Question: For the proper bentching rules. What are some general thoughts to keep in mind beforehand? For instance, standing/sitting, allowed to recite outdoor/indoor (only). Anything else that can be useful to take note of please mention. Thank you. Answer: Thank you for your question. Here are some of the halachos. Concentration– The Chayei adam (כלל […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Amen to a Brocha Levotolah
Question: The Shluchan Oruch says in Siman 124 that if a minyan doesn’t have at least 9 people have kavanoh and and answering amen to the Shatz’s brochos, it is קרוב to a brocha levotolah. The Igros Moshe writes in Orach Chaim chelek daled, siman 19, that if the minyan isn’t miskaven from the beginning […]
Questions on Paying Maaser
Question: Are we required to pay maaser on the following: 1) Credit Card Rewards – I earn credit card rewards based on the amount of my monthly purchases and the amount of points collected. I always use these rewards to reduce my credit card debt. But there is also another option to get cash back […]
Gemara
Question: How can we understand Rabbeinu Tam in Kiddushin 26a that says the way to do a minyan hagbah on a פיל is by getting it to jump. But elephants don’t jump. Could it be that maybe a פיל isn’t an elephant? Answer: Interesting point. My understanding of Tosefos is that he means to bring […]
Maaser on investments and loans that won’t be repaid
Question: I have the following questions on paying maaser: 1) 401K Investment – 401K contributions are deducted weekly from my paycheck and kept in a separate account that I cannot touch until I retire. Do I need to pay maaser on any of these funds or on the interest and dividends earned before I receive […]
Purim on Friday/Erev Shabbos
Question: Shalom.This year, Purim will fall out on Friday (in Chutz La’Aretz). Due to my employment schedule, it will likely be that I will arrive home an hour or so before Shabbos with sufficient time to daven Mincha and make Shabbos preparations. Is it possible to have the Seuda then, and when Shkia arrives, “Poress […]
Bracha on snack onion rings
Question: I want to know the bracha on snack onion rings. I have heard that different companies make them differently so the bracha is different but I wanted to understand the issue and know the bracha on all types. Answer: It is hard to say anything definitive without knowing the specific company and thier onion […]
Hallel on Purim – Chanukah
Question: When the Mishna Berurah brings down the reason why we don’t say Hallel in Purim it says because we are still slaves to Achashvayrosh (I know this is only 1 of the reasons that the Gemara mentions). Why don’t we say the same thing for Chanukah? That we are still slaves to Antioches and […]
Ir miklat
Question: What was the general atmosphere like in an ir miklat? Was it a normal city or was it a sad broken group of people? Were other people allowed to live there, or only the people who accidentally killed someone? For example, could an entire family move there with their relative who accidentally killed someone […]
Milk and meat Pyrex dish
Question: Ashkenazi people In a situation where a Pyrex dish was used to cook both meat and milk in frequently (not together obviously) Would… The food have been treif? The kli shenis made of cheres be treif? The silverware? The ovens? And could you kasher the Pyrex dish? Answer: A pyrex dish (Ashkenazi minhag) according […]
Order and obligations of morning prayers when sleeping is divided
Question: If one wakes early and feels like he will fall back asleep, says the morning brachos and full Shema so he won’t miss its time, then does fall back asleep and wakes up again with JUST enough time to lay tefillin and daven Amida before sof zman ha-tfila, what is the proper order to […]
Ring Cameras on Shabbos
Question: Can someone walk in front of someone else’s ring camera on shabbos knowing that it will set off the camera and begin recording? I would think it’s a psik raisha dilo nicha lei for the Person walking in front of the camera because it is serving him no purpose that he is being recorded. […]
Taking off tallis before tefillin (so it doesn’t get sweaty)
Question: After davening Shachris I like to learn Mikra or Mishna with my Tefillin. But if I keep my Tallis on, I get hot and the distraction harms my learning. And if I sweat, it will stain the Tallis. (However, I know a wonderful Rav whose Tallis has yellowed from sweat over years of diligent […]
Shalom bayis and clothing
Question: My back ground has a mixture of being yeshivish and Yu like. My wife has a similar background and we have B”H been married for 27 years. I recently started to have great yearnings to move back to my yeshivish side and I started to dress the part more too but my wife doesn’t […]
Found clothing in rental unit
Question: I moved into a new apartment and the old roommate left things, she said whatever is left is trash, she does not want, is from former roommates or the landlord. I threw away things, gave away things. I also used some worn shoes and old blankets, etc But I also found a nice suit, […]
What takes priority Kashrus or Shalom Bayit?
