily as I would like it. My question is that am I able to take the cholent off the blech, pour in more oil and then put it back on to the […]
Can taxes be subtracted from my income regarding maaser?
Question: What is subtracted from the amount of tzedaka you should pay? Are expenses subtracted? Tax? Assuming that expenses are subtracted, would a fee paid to an accountant to file your taxes count as an expense? Answer: Expenses that a business has, which are needed for the running of the business are not considered profit, […]
Why is it mutter to use Shabbos belt to carry keys
Question: Why is it permissible to use a Shabbos belt to carry keys – the belt isn’t necessary to keep my pants up. Doesn’t the belt needed to serve a function? Answer: When Shabbos keys are made as a part of the belt, the intention is that they are worn to hold up one’s pants. […]
Infusion of taste through soaking
Question: If you left parev liquid in a milky bowl, does the liquid become milky? Would it make a difference if the liquid was hot or cold? Thank you very much Answer: It shouldn’t be done if you are planning to eat it with meat, but in retrospect, the pareve food that was soaked in […]
Infusion of taste with dvar charif
Question: If you cut a dvar charif (like an onion) with a meat knife, and then eat the onion, do you become meaty and need to wait before eating milky? Answer: No you don’t . Please see the following post https://dinonline.org/2020/06/15/infusion-of-taste-nat-bar-nat/ Best wishes Sources:
Infusion of taste via soaking
Question: If I’m not mistaken, meaty or milky flavour can be absorbed into a food via soaking (without heat). Is this for example a pareve food soaking in milk becomes milky? Is it even if a pareve food soaks in a pareve liquid in a milky bowl – does that become milky ? Answer: It […]
Infusion of taste – Nat bar nat
Question: If you cut a dvar charif like an onion with a meaty knife and then eat the onion, are you then meaty and have to wait before eating milky? Answer: You do not have to wait. The reason is because the absorbed taste that was eaten is not strong, as it is only nat bar nat. […]
Talis Gadol by Mincha
Question: Shalom, is there a halakha prohibiting the use of talis in Mincha prayer? Answer: It isn’t the minhag for the tzibbur to wear one, although in some places the chazzan wears one for kavod hatzibbur. Other than that I am not aware of any prohibition against wearing one. Best wishes