Question: dear rabbi, the hohen feiertage are nearing and maybe an opportunity for meeting the bashert – אויב דער אויבערשטער וויל. in any case shammai was straight. women nowadays seem to look for love. that is not the base for a marriage. isn’t it totally wrong to long for love in the other gender before […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Using honeycomb honey on Rosh Hashana
Question: Would honey packaged with the bee’s wax (honey comb) be kosher? A religious friend suggested that there may be bee particles in the honey, therefore, rendering it unkosher. I have never heard of this situation and we have been buying honey for several years. Shana Tova, Answer: The idea your friend brought up is […]
Opening a coconut on sabbath
Question: Dear Rabbi, Would it be permitted to open a coconut on sabbath? It is a very hard shell and requires a tool or just a strike against a surface. I will likely prepare mine in advance but I wondered if it was a halachaic error. I strike it on a cement front step. Thanks. […]
Baby bris exceptions to delay or change
Question: If a woman gives birth to a baby boy by Cesarean section, and the date of the bris lands on a Rosh Hashana or yom kippur or shabbat? Can the date of the bris be changed to a different day? By the way, other than the delivery by the C-section, baby is well The […]
G-d’s name in Nechemiah 13
Question: Please see Nechemiah 13:1. This verse quotes Devorim 23:4. Why change Hashem to Ha-Elokim? Similarly, why does Verse 2 substitute elokeinu for Hashem elokecha. Answer: Two interesting point, but unfortunately I don’t have an answer for you. I looked around but I haven’t seen anyone who talks about these points. Kesiva Vchasima Tova
Employing two halachos L’Moshe M’Sinai at same time
Question: I remember learning that there may be an issue of using two halachos L’Moshe M’Sinai at the same time (Rabbi Akiva Eiger maybe?). Halacha l’maaseh can one make a sukkah employing lavud and gud asik which is very commonly used by many? Attached: Attached file 1 Answer: R’ Akiva Eiger (Shut) 1-12 says it […]
Am I allowed to reinvest interest/dividend income?
Question: Hi. I understand that in giving tzdaka in the form of ma’aser any profits I have from investments held are subject to ma’aser. I have investments in funds that pay dividends. Since they are funds that are meant to be held over the long term (40 years), my bank has given me the option […]
Lashon Hara Bal Teshuva
Question: Hello, Thank you for your help. My question is: Is it lashon hara for a bal teshuva to say in social settings that they are a bal teshuva, or does this transgress any laws of not speaking lashon hara because to say that one is bal teshuva indicates that the family of origin is […]
Lashon Hara on a Non Jew
Question: Is it permitted to speak Lashon Hara about a Non-Jew, i.e. “The President of blank country is a very mean person” ? Answer: Lashon Hora does not apply to gentiles, as it says in the posuk, “lo telech rochil bamecha”, “ don’t spread slander in your nation” and he is not from our nation […]
Chol Hamoed Work
Question: We purchased a new house and had lots of leaking from the roof – mould etc. The Contractor has been a nightmare. The kablan has agreed to bring a roofer to repair the roof and has asked to do so during Chol Hamoed before the rainy season. Is this considered a Dvar Avad as […]
Tachanun During Selichos when at a Bris
Question: Do we say Tachanun at the end of Selichos when there is a Bris at the end of davening? Answer: If the selichos is before also hashachar, everyone agrees that tachanun is said. Even after daybreak it is controversial, and according to a number of poskim we still say tachnun. This is because the […]
Maaser for money given to buy a specific thing and maaser to one’s children
Question: I was given money by someone to buy a specific thing for my child, do I need to give maaser from this money? I’ve given maaser for years from my income but this year things are very tight. My husband says I really should be using the maaser to buy our children what they […]
Bracha for Pretzilla brand Soft Pretzel Bread Bites
Question: What is the bracha for Pretzilla brand Soft Pretzel Bread Bites. They are bite-size soft pretzel made for a snack, but the same as any soft pretzel. Answer: Since it is made and looks like it is made for a snack, the bracha will be mezonos, unless you are going to eat a real […]
asara mispallelim and maariv
Question: I came 5 minutes late to Maariv at shul X where there are more than asara mispallelim. Should I try to quickly catch up and then daven SE (doable, though I will need to rush), OR go to shul Y where they did not start davening yet but they do not (and will not, […]
Brochas and Korbanos before selichos
Question: Can I recite the morning brochas and korbanos before selichos? Thank You! Answer: Not only can you, but you should say some of them before selichos. You should say al netilas yodayim, asher yotzar, and Birkas Hatorah before saying selichos. Best Wishes
bread from non jews
Question: thank you for everything yo uare doing.. the question…. some weeks ago bibi prime minister of IL went with official visit to ukraine and was welcomed with bread and salt. ( in ukraine tradition they welcome guests with bread and salt and you supposed to try the bread…. my question is how to react […]
kashrut of supplements
Question: My doctor has recommended that a take a sublingual spray supplement to boost my energy and immunity. One of the ingredients in it is bovine colostrum. Am I allowed to take it? Answer: In consultation with a kashrus professional, taking the supplement is problematic. This is because even if we assume that the colostrum […]
Follow on question – Two Brothers marrying two sisters