Question: One spouse is newly frum and the other is not yet observant. What if there is some aspect within Kashrus (namely, refraining from putting hot kosher things down on a non kosher surface) that really bothers the spouse that is not yet observant to the extent that this is an issue for Shalom Bayit. […]
Kashrus – Gelatin
Question: Hi, what are the rules for using kosher meat gelatin with milky food? Please also advise on whether using fish gelatine is included in the prohibition to eat fish and milk together. Thank you Answer: Kosher meat gelatin, is produced by cooking meeat bones. Therefore meat gelatin is considered meaty and should not be […]
Purim during coronavirus
Question: During the coronavirus, can one fulfill the mitzvah of listening to the megilah by reading it at home from a printout? Or by hearing it online? Is it considered pikuach Nefesh and guarding ones health and taking care of ones body to not going to shul for Purim? Answer: During our current situation we […]
Ate blood?
Question: Hello, I was outside and, due to the mask, there was some “drippage” from my nose that went on my lips and into my mouth. When I got home and blew my nose, I saw some blood. I have no way of knowing if some of the blood went into my mouth but if […]
Blood in cookies?
Question: I have very dry hands with cracks that bleed. While I was kneading cookie dough, I noticed that one (or some?) of the red cracks on my hand were wet (ie bleeding lightly I guess). I didn’t look carefully, but I didn’t see anything red in the dough that I could see easily. But […]
Completing minyan with whom already prayer
Question: Hi! I heard that, although we can do chazarah and kedusha when we have up to 4 men who have prayed in a 10-man minyan. there is a difference of this for a minyan of 10 people who have not yet prayed, what would it be and what is the source? Thanks Answer: If […]
Honoring parent by losing game
Question: B”H How should it be handled when playing a board game with a parent? Should one intentionally lose to honor the parent, or should one play to win so as to be honest? If it is ok to not win on purpose and the parent asks the child if they are intentionally losing, may […]
Lechem Mishna on Shabbos
Question: If I only have large challos and I don’t want to cut them up, can I make hamotzi while holding the two challos and some slices of challa and then just eat the slices? Does that help for being yotze lechem mishna? Or do I have to eat from the shaleim? Answer: The idea […]
Hashavas aveida of pretzels left in my car
Question: A child left a couple of pretzels in a bag our car during a carpool drive a while ago. Are we mechuyav to return it? I would assume that they don’t want it back… Answer: You are not mechuyav to bring it back to the child, because we are never obligated to bring it […]
Learning Torah and Davening after Netilat Yadaim
Question: I know that one is not supposed to daven or learn until after having done Netilat Yadaim. In retrospect, does running one’s hand under a tap count enough to allow learning and davening and saying birkat hatorah? Thank you Answer: Thank you for your question. It isn’t clear to me which netilas yodayim you […]
Is the chazzan required to take three steps back after completing chazaras hashatz?
Question: Is the chazzan required to take three steps back after completing chazaras hashatz? Answer: The chazzan does not have to take three steps back after completing chazoras hashatz. The reason for this is because the three steps that he will take after saying kaddish liskabel are considered his three steps. As a side point, […]
Length of a person’s life
Question: Can the Rav please clarify whether people have a set amount of years they are decreed to live, decreed when they are born, or does a persons amount of years ‘fluctuate’ based on their merits/observance? Are both true? I would appreciate some sources about this. Thank you! Answer: Although I am far from a […]
Bracha on Mary’s Gone Crackers
Question: Hi, I’m wondering with the bracha rishona is on Mary’s Gone Crackers. Thank you! Answer: From checking up on similar recipies, it would seems that the rice content is approxamately 1/3, and 2/3 are quinoa, flax, sesame, and chia seeds. Therefore since the majority of the ingrediatens are hoadomo. Therefore the bracha on it […]
Kashering air fryer for Pesach
Question: I would like to know if an Air Fryer can be kashered for Pesach. Thank you so much. Answer: Thank you for your question. There are two potential issues with koshering an air fryer for Pesach. The first is since an air fryer fries the food in a dry manner, as only a minimal […]
OCD and nidda
Question: I suffer from OCD. It has gotten a lot better over the years. I have a strong feel in Halacha and BH have a broad knowledge in Halacha. I have received Sermicha about 20 years ago and even received shimush in Marehs. Ty as I may, the halachas of Niddah still cause OCD reactions […]
asking forgiveness
Question: B”H Thank you for your help! If due to my unintentional ignorance, I mistakenly addressed a Rabbi in an email as Mr, does this require asking his forgiveness? (The context of the email was thanking him and in the previous email, though he did not sign his name “Rabbi …”, I realized later that […]
availus
Question: