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Thirty days of mourning

Calculating Shloshim after Shevuos

Question: Shiva for my father began during the day on Sunday, May 24, 2020. Shavuos “stopped the Shiva” a few days later. When will the Sh’loshim end for me, in… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim Shvuos

13/06/2020

Thirty days of mourning

Misibah, Hazkarah, Kaddish, Visit the grave when Yom Tov cancels Shloshim

Question: If someone passed was buried erev chag Shavuout, I understand that the spouse mourning ends before 30 calendar days (shiva 1 day=7 days + chag = 7 days, +… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning Cemetery shloshim

08/06/2020

Thirty days of mourning

How long is availus for a brother?

Question: how long is availus for a brother? Answer: Hamakom yinachem eschem btoch shar aveiliy Tzion V’yerushalayiom. The aveilus period for all relative, except a parent, is for thirty days…. Read more »

Thirty days of mourning

02/06/2020

Thirty days of mourning

Calculating Shloshim

Question: My mother passed away on Shabbos haGadol, Yud Nissan (April 4) and was buried motsei Shabbos yud-alef Nissan (before midnight April 4). as Pesach interrupted shiva, has shloshim already… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus shloshim

03/05/2020

Thirty days of mourning

Aveilus for person who was niftar from Corona

Question: Thank you so much for your reply. This machla has been devastating to klal Yisroel. So, in regard to my question. In the Mourning in Halacha book on page… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus haircut during shloshim

06/04/2020

Thirty days of mourning

Shloshim ending early due to pesach?

Question: My father passed away last week and was buried on 20 March 2020. The Shiva has just ended and the Shloshim would usually end on 18 April (I think)… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning

26/03/2020

Thirty days of mourning

When would Shloshim Be

Question: My uncle was buried the first second day of Succos (on Yom Tov itself). When would the shloshim be? Answer: The morning of 20th of Cheshvan would be the… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim

25/10/2019

Thirty days of mourning

Grandmother during sheloshim at grandchild’s vort

Question: Can a women in Avelus still in the shloshim for her father go to a granddaughters vort and if yes can she have a manicure and get her face… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus shloshim year of mourning

03/10/2019

Thirty days of mourning

Calculating Sheloshim

Question: I cannot determine whether Pesach ended my period of Sheloshim or not. I believe it has to do with whether or not my period of shiva had already ended…. Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus shloshim

28/04/2019

Thirty days of mourning

Granddaughter wedding

Question: If a grandmother dies, can a granddaughter have music at her wedding after shiva but before shloshim Answer: Please see the following post. https://dinonline.org/2019/03/22/avel-and-daughters-wedding/ Best Wishes Sources:

Thirty days of mourning aveilus shloshim

22/03/2019

Thirty days of mourning

Avel and daughters wedding

Question: Can an avel be at his daughters wedding that has music, after shiva before shloshim? Answer: Hamakom yinachem eschem btoch shar aveili tzion vyerushlayim. Regarding your question, the father… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus Wedding

22/03/2019

Thirty days of mourning

Calulating shloshim

Question: My parent died at moon on the 8th of shevat and was buried at noon on the 9 th of shvat. What is the final day of shloshim Answer:… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim

01/02/2019

Thirty days of mourning

When is shloshim?

Question: My mother was buried on June 19 , 2018 in morning in USA. When is shloshim? Answer: Hamakom yinachem eschem b’toch shar aveilei tzion v’yerushalayim. The shloshim is calculated… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim

05/07/2018

Thirty days of mourning

Calculating shloshim

Question: My father was niftar on ב תמוזand was buried on ה תמוז When is shloshim? I think it may fall on Shabbas-if this is the case should we go… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim

05/07/2018

Thirty days of mourning

Number of people that I can eat with

Question: When going to a restaurant for dinner how many couples can accompany me and my husband. I am in shloshim for my brother Answer: It isn’t a question of… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim

07/05/2018

Thirty days of mourning

My mother died April2,2018. Funeral April 4. Sjiva over April 11.

