The Rema in c. m. 163:1 says when a city votes the people get together and voice their vote. Also the beer heitiv in 231 says the same and adds that if the shamash sends a paper to each house to vote yes or no it is not valid the would seem from r. akiva […]
Author Archives: Rabbi Yehoshua Pfeffer
Wearing Tefillin for Chazakah
K’vod haRav, I have a few questions on keeping a spare pair of tefillin b’chezkas kashrus: 1. How often does one need to wear tefillin (e.g. a spare pair) to keep them b’chezkas kashrus? Is once a month sufficient? 2. Is it sufficient each time to wear them long enough to say krias Shma or […]
The Halachic Principles of Tircha De-Tzibura
This week’s article addresses the issue of tircha de-tzibura, burdening the public. What is the halachic definition of this concept? Does it involve an actual prohibition, or is it only a virtue and a worthy practice? When it is forbidden to burden the public, and when might it be permitted? These questions, and more, are addressed in this week’s article.
Keeping you’r Word: A Moral Obligation
One of the basic distinctions known to secular civil law is the distinction between promises and contracts. A contract must be honored, and failure to honor a contract can be penalized by law. A promise, however, does not fully bind a person, and breaking a promise draws no legal sanction. In the present article we […]
Parashas Chukas – can Kohanim fly over Graves ?
In Parashas Chukas we learn about the spiritual defilement of a corpse, tumas mes: “This is the Torah: If a person dies in a tent, everything that enters the tent, and all that there is in the tent, shall be defiled for seven days” (Bamidbar 19:14). One of the principle special halachos relevant for Kohanim […]
Chukas – Kohanim At Kivrei Tzaddikim
The question of a Kohen’s visit to burial sites of our righteous ancestors is a matter that commentaries and halachic authorities have discussed for hundreds of years. Do the burial sites of the righteous impart ritual impurity (tumas mes), and is there a halachic permit for Kohanim to visit them? This week’s article discusses the issue, from its primary sources through to practical conclusions.
Reciting Berachos in Case of Doubt
Rabbi, If one has a doubt whether he said or not brochoh acharona (shehakol, al hamichya, etc.), does he has to say it “again”? Thanks, RG Answer: For most berachos, where one has a doubt as to whether the berachah was said or not, one should not say it over again. However, where the berachah […]
Timing of the Pidyon Ha-Ben
We read in Parashas Korach about the obligation of Pidyon Ha-Ben: “All first-born of man and animals shall be yours [the Kohen’s]. But the first born of man must be redeemed … from the age of one month. The redemption price is the value of five sanctuary shekels [of silver], each weighing twenty gerah” (Bamidbar 18:15-16).
In the present article we will discuss the timing of Pidyon Ha-Ben. The Torah states that the Pidyon must take place “from the age of one month” – but when precisely is the time to perform the Pidyon? When is the Pidyon performed when the time falls on Shabbos? Is a Pidyon performed at night? What if the first day for the Pidyon falls on a fast day? These questions, are discussed below.
Money Back for Food that Never Came
My wife called up a local Kosher Take out food restaurant which is located inside of the local big chain grocery store to order some food for Shabbos. She placed the order and paid by credit card. The person taking the order said that the order would be ready for pick up . She said […]
When Do We Need Hataras Nedarim
If one decided and said that one will not buy a certain vitamin and then after further research decided to buy a vitamin does one need to matir neder. b) Very similar question, if one says I will not give tzedeka over the phone but one time makes an exception and gives tzedeka to an […]
Overflowing Cups for Havdallah
The poskim bring down that we should overflow our cups of wine for havdalah and this is a good siman. The gemara says we should eat certain foods on rosh hashana and they are simina milsa? What does that mean? Are we saying that this act should bring us hatzlacha in the future? Answer: The […]
Parashas Korach – The Mitzvah of Techeiles
This week’s article discusses the specific mitzvah of techeiles. Recent claims to the identification of the source of techeiles have brought the halachic issue to the fore of halachic debate. What is the obligation of affixing techeiles to one’s tzitzis? What is the halachic status of “safek techeiles”? What are the laws of tying techeiles? This week’s article will deal with these questions and more, together with an introduction detailing the historical loss and claim re-discovery of techeiles.
