Question: My wife was nifter over two years ago. Directly behind her plot I recognized the name of a person I worked with back in the mid-1960s. My last recent visit witnessed that the matzeva of this friend was not there with no marker. The custodian would not say why after 46 years the grave […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Returning item that’s not mine
Question: Good morning! A few years ago ,our family went with our extended family for a “Shabbas away from home “ to a camp E/ family stayed in df bungalow ,some kids combined … Our family stayed in the camp nurses bungalow colony… By mistake when we packed to go home,I took along 1 boys […]
Rabbi caring for a goyim community
Question: BS”D Is there a ban on a rabbi caring for, and guiding a goyim-formed community that wants to make guyur in Israel in the future? Being that the only Jew is the rabbi himself Answer: There are communities where there is a ban on accepting geirim, but aside for that, the Rabbi must know […]
Shalom. I wonder if bnei noach can have relations before marriage.
Question: Shalom. I wonder if bnei noach can have sex before marriage. Thanks Answer: If she is not married to anyone and not a relative it is permitted for a ben noach. Sources: Rambam Hilchos Milachim 9 7,8.
nivul peh
Question: During relations, am I allowed to refer to my wife’s body parts using slang? Answer: If the slang would be considered nivul pe, it should not be used even when you are alone. A person’s mouth is the place where he davens and speaks words of the holy Torah, and even during relations, one […]
Parsha Bo english halacha discussion of dogs – quote cannot be correct
Question: In the article it says: Yet, the Magen Avraham (Orach Chaim 167:18) cites the statement of the Gemara as normative halacha, noting elsewhere (271:12) in the name of Rav Yaakov Emden that this is actually a biblical prohibition. Magen Avraham died before Reb Yaakov Emden was born so it is highly doubtful he quoted […]
Is it better to avoid touching while exchanging cash?
Question: 1) Is it better to avoid touching hands at a store while exchanging cash from cashier to customer or vice versa (opposite gender)? 2) if the cashier is handing cash to a customer of the opposite gender, what would be the best way for the customer to respond? Thank you!! Answer: Halachically since there […]
Ribis through Pawning
Question: I have a store and i sell electronics. A woman who bought a computer half a year ago called and expressed her interest to sell it back because she needs the cash. After i told her that she can probably get more from selling it to someone else she asked if she can sell […]
Do I have to Ma’aser if I have loans outstanding
Question: I borrowed money from my parents some time ago. Recently I received wages, and I sent them right away to my parents to help pay down the loan they gave me. Do I need to ma’aser my wages prior to sending my parents the money, or do I send the full amount of my […]
Answering to kedusha – before finishing praying
Question: Hi. It takes me quite a while to pray. When I’m still in the middle of my silent amida and the chazzan is starting the repetition, should I stop? Should I answer the chazzan? Should I do all the standing up on my toes, etc? Also, does the halacha change if I have finished…but […]
Can girls visit the kever
Question: Can girls visit the kever of zaddik ribnits at nightime with other ladies present in ohel? And with the men in their section? Answer: Without getting into the issue if girls should be visiting a kever of not, my understanding of your question is if there is a yichud issue. If there are more than […]
Water cooler
Question: Hi, My job moved into a new office building. Inside there is a water cooler. Are we allowed to use the hot water part of the if we are not sure if anyone not Jewish used it before us? Answer: You my use the cooler even for hot water, because even if it was […]
Mixed up tzedaka money
Question: For more than three years weve been puting small change into a container and several pushkas for tzedaka, some of it was given al daas that it would go to my old yeshiva because since I never paid full tuition I figured it was the least I could do, also some was earmarked(again all […]
Using marijuana for recreational purpose in Canada
Question: Hello Is it אסור for an individual to ingest/smoke/inhale marijuana for recreational purposes in a country where it is legal to do so? The massive body of evidence has shown that alcohol is far more damaging to the body and that marijuana is not as addictive as sugar or alcohol. Of course there would […]
Tefilla
Question: In the town I live in, during the week there is usually a minyan after neitz. However, It happens every so often that there is only one shacharis minyan in town which davens before neitz. When that happens, is it better to daven beyichidus after neitz or daven with the minyan before neitz? Answer: […]
Giving maaser by forgiving a loan.
