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Handshakes

It is commonplace to have agreements and pledges among other things done with a handshake. But do we see any places involving a handshake in the Torah? In five places, Yaakov’s name is written full, with the letter ו (יעקוב), while Eliyahu is spelled missing a ו in five places (אליה). Yaakov took a letter from Eliyahu’s name as security so that Eliyahu will come and herald the redemption of Yaakov’s children.[1] The Maharal[2] explains that the giving of a security was sealed by a handshake.[3] The letter ו resembles a finger, so five of them represent the hand, which finalizes the giving of security. By taking the ו from Eliyahu five times, Yaakov took his “hand” as a security to ensure that he would redeem his children. This is also alluded to through the fact that the numerical value of ו is six and five multiplied by six is 30. This leads us to the Mishna[4] that says that the hand is composed of thirty segments.

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Where do we find in the Torah a source for shaking a person’s hand when you greet them? R’ Dessler[5] (1892-1953) once explained that greeting and blessing someone (when you greet a person with shalom, it is a form of bracha) with a handshake is sourced in the Torah. Why did Yaakov need to put his hands on Efraim and Menashe when giving them a bracha?[6] The answer is that when there is a connection between the one giving the bracha and the one receiving it, through the hands, at the time of the giving of the bracha, the bracha has a stronger effect. Similarly, the Tiferes Shlomo[7] (1801-1866) says that the hands serve as the conduit for the bracha. This is why people greet each other with a handshake.



[1] Vayikra 26:42, Rashi.

[2] Gur Aryeh, Vayikra 26:42.

[3] See Mishlei 6:1,3.

[4] Ohalos 1:8.

[5] Sefer Zikaron to Michtav M’Eliyahu, 2.

[6] Breishis 48:14.

[7] Tiferes Shlomo, Moadim, Shemini Atzeres, s.v. shivas. See also Rimzei Pesach, s.v. mipnei. Also Cited in Shalom Rav, p. 72.

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