Making Up a Minyan with Non-Observant Jews
The ten meraglim (the spies), whose sorry tale is narrated at the opening of Parashas Shelach, are termed an eidah – an assembly or congregation.
Concerning the mitzvah of Kiddush Hashem, the Gemara (Sanhedrin 74b)derives from the Torah’s description of the spies that all ten people before whom the Kiddush Hashem is performed must be Jewish. Although the spies were wicked people, and according to the Sages they were even heretics (claiming that Hashem did not have the power to bring the nation into the Land of Israel), they still formed an assembly.
Based on this derivation, Rav Moshe Feinstein (Iggros Moshe Vol. 1, no. 23) writes that the same halachah applies to saying Kedushah with a minyan: Under extenuating conditions, even non-observant Jews constitute a minyan for Kedushah.
Rav Moshe adds that the principle does not apply to completing a minyan for tefillah be-tzibbur, but states that under extenuating circumstances one should look for a minyan even of secular Jews, for this will at least be effective for purposes of Kedushah.
Although Rav Moshe Feinstein gave only a brief reply to the question, the matter of joining secular, non-observant Jews in a minyan has been discussed at length by a number of authorities. In the article below we will present a short discussion of the subject, explaining some of the angles from which the issue has been approached, and delineating some of the practical considerations involved.
“Every Mother and Daughter” – Should Daughters Light Shabbos Candles?
The Yalkut on Parashas Behaalosecha (719) mentions a connection between lighting Shabbos candles and the light of the Menorah: “The glory of Shabbos – its candles are its glory. If you light the candles of Shabbos, I shall show you candles of Zion, as it says: It shall be at that time I shall search for Jerusalem with candles.”
By being meticulous in lighting Shabbos candles, we merit to see the future candles of Zion.
In the present article we will address the common question of whether unmarried girls should light candles alongside their mother, or whether it is preferable that they should not light. Also, what is the halachah of married daughters who spend Shabbos with parents? How should a number of families who are sharing the same house light candles?
These questions, among others, are addressed below.
Shavuos – The Dairy – Meat Combination
The present article addresses the custom of eating dairy foods on Shavuos, a custom that is. What is the relationship between the two obligations? What are the requirements of the respective mitzvos? Which parts of Torah take precedence? These, and more questions, are discussed in the article below.
Returning Matzos to Store
At home I was unloading the items I bought from a grocery store and found a box of matzos which I did not pay for and did not order. I assume either it belongs to one of the people before me at the check out counter (who forgot to take it or somehow) or it […]
Lashon Hara in Shidduchim
This week’s article concludes our three-week study of the laws lashon hara, and specifically addresses the issue of shidduchim, which is perhaps the issue in which questions of lashon hara arise most frequently. How are shidduchim investigations to be conducted? Which questions should be answered, and which should be evaded? We will seek to outline the general principles of speaking lashon hara in the context of shidduchim, and mention the halachic details that result.
Haircut on Lag Ba-Omer on Sunday
Am I allowed to cut my hair tomorrow, Friday the 26th? Answer: It is permitted to take a haircut tomorrow (the Friday before Lag Ba’Omer that falls on Sunday). Sources: The Darchei Moshe (493:1) mentions two opinions concerning this question, the Maharil being stringent and Mahari Weil being lenient. The Rema (2) rules that it […]
Quoting Half-Pesukim
Is it mutar to qoute half of a pasuk or to paraphrase a pasuk in a speech? Thank You Answer: Yes, it is permitted to quote or paraphrase a pasuk. Sources: We find in countless places in Chazal that half-pesukim are quoted, and therefore it is clear that there is no prohibition on quoting half […]
Jewish Employee on Shabbos
Is it a permitted to hire a jew who has no sheichis to yiddishkeit (tinok shenishba)as a weekend eployee where he will be working on shabbos? Secondly, Is it my obligation as a boss to not allow a jew with no sheichis to yiddishkeit who is an everyday employee to work on a yom tov […]
Fasting on “Behab”
Regarding the fasting on Monday, Thursday, Monday after Pesach & Succus. If it is too hard too fast all 3 days – is it better to fast until midday on each day or perhaps fast only one of the 3 days? Thank you. Answer: This is an interesting question. Although I see the merit in […]
Haircut in Omer
Is there any way I can trim my hair during the omer? It looks unruly, and it makes me anxious. Also, my work requires me to look especially groomed, and people are beginning to comment. Is there anything I can do before lag ba’omer? Answer: If leaving your hair long will affect your income, it […]
Waiting after Eating Cheese
What are the different opinions regarding cheese in Eretz Yisroel re the inyan of hard cheese? Answer: There is no need to wait six hours after eating regular yellow cheese in Israel before eating meat. Best wishes. Sources: The Rema (Yoreh De’ah 89:2) writes that one must wait after eating hard cheese before eating meat. […]
Informing on Others: Mitzvah or Prohibition?