Question: If I have loaned a poor person money, that he will possibly not be able to pay back, what are the considerations in “giving maaser” of the amount of the loan by forgiving the loan? (And deducting that amount from what maaser I would have given). Answer: There is controversy about forgiving and old […]
Immersion of utensils(tevilah kli)
Question: BS”D It’s raining a lot here in my town and I put a big 150-liter bucket under House gutter (spot that drains rainwater from the roof) and this bucket fills and overflows I can soak the utensils in the rainwater bucket that’s overflowing do? Answer: There are numerous conditions to making a kosher […]
Reminders for davening
Question: If the time for one of the tefillos (e.g. shacharis, mincha, and maariv) arrives, and one doesn’t wish to daven right away, I have heard that one may delay the particular tefillah if he set an alarm to remind him to daven at a certain time. But if one does not have access to […]
Scraping tongue on shabbos
Question: Is it permissible to use something to scrape my tongue on shabbos. Such as an ora brush https://www.orabrush.com/orabrush/ Or a spoon. This is done to remove stuff causing bad odor. If you take a look at the link for the brush you will see. Ty “The Orabrush® Tongue Cleaner features ultra-soft, micro-pointed bristles that […]
Trusting Religious Roommate Who May Not Be Religious
Question: Hi, I currently live with 2 roommates. When moving in together, the established “rules” for the apartment were that to move in, you needed to be shomer shabbos and shomer kashrus. Since this time, I have started to distrust one of my roommates on this. She commented to me on Shabbos that she wanted […]
re: https://dinonline.org/Bedikat/frozen-vegetables/
Question: Regarding the picture of the broccoli floret, that looks like a live caterpillar and fresh broccoli. What are the chances of EVER finding a live caterpillar clinging to a floret from commercially-packaged frozen broccoli? How would it survive? And if not, what is the relevance of the picture? And, while the illustration of frozen […]
Can maaser money be used for therapy
Question: My wife suffered a miscarriage, and unfortunately we are having trouble getting pregnant. She is suffering from debilitating depression, and has trouble leaving the house, and is unable to work. We do not have the money to pay for therapy. Can we use the maaser money from my paycheck to pay for therapy? Answer: […]
Using maaser money to enable more tzedaka
Question: They are currently holding elections for the World Zionist Organization to form a new committee. This is an opportunity for Jews worldwide to influence and determine, for the next 5 years, the policies and spending priorities, of the almost $1 billion annual budget of Israel’s national organizations. 152 delegates will be voted in from […]
misgareh b’umos
Question: Could you please explain the concept of misgareh b’umos to me? (as much as possible) Thank You Answer: From your question it isn’t clear to me what you mean. There are two different uses for the term “misgareh b’umos”. One is used by the achronim to explain why the yetzer hora starts up with […]
How to Kasher a metal insert crock pot
Question: So I found out the soup I was warming up was OU dairy in the crock pot made with a metal insert not ceramic. the crock pot was always used for meat. Is there a way to kasher it now? Answer: Yes, you can kasher the metal insert of your crock pot, and it […]
Can a women in the year of Avelus order a wig which she will receive after the year is over
Question: Can a women in the year of Avelus order a wig for herself , which she will receive after the year is over Answer: Yes she may buy the wig and keep it until after the year, since the minhag is only for wearing it during the year, but not for purchasing it in […]
Gazing at wife when she is a nidda
Question: While my wife is a niddah, may I gaze at her body when shes dressed tznius, but the pleasure I get is sexual i.e. is her covered body considered like her face? Answer: It is permitted for a husband to gaze at parts of his wife when she is covered even though he has […]
Shaving head
Question: Can a man shave his head completely if using an electric shaver? Would he have to leave the peyot areas? Answer: A man should not chas v’shaom shave all of his head with a shaver, because this is a violation of the commandment prohibiting removing one’s payos. It is true that nowadays in some […]
Pricing – Onuah – Geneivas dass
Question: I am a product photographer I have a client Who is giving me items to shoot in several positions Some of the items look the same as others on specific positions, in order to save time and cost, I copy the same image and just rename it with the other item code I charge […]
Do you have to wait before dairy after eating something parve in a meat restaurant?
