Question: If a woman had relations with a Jew when she was a niddah, can she marry a kohen? Answer: Yes she may. Although what was done was forbidden, in this regard she may still marry a kohen. Best Wishes Sources: Shulchan Aruch E:H 6-8
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Knas of Kdei Sheyase
Question: 1)Is there a knas of Kdei Sheyaseh – that if a gentile did the melacha of a) hotzah for for a jew b) went outside the techum for a jew 2) If there is – how is one allowed to shop in a store that received deliveries on shabbos; shouldn’t the person have to wait a few […]
Can one brush off snow from suede boots on Shabbos?
Question: Can one brush off snow from suede boots on Shabbos? They will be damaged otherwise. Answer: Although suede looks like leather, the poskim (Shimiras Shabbos Khilchoso 15-41, Orchos Shabbos 13-19) consider it like other garments. Therefore if the snow is fresh and it didn’t start melting yet, it can be brushed off lightly. Best […]
Hasagas Gevul and Chevra Kadisha
Question: A for-profit “chevra kadisha” operates and charges $170 per 8 hours of shmira. The business owner collects $50 per shift for himself. (The “going rate” in our market is $110-$120 per shift). Would it be hasagat gevul for an alternative chevra kadisha that functions as a nonprofit to replace the for-profit? The nonprofit chevra […]
Questions of Faith
Question: Hello, I had a few questions I wanted to know if you can help me with. 1) It has long bothered me why there is no corroborating historical account of Maimad Har Sinai in other cultures. It is apparent from Rashi that other nations knew God gave us the Torah at that time. As […]
Turning a dairy popcorn maker into pareve
Question: How do I turn a dairy popcorn maker into pareve Answer: There is no need to kasher the popcorn machine. The reason is since the machine was not used within 24 hours, and the taste of milk would only be nat bar nat, it is permitted l’chatchila to eat food from it after eating […]
A woman to do electrolysis on a man, permitted or not?
Question: May a jewish woman do electrolysis on a male, not knowing if he is jewish or not? One concern is if he is jewish there are places which would not be allowed for him to do electrolysis and thereby be problematic for her to do it for him. Also, being that this is a […]
birth control
Question: Hi I am wondering what the problems would be for a newly married couple that do not have any children to use birth control and what are the sources for these problems? Answer: The first mitzva that is written in the torah is pru urvu- to procreate, which is one of the positive commandments […]
Feeding stray dog on shabbos
Question: One is permitted to feed a stray dog on Shabbos. Can one OR should one feed the stray? Is it an obligation that must be done, or merely a good thing to do but not obligatory and its your choice?But what about if its a regular week day? Answer: Although generally on Shabbos we […]
Davening SE loudly for sick person who can’t daven himself
Question: There is a person who is not able to daven on his own because he r”l had a stroke and it takes him very long to say the words. Therefore, the eitza that is done is someone stands next to him by SE and davens in a way that is audible to him (e.g., […]
Can I make a shachris minyan and Bris in a Conservative temple?
Question: Can I make a shachris minyan and Bris in a conservative synagogue which no longer has any services on a regular basis ( I am not sure about the high holidays). If not, would the hallway be any different? Answer: R’ Mםshe Feinstein Zt”l writes that we are not allowed to make a minyan […]
using a copy righted cd
Question: hi my friend managed to break the encryption on the bar-ilan program that he brought, would it be permissible for me to get it from him and does it make a difference that it is an old version of the program which they do not sell anymore and therefore will not cause them a […]
Is there a preference which side of the Aaron one approaches from when he goes to do Pesicha?