Question: When is shloshim finished Answer: Hamakom Yinachem eschem b;toch sharaveilei tzion v’yirushalayim. Regarding your question, the sholoshim are calculated according to when the funeral was, therefore I am assuming… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim

01/05/2018

Shloshim calculating

Question: Thank you very much for your support My sister passed away last Friday in Israel March 23 .2018 buried in Israel Sunday 25 We start shiva Sunday morning March… Read more »

Seven days of mourning Thirty days of mourning shiva shloshim Yom Tov

28/03/2018

Thirty days of mourning

Buying items for the home during shloshim for a parent

Question: Can I purchase a new coffee maker if it is on sale now? It is something I want, not a necessity. Husband will also use it. Answer: It is… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning purchases during shloshim shloshim

18/12/2017

May I go away for a family vacation/shabbos during shloshim for my mom

Question: May I go away for a family vacation/shabbos during the shloshim for my mom.We usually go away only in the summer as the kids are off and wont be… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning Year of mourning aveilus vacation

15/08/2017

Buying a new shaitel

Question: Can I buy a sheitel during the shiloshim for my Mother Answer: Hamakom Yinachem Eschem b’toal aveilei tzion v’yerushalayim Regarding your question, the minhag is that an avel doesn’t… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning Year of mourning buying clothes during aveilus

16/07/2017

Swimming/ going to the beach or pool during after shiva

Question: Can one mourning a parent swim after the shiva period/ during the 30 day or 12 month? Answer: During shloshim the avel should not go swimming if it is… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning Year of mourning aveilus swimming

19/06/2017

Thirty days of mourning

Does Shavuot take over Shloshim? May I shave and cut my nails?

Question: I am in Shloshim for my mother. I have been told that for a parent, Shavuot does not take over Sheloshim and I may still not shave or cut… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning shloshim Yom Tov

30/05/2017

Does Lag B’omer allow someone in shloshim to shave?

Question: Does Lag B’omer allow someone in shloshim to shave? ie break the shloshim? Answer: Lag Baomer is the culmination or breaking of the aveilus for the talmidim of R’… Read more »

Counting the Omer Thirty days of mourning lag ba'omer mourning

16/05/2017

Thirty days of mourning

Mourning for a spouse

Question: May a spouse observe mourning beyond shloshim. I feel that 30 days is not enough for my husband after 56 years of marriage. Answer: Losing a spouse after 56… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning mourning shloshim

16/05/2017

Thirty days of mourning

Calculating Sheloshim

Question: My Mother passed on Chol Hamoed Pesach (April 13th – 17th Nissan) and I need help calculating sheloshim. Please and thank you. Answer: The shloshim is counted from the… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus shloshim

02/05/2017

Thirty days of mourning

shloshim for parent/ pesach

Question: A person is in “SHLOSHIM” for a parent. Pesach occurs during “SHLOSHIM”. Can a person take a haircut, shave and cut nails on EREV PESACH? Can a person send… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus dry cleaning Haircut shloshim

04/04/2017

Thirty days of mourning

Can I get my eyebrows waxed during the shloshim?

Question: Can I get my eyebrows waxed during the shloshim? Answer: A married woman, or a woman that is looking for a shudduch that is in aveilus of shloshim may… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning aveilus Haircut waxing

04/04/2017

Thirty days of mourning

Attending a wedding during sheloshim

Question: Is one who is still in the sheloshim for one’s father allowed to attend a wedding l’chatchila? Can one attend only the chupah or is it best not to… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning

12/07/2016

Gifts during sheloshim

Question: Is one allowed to give or receive gifts during the sheloshim for a parent. What is considered a gift? Can an avel send a cake to a neighbor to… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning Year of mourning

04/07/2016

Thirty days of mourning

Need help calculating date of shloshim

Question: If the date of burial was May 23, 2016, when does shloshim fall? Shavuot falls within 30 days. Does that change the determination of the date of shloshim? Answer:… Read more »

Thirty days of mourning

15/06/2016

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