Last week we began to discuss the laws of lashon hara, focusing in particular on the fact that although lashon hara is a severe issur, the prohibition is waived in circumstances of to’eles. When speaking lashon hara has a constructive purpose, it is permitted—provided a list of conditions, as detailed below, is fulfilled. Indeed, it […]
Mitzvah Performance: At All Costs?
At the outset of Parashas Tazria we read that the mitzvah of Bris Milah is performed on the eighth day of an infant’s life: “On the eighth day you shall circumcise the flesh of his foreskin.”
Surface that Can’t be Kashered
If you move into a house that has been previously lived in by goyim, and the bench tops in the kitchen are made of finished wood with some thin plastic type material covering it so that it can’t be kashered, are you allowed to place hot foods directly on those benches? If no, are you […]
Ashrei Before Mussaf
On a day when mussaf is recited, an individual for some reason must daven mussaf later on in the day rather at the standard time within the shacharis service. Should this later mussaf be accompanied with Ashrei before and aleinu afterwards, or should it be recited on it’s own? Answer: There is not obligation to […]
Transported Tree for Orlah
We have just had some fruit trees planted in out backyard in Israel. The trees are all over three years old and were transplanted with at least some dirt from the nursery. Do we need to count orlah and neta Revii for these trees? Answer: If the amount of earth that the trees were transported […]
Kashering Diamonds
Question: Can one kasher aluminum made with diamonds (Swiss Diamond), i.e. does it have the status of “even” (a stone)? Here is a description: Diamond crystals are the hardest material known to man. Incorporate them into cookware and you have the revolutionary Swiss Diamond. As the winner of the coveted international Gold Metal Inventors Award, […]
Superstition and Kaballah
If according to the Torah we are not allowed to believe in superstitions are we allowed to believe in ein hara and kaballah? Answer: In general you are right in that the Torah warns us to avoid superstitions and irrational behavior. This is the Rambam’s interpretation of the Torah instruction “tamim tihiyeh im Hashem Elokecha” […]
Fasting with Spasm Condition
My son recently became bar mitzvah. I am writing to ask you as to what he should do in the future about fasting on the six annual fasts. Three years ago this summer, my son was in a swimming pool for a few hours. He possibly became dehydrated, and shortly after coming out of the […]
Student Bus Pass
For the last 2 years, there has been a course for men at a religious girls’ college. You sign up and pay for the 10 week course, and they issue you a student card. With that you go to Egged, change the Rav Kav profile to “Student” and then you can buy a year’s bus/train […]
Kibbud Av for Molester
I can’t ask this from my rabbi. My father molested me twice as a kid. I am in normal contact with him but it kills me to be civil. Do I have an obligation of kibbud av? He did the unthinkable after all. Answer: I am sorry to hear about this terrible situation. There is […]
Selling Sefarim
is it mutar sell one’s personal for seforim for any or all of the following reasons: 1) to buy different seforim 2) just for the $ Answer: If one has old sefarim that one doesn’t use, it is permitted to sell them. One should preferably use the money for buying new books, but this is […]
Paying for Stretching after Shabbos
Can I hire a non-Jew to come to my house on Shabbos to help me stretch? I enjoy stretching, and it helps me relax. Payment is made during the week. Answer: Yes, if no violation of the Shabbos is involved in the work he does for you, there is no problem of him coming to […]
Conference in Non-Kosher Restaurant
Hi Is it permitted to enter a non kosher restaurant in order to attend a medical conference/meeting? (of course no eating!) Thanking you. Answer: If your attendance is important It is permitted for enter the restaurant for this purpose. Nonetheless, it is generally preferable to avoid this. Best wishes. Sources: In principle it is not […]
Parashas Pekudei – The Two Months of Adar: Which is the True Month?