Question: Hi, Is there a preference which side of the Aaron one approaches from when he goes to do Pesicha? Answer: There is no preference which side to go to the aron to open it. However when the torah is taken to and from the bimah, it should be done while walking to the right. […]
How many people should stand by the Bimah during Kriyas Hatorah
Question: Hi, How many people should stand by the Bimah during Kriyah, and when do we need that many people? ty Answer: Halachically there has to be two people standing by the bimah when he torah is read, therefore if the baal koreh gets the first aliya someone else should be standing by the bimah […]
BOY 15 YEARS OLD ALLOW TO KISS AND HUG GRANDMOTHER
Question: Is a boy of 15 years old allowed to kiss and hug his grandmother Is there a source to be machmir stringent. Answer: Yes he is allowed, the same way it is permitted for a father to kiss and hug his daughter. The reason is because it is being done out of closeness, and […]
Soy Milk Ice Cubes in Coffee on Shabbos
Question: Hi, We decided to try to freeze our extra soy milk into ice cubes so that it wouldn’t spoil. Is there a problem to put the frozen soy milk cubes into a hot coffee on Shabbos? (There is some extra frost from being in the freezer on the ice cubes.) Thanks a lot. Answer: […]
Eating before a fast
Question: I wake up early and eat before some of the fasts start. I learnt that one cannot start eating mezonos or bread within half an hour of amod haschar. If I has a shomer to remind me to daven is it permissible. Thanks Answer: Yes it is permitted, however the person has to be […]
Netilas yadaim after bathroom
Question: After using the bathroom, is one allowed to say asher yatzar without drying the hands, then wash for netilas yadaim? Thank you Answer: There are different opinions about this. There reason why some people dry their hands is the following. There is a concept in Hilchos Netilas Yodayim that if one touches water that […]
Cutting TZIZIT from TALIS
Question: If someone has a talis with TZIZIT but is not sure if the TZIZIT were made LISHMA or properly by G_D FEARING JEWS or whatever one wants like puting on better TZIZIT or MENUPETZ or thicker? The TZIZIT are perfectly new. CAn one cut (with plastic or glass) the TZIZIT and put on new […]
Man wearing red clothes
Question: Is a man allowed to wear garments that are red? Answer: It is technically permitted, however it is preferable even for men (and the custom of some people) not to wear red garments. The reasons why Jews stay away from wearing red garments is because it used to be the custom of the gentiles […]
Did the jews travel in ships to Bavel
Question: Please see Yeshayahu 43:14 with Targum Yonasan and Rashi. Is it saying that the Jews went to Bavel in ships? If so, do we find this elsewhere in Tenach or other evidence of it? If they didn’t use ships, how did the Jews get to Bavel? Answer: According to the Targum and Rashi yes. […]
Parve noodles (maybe from dairy pot) warmed in meat soup
Question: I warmed up some chicken soup in a meat pot. I remembered that I had some frozen noodles in the freezer from a few months ago and decided to add them. After it was already cooked together and served into bowls I suddenly worried that I may have originally cooked the noodles in a […]
Trimming pubic hair (to prevent a rash)
Question: First of all I’d like to thank you for this service. I’ve read some your replies on the matter of men shaving and trimming pubic hair (here for example https://dinonline.org/2016/03/23/pubic-hair-trimming-vs-shaving/) and I have two follow up questions. 1) According to every poll I’ve been able to find, a majority of males at least trim […]
Glue on end knot Tzitzit
Question: I found an (old) new talis that has glue at the end knots of the TZITit.(not string ends) The END KNOT HAS glue to keep knots from untieing. IS THIS PERFECTLY FINE LECHATCHILA? I would like to make a BRACHA ON THE TALIS and be yozei my talis kattan as well. Are there any […]
Back of hand touches unclean
Question: Sometimes the back of my hand will touch something unclean (eg someone’s shoe, or the area above someone’s elbow, etc). Does this necessitate washing my hands? Thank you Answer: According to most opinions the hand extends until the wrist, and not only until the knuckles, therefore when any part of the hand touches an […]
Convert
Question: I have a neighbor that is going through geirus. It is taking him extra long because he hasn’t been passing his tests from the beis din. He asks to come to me for Shabbos quite often. Is there any concept of hachnasa orchim in this case? can I politely shrug him off and not […]
Can I invite guests for shabbat meal during year of avelut for my father
Question: Can I invite guests for shabbat meal during year of avelut for my father Answer: Hamakom yinachem eschem b’toch shar aveilei Tzion v’Yerushalayim Regarding your question, it is permitted, as an avel is allowed to invite guest to his home during the year of aveilus. Best Wishes
Ugg boots
Question: Are ugh boots shatnez? Answer: There were shatnez labrotories that said that they have found shatnez in Ugg boots. I am not up on this issue, but if there was an issue there, you should either get it tested, or at least speak to your local shatnez tester to verify it. Best Wishes
Can one give evidence of the wrongdoing of another jew
Question: I witnessed a car accident with one driver very clearly at fault to everyone. A car drove right into the side of another car that was stopped at a red light right in front of me. The light turned green both cars pulled over to the side. I pulled over next to the guy […]
lashon hara
Question: Is it lashon hara to discuss with one’s friends certain aspects of a minyan that one attends that one finds unacceptable, in order to decide if he should continue attending? Such as if the minyan doesn’t have asara mispallleim, or starts late, or ends later than is considered normal? For example, if one shows […]
Caterer under-cooked green beans and claims that this is the norm
Question: I ordered trays of ready green beans to serve at a simcha, they just had to be heated up. When served, they were perfectly edible but slightly under-cooked and crunchy. I contacted the caterer and he told me: this is the 21st century and this is the way the green beans are served. Had […]
Opening food packages on shabbos
Question: I have two questions 1) Some food containers contain a piece of tape that is used to keep the package closed. When one wants to use the package, he lifts up the piece of tape at the opening, and then retapes it when he is finished. Is this permissible? 2) I know that when […]
Taking three steps in shemoneh esrei in a crowded place
Question: If I am davening in a crowded place, such as a shul, where there are many other people davening around me, I sometimes find it difficult to take three full steps forward and three full steps backwards in the beginning and end of shemoneh esrei. What should I do in this situation? Answer: Before […]
Baby with dirty diaper?