Question: If you go to a meat restaurant (say a shawarma restaurant) but opt for something pareve, such as falafel, do you have to wait the number of hours you usually do before eating something dairy? Or are you considered to not have eaten something “meaty” and taken on that status of basari? Answer: Food […]
Distortion of Torah
Question: I READ THIS THE OTHER DAY. IS THIS IN LINE WITH AUTHENTIC TORAH JUDAISM OR A DISTORTION OF THE TRUTH. “The Bible is an inherently political document. The story of slaves rising up before the most powerful, tyrannical ruler in the ancient world to demand freedom and dignity for all people is an inherently […]
Kadusha while DAVENING SHOMONA ESREI or else where
Question: Can you please review the pertinent laws regarding a person in the middle of DAVENING SHEMONA ESREI or else where in DAVENING (PESUKEI DEZIMRA ,or SHEMA Or BRACHS before or after SHEMA) regarding kEDUSHA being said or KADDISH being said at the same time? What to do? Stop and listen or answer along to […]
Maaser money for learning rabanus
Question: I’m learning in Kollel now. Can I use maaser money (from what I get paid from kollel or my wife’s job) to pay for a rabanus program for myself? Answer: In general we don’t use ma’aser money for personal things, however if you are learning in kollel, you most probably are considered a person […]
Pareve-meat
Question: I heated in one pot pareve rice and fleishig chicken. I already ate the rice and I want to eat dairy now. Is the rice considered fleishig so i Have to wait 6 hours to eat milk?? Answer: If the rice was cooked together with the chicken it got a strong taste from the […]
Put dairy creamer into real chicken soup
Question: I thought my cooking cream was pareve and mixed it into a disposable bowl of chicken soup. I ate a few bowls of it before noticing that the creamer was dairy. What should I do? Answer: Right now there isn’t much that you have to do regarding the the disposable bowl, etc. which i […]
Checking blueberries in Israel
Question: Can blueberries in Israel be checked for bugs? I have been buying Bodek ones but I see fresh at the store. Thanks Answer: Yes they can be checked. please see the following link for instructions taken or R Vaye’s sefer. https://dinonline.org/Bedikat/blueberries/ Have a good Shabbos
Supporting Torah
Question: If I would pay a bachur or yungerman to learn at a time that he otherwise would not be learning, would I get the schar of his learning? Is it a mitzvah to do so? May one use maaser money for this? (I am referring to a one-time arrangement.) Answer: A person that encourages […]
Hilchas Lashon harA
Question: If s/o posted in general on text group if a/o knows if dr X is good-& I know that he is cuz he helped Bh few family members ,b my sister he touched(abused)Do I privately/publicly text her/on group or not respond at all ?About warning her x to go to him w/o s/o else […]
A Jew and a goy
Question: BS”D Is there a halakha that when a goy comes accusing a Jew, that we should not believe in goy, saying that we should believe in Jew and not the goy? Answer: There is an idea that a gentile, who is not obligated to do mitzvos and doesn’t have yiras shomayim, that at times […]
Nightime Krias Shema Questions
Question: 1) I heard that it is better to say The actual pasuk of shema and veohavta right before bed. Therefore, I have been saying the Nightime Krias Shema (Ribono Shel Olam until Adon Olam) minus shema and hamapil in the nighttime hours and then shema and hamapil in bed right before sleep. Is this […]
Item in dangerous situation accidently damaged
Question: have a question that I’ve been having a difficulty trying to find an answer to. I had a Halacha question. Last week in gym class we were playing a game in which we had to get to the ball first. A friend and I were both running towards the ball. As we are running […]
Carrying in a sock on Shabbos?
Question: May one carry in a sock on Shabbos in a place that does not have an Eruv?: Specifically medication (insulin and blood meter etc.) If the answer is yes is that because it is medication or is the answer yes for anything in a sock? Thank you Answer: We are not allowed to carry […]
Septuagint
Question: Why was the translation of the Torah into 70 languages considered a such a calamity, if Moshe explained the Torah to the yidden in 70 languages, before they entered Eretz Yisrael? Answer: You are asking a very nice question, in fact let me add to it. The gemora ( Shabbos 88b) says that each […]
Aveilus
Question: On the day of my father’s Yahrzeit can i go to my grandson’s Bar Mitzvah with Music and dance? I see the Rov writes not to a chasuna, Is the chasuna a problem because of the music or for other reasons. And if I would be able to go and dance is this according […]
Eyelash tint on mikvah day
Question: May I have my eyelashes dyed today if it is also my mikvah day? Answer: A woman should not tint or dye her hair on the day of the mikva. There is discussion among the poskim if she should try to wash the dye out of her haor so that it shouldn’t be a […]
Surprise guest
Question: May a man bring a guest home without telling his wife beforehand? Dry halacha please no need for hashkafa. thanks Answer: Dry halacha, there is not problem with bringing home a guest without telling your wife. However having bein adom lechaveiro and acting in line with your wife’s feelings is part of v’ohavta l’reiacha […]
Tefillin & Mezuzot
Question: Is it permissible to posess in one’s house, etc… Tefillin and Mezuzot which have not been checked (may or not be posul) but are not being used at all (i.e., just being stored in a drawer, etc…) ? Thank you. Answer: You can have the tefillin or mezuzahs in your home. If you know […]
What tehilim do you say before a civil court hearing
Question: What do you say before a civil court hearing Answer: Essentially saying any part of tehillim which will strengthen your emuna is good. If you want some specific ones say perakim 1-4. You should have siyata dishmaya, and the trial should go well.
Why does God care that we do melacha on Shabbos?
Question: When someone asks something like “why does God care about you ripping on Shabbos?” Or “why does God care about all these minute, seemingly meaningless details that he requires you to do?” What is a proper answer/response for someone that may actually be interested in the answer? Answer: You are asking an important question. […]
Kashering of Knives
Question: My kitchen knives need sharpening. I have a client who is a former meat cutter, non Kosher. He’s offered to sharpen my knives. Can they be rekashered? If so, how? Answer: If the sharpener of the meat cutter was clean, there is no need to kasher it. This is because absorbed taste only goes […]