As we approach the onset of the second month of Adar—Adar Sheini—we dedicate this week’s article to the oft-confusing identification of the “true” month of Adar. As we shall see, classifying the “principle” month of Adar might have ramifications that embrace a wide range of halachic issues. In which of the Adar months is a bar-mitzvah celebrated? When is a yahrzeit commemorated? Which of the two months is considered Adar for legal purposes? These issues, among others, will be discussed in this week’s article.
Flu Shot
The concept of getting a flu shot is simple: get one so you and those around you don’t get infected. I’m 15 years old and am in school all day, then take public transit home and finally am susceptible to the flu because my immune system isn’t so great. I am in a very good […]
Coke and Beer for Kiddush
Hello a Rabbi here holds that coke is chamar medina to make kiddush on, what is the Rav’s opinion? Also is beer or whisky considered chamar medina? Answer: Although some authorities are lenient concerning this matter, it is better to refrain from using Coca Cola as chamar medina. Beer and whisky are generally considered to […]
Returning Found Tallis
Hi Rabbi, We found a talis with a silver atarah on it near a park… It was kind of folded on the stair wall ledge. We had no one to ask around. My kid came to the shul to ask me. (I wasn’t with the family.) In the end my wife put the atarah underneath […]
Starting Seder Early
Question: When is the earliest time one can start the Seder if one has elderly people at his Seder? Can one follow the Gra? Whats the Gra shita in the New York area? Answer: One should not start the Seder before nightfall (tzais ha-kochavim), because all the mitzvos of the night must be fulfilled after […]
Bowing Before Judo Class
In Judo, at the beginning and end of a class the students and the teacher bow down by kneeling on the knees and touching their face to the floor. Is this permissible for a Jew to do? I have been told that is not related to idol worshiping at all but is merely a sign […]
Humidifier on Shabbos
Hope the Rav is doing well! My children have coughs and cool air humidifiers seem to help their coughs. Can one run a humidifier on Shabbos? There is no electricity involved other then the on bottom. It sounds like a fan. Can one refill the water once it eventually evaporates? One can not see the water turning […]
Paying More for Sefer as Helping Out
Someone went to a machaber of a sefer to buy his sefer for 50 shekels. The person didn’t have money but the machaber let him take the sefer anyway and to pay him back at a different time. When the guy came to pay for the sefer he gave him a 100 shekels instead of […]
Non-Observant Shaliach Tzibbur
Are there any heterim that allow someone who is not Shomer Shabbos to daven for the amud? Let’s assume the person does believe in Hashem. Answer: I have not seen any heterim for allowing somebody who does not keep Shabbos (and desecrates Shabbos publicly) to be a shaliach tzibbur. Somebody who violates Shabbos publicly is […]
Adding Cover on Cholent
If someone put a cholent on a blech or platta that wasn’t yet fully cooked. Is it ossur to put on top of it a towel (on shabbos in a way that there is no problem of hatmana) because this might “speed up” the bishul. What about to put on top of it challas, could […]
Baruch Sheptarani for Women (and for single mother)
Is there a reason for the mother of a Bar Mitzvah to ask someone to recite sheptorani (the father is not Jewish)? Some hold that the grandfather may say sheptorani when the Bar Mitzvah’s father has passed away, but in my humble opinion the mother has no obligation at all to recite this blessing. Thank […]
Mourning over Non-Observant Family
Is their any obligation of Aveilus for a relative who doesn’t keep any mitzvos and is not frum at all? The Kitzur S.A. writes explicitly that those who have thrown the yoke of mitzvos from their necks are not mourned over. Answer: The Rema (Yoreh De’ah 340:5) writes (based on the Or Zaru’a) that even […]
Yichud with Husband in Town
I know a therapist for young children that does therapy in children’s homes. Does one have to be concerned about yichud in the following cases that sometimes occur: a) The gentile child’s mother and father are home. Does having a wife around apply to Gentiles. If only the gentile husband is home b) The therapists […]
Somebody Sitting in Fixed Place
How important is a Mokom Kavouah for Tefilla on a daily basis in the same Minyan (time wise) when a non member of the Shul – in a Shul where by the rules of membership there are non fixed seats but de-facto there are, always takes a seat that he knows and has been told […]