Question: Just following on the question that I found the site https://dinonline.org/2016/01/18/2-sisters-marrying-2-brothers/ I once heard, that if they do, the brothers cannot live in the same city, is this true? Answer: Before answering your question, it should be noted that such topics should be discussed in person with one’s personal Rov. See Nitei Gavriel […]
gud achis under a deck/balcony
Question: Kvod HaRav, on Shabbos with no eruv, can one carry from the house ground floor out a door to the area under a deck/balcony? The deck has walls taller than 10 tefachim, so do we say gud achis and view those walls as if they “extend” to the ground? I assume pi tikra does […]
Kesubos 110 – Living in a city
Question: On Kesubos 110b Rabbi Yose ben Chanina uses Nechemiah 11:2 to show that living in a city is difficult. Given the circumstances of Yerushalayim in the days of Nechemiah, how can Rabbi Yose extrapolate from here to all cities? Answer: You are asking an interesting question. The sefer Zechor Lavrohom (brought in Yalkut Biurim […]
asara rishonim
Question: There is a mitzvah to be from the asara rishonim, and this mitzvah applies to all three tefillos. If one came to shul for Maariv (first person there) but he is a katan, and at tzeis he became a gadol, does he fulfill the mitzvah – when he came in, he didn’t count for […]
mikva while under the weather
Question: Is it better to push off going to the mikva or go and not be together? Answer: It is better to go, regarding being together, that will depends on what the two of you feel. Even if you aren’t together, there are still advantages. Best Wishes
Handling wet netilas yadayim cup
Question: After using a cup for netilas yadayim for bread, and then eating some of the bread, is it a problem to then touch or handle the wet netilas yadayim cup? Answer: If you are going to wash each hand with a revii’s of water, or you are going to pour the water over each […]
Relieving oneself near Jewish graves
Question: please help me and clarify this question. a friend of mine. who is good jew, we went together to kever tsaddikim to visit in Ukraine. and he wanted to urinate so badly after we visited grave actually it was in the field but in the grave lines there were so many graves. so he […]
Honey on Rosh Hashana
Question: Which honey to use on rosh hashan? Bee or date? Answer: The point of eating the honey is that it is sweet, and it is a siman that we should have a sweet year, common practice is to use bee honey, but I don’t know if that is specific or just because we don’t […]
At what point may we cook wine to avoid yayin nesech and stam yainum
Question: I would like to make my own wine. However I will not be able to watch over it the entire time to assure it has not been touched by a nuchri. May I cook the grapes in hot water PRIOR to adding in yeast and any extra sugar I want to put in, and […]
minyan
Question: I am getting paid to daven in a minyan where there are 6 or 7 mispallelim (others are just sitting). I am also getting paid to learn beforehand. However, I am makpid to daven with a minyan of ten mispalellim. There is a beautiful minyan available to me where there are many dozens of […]
Hafkaas halvah
Question: In the classic case of hafkaas halvaah the borrower tells the children of the malveh who passed away that the chov was paid up when actually it wasn’t. Isn’t there an issue of midvar sheker? Answer: If the child of the lender asks for the money back because he knows that the money was […]
Relations with Bnai Noach
Question: Is a Jew allowed to have a non-Jewish wife who is not a shifcha knaanis but is a BAS NOACH. In other words, even according to the elusive gemara in the name of Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai that says it is prohibited (derabannan) to marry an OVED KOCHAVIM, if a non-Jew is NOT one […]
Mirrors to be mitztaref for bentching
Question: If 2 chaburos are eating in same house and they only see eachother through a mirror can they be mitztaref for a zimun? Answer: The two chaburos are not mitztaref to a zimun. Although they can technically see each other, but they are not actually seeing each other, but only a picture of the […]
Working the night shift- Shachart, Negel Vasser, Birkat HaTorah, HaMapil
Question: I am starting a job soon that will require me to be up all night. My shift will end just before the zman for Shacharit with tallit and tefillin. I plan to daven shacharit after finishing work and then go to sleep, waking up around noon. The question is: 1) Should I do negel […]
Throwing up and bentching
Question: Can You bentch if you threw up? Answer: Essentially since the food was thrown up, the person is no longer benifiting from it and there would no longer be a requirement to bentch. Sources: Sharei Teshuva O:CH 208-1, Shevet Halevi 1 208 (208). See Orach Yisroel (R. Grossman) 19-7 that in the rare event […]
Washing on shabbos
Question: I got dirty on Friday night and I was very uncomfortable. It was a pretty big mess so I tried washing washing myself one ever at a time with soap water in cup but some water got on my foot, so is that a issur and also the sink I used alot of times […]
dishonest with employer
Question: Shalom kvod harav. Several years ago, I was planning to start University. In the interim before the start of university, I was put under a lot of pressure from my mother in law to get a job. I felt that I should tell a potential employer that I’m planning to begin university shortly and […]
Spray tan on shabbos
Question: Is it mutar to use spray tan on shabbos? The spray tan is a bronzing spray. Answer: Spray tan should not be used on shabbos, because we are not allowed to color our skin on shabbos as it is tzoveiah. Even going into the sun specifically to get a tan is controversial, and those who […]
Remote worker
Question: May a non jew remote worker work on shabbos? Answer: It depends on what type of work he is doing, and if he is being paid by the job or the hour, and if it appears that he working for a Jew or not. Please send us specifics of your situation so we can […]
Shofar on Shabbos, etc.