Question: What’s the halacha regarding davening around babies? Am I mechuyav to check their diaper to see if it’s soiled, before davening? Is it considered covered? How about if it doesn’t smell? Thank you for providing such a valuable service for klal yisroel! Answer: According to a number of poskim, you do not have to […]
Status of dips made in meaty blender
Question: Hi, I was wondering what the status of dips would be if they contained garlic and were made in a meaty blender / hand blender. Though we generally don’t eat the dips with dairy, do the dips remain parve or does one have to wait to eat dairy after eating these dips? Thank you. […]
Learning during davening
Question: 1) Why do so many chashuve people learn during chazaras hashas, when it’s not permitted? 2) Am I allowed to learn during birchas krias shma (eg while waiting for chazan to say “emes”)? Thank you Answer: I can’t answer what I don’t know, maybe they don’t realize that it isn’t permitted. Look in Piskei […]
Ma’aser on money given to cover “general” expenses
Question: I traveled to visit my non-observant parents over the bein hazmanim. I was given a certain amount of money to cover expenses that would arise during my visit without any particular instructions. Is this nonetheless considered as if the money was given to me for specific use and is therefore exempt from ma’aser? Thank […]
playing in an orchestra during aveilut
Question: Hi, A congregant of mine recently learned to play the violin (during the last 4 years). Since then he has been invited to join an orchestra for people learning music later in life. They are all amateurs and learning to play together. The question is A. can he continue to study the violin. B. […]
3 Shabbos questions: wearing a jacket around one’s shoulders, making reminders, “magic slate”
Question: 1) In an area without an eiruv, can one take off one’s jacket outside on Shabbos and wear it tied around one’s shoulders, or would that be considered carrying? 2) If one suddenly remembers something important on Shabbos (something one needs to do on Sunday), is it permitted to make a reminder (for example […]
Second day Yom Tov
Question: 1. If someone is visiting from chu”l and keeps a second day of Yom Tov, is he allowed to ask a Ben EY to do a melacha for him on the second day? If not, why is it different than being mekabel Shabbos early, where one can ask someone else who was not yet […]
Child with fragile muktzah object
Question: My one and a half year old daughter found my cell phone on shabbos and didn’t want to put it down. I was concerned that she would throw it on the ground and it would become damaged. Since the cell phone is muktzah, how should I proceed in this situation? What about by other […]
Snooker Cue on Shabbos
Question: May one unscrew the snooker (pool) cue on Shabbos to get a shorter length and screw the it back together to its normal length? Please see image attached. Attached: Attached file 1 Answer: If it is the normal for it to be screwed and unscrewed, then it is permitted because then it is considered […]
Opening tuna can on shabbos
Question: Is there any issue with opening a tuna can on shabbos, as far as making a Pesach yafeh etc.? Answer: According to some poskim there is, see Kovetz M’bais Halevi 6 pg, 45, Shulchan Halevi chap.8-8, Megilas Sefer 14-4, Orchos Shabbos 11 ftnt. 61, 12 ftnt.10 in the name of R’ Eliyashiv zt”l. However […]
HONORING SHABBOS
Question: Is it better to honor SHABBOS by washing the floors for example closer to SHABBOS like on FRIDAY than WEDNESDAY even if on WEDNESDAY your doing it LCHVOD SHABBOS as well? Answer: It is more kavod Shabbos to do things closer to shabbos, because then it is more apparent that it is being done […]
How long to wait after eating meat to eat dairy?
Question: How long to wait after eating meat to eat dairy? Answer: The general custom is to wait 6 hours. There are communities that have the custom to wait less but this is the general custmom. Best wishes
saying a bracha achrona after eating in a car
Question: If someone is eating in his car on the way to work but then needs the bathroom so he doesn’t want to say a bracha achrona. After using the bathroom at work, is he still able to say the bracha achrona and where does he say it? Does he have to eat more? Thank […]
Shehechiyanu New Tallis
Question: Hello, I bought a new Tallis over 1 month ago and never said Shehechiyanu. Should I still say it now? Answer: If you have been wearing the tallis for some time already, you don’t have that same happiness as you had then, therefore it is too late to say the bracha. Best wishes
Kashering PAREVE spoon that touched milk
Question: I ate hot/ warm oatmeal that had (cold) milk and butter with a PAREVE spoon by mistake. How can I make (Kashe) the spoon as PAREVE again? Can I place the spoon in boiling water using a pareve pot to KASHE it? Answer: Yes you may use a pareve pot for this. Even if […]
lashon hara : clarifying question
Question: Hello, Thanks for your help. I wanted to clarify my previous question. Is asking someone to repeat the name of the person they spoke lashon hara about considered lashon hara too (asking to repeat for the purposes of doing teshuva for listening to the lashon hara to begin with). Thanks for your patience, I […]
Tefila when taking out sefer torah
Question: Someone once told me that the tefila said when taking out the sefer torah is very important and powerful, but he didn’t explain why. Can you please enlighten me what’s so special about it and why is it written in aramaic? Thank you Answer: In the Siddur Sharei Rachamim (by a student of the […]