Question: I don’t understand why the gemara says that a shofar (or lulav or megillah) isn’t taken on Shabbos because of the chashash of taking it into the reshus harabbim if we know that there isn’t really any reshus harabbim anyway….Thanks. Answer: Why do you write that we know there are no reshus horabim? In […]
Sleeping on back
Question: Thank you for everything u doing. Please adviseIn halacha. Heard the position of sleep on left side, but due to spinal cord issues doctors say to sleep on back. But i read its againist halacha. Please advise because i want to sleep and i cannot sleep if i dont stick to halacha answer, please. […]
Buying non kosher food
Question: I work in a place where there are non Jews and Jews, I have been asked to do the lunch run which will no doubt involve buying non kosher food for a Jew. Is this allowed. I have been given the option of not doing the lunch run. Answer: It is great that you […]
Status of child from a divorced mother
Question: If a man had a child with his ex-wife after she had relations with another man, besides being assur, is the child considered a mamzer? What is the status of the man? Answer: Essentially such a question is not for a website to answer, because there are other issues that may have to be […]
Borer in sweeping floor
Question: I have a broom that is mixed with other items in a way that constitutes a mixture, and I would like to remove it to sweep crumbs off the floor on shabbos. I personally don’t mind that there are crumbs on the floor, but someone else does not like them. Would I be allowed […]
Pop up Sukkah, Glass Succah
Question: I had two questions : 1) If one would use all glass walls for their sukkah would that be kosher,or the walls need to provide shade as well ,and needs to be nikar that there is a wall? 2) Can one dismantle a pop-up sukkah on chol hamoed? Tizku L’mitzvos Answer: It is […]
Ashkenazi Davening in sfardi minyan
Question: The minhag in this sfardi minyan is to daven mincha with the chazzan starting shmone esrei out loud and everyone also starting with him. Everyone says kedusha and then everyone continues queitly. What should an ashkenazi do in terms of morid hatal, nakdishach instead of nikadesh. Do you say leumasam and uvidivrei? if yes […]
Children attend simchos when a parent is sitting shiva
Question: Can children attend a Simcha when their parent is sitting shiva Answer: The halachos of “misablim imo” that the child or relative of a mourner, mourns together with them, only applies if the relative is in the same city, but not if they are in a different city. It also only applies to a […]
Ein mearvin simcha bsimcha
Question: Can you have one seuda for both a bris and shabbos/yom tov seuda? Can you have one seuda for bris and siyum and yom tov seuda? Answer: The halacha of ain mearvin simcha b’simcha only applies to making a chasuna, etc. during Yom Tov or Chol Hamoed, but not to making a bris seuda, […]
I feel confused
Question: BH I feel that everything I do on a daily basis goes wrong, as a family too, I try to work and you don’t leave things to me, like my parents we are economically stagnant and I feel that something is not going well, even the hamsa of my house mysteriously appeared destroyed by […]
Busker tzedakah
Question: Should one treat a busker (a street musician) like any other request for tzedakah, or is it a pay what you feel performance? Answer: No one is obligated to pay the musicians that play music in the streets. If it is considered tzedakah, is a different question, because we don’t know if the person […]
Tevilos Keilem for things toveled by store
Question: We recently ordered cups from a store for a party and they did not arrive on time . The store graciously offered to lend us new different glasses for the party which THEY toviled and we were going to return them ( as the store told us they have what to do with it […]
shaking hands
Question: I am working in a lawyer’s office. The lawyer is frum, but on the modern side. There is a client that came in and the lawyer shook hands with her. Afterwards, the lady extended her hand to me. My practice is never to shake hands with any lady under any circumstances, with no exceptions. […]
Uber eats
Question: Can you deliver food for Uber eats if it’s treif meat or basar bchalav? Does it matter if it’s to a Jew or not? Answer: Please see the following post, which discusses a very similar question. https://dinonline.org/2019/07/15/coming-in-contact-and-delivering-with-not-kosher-food/ Best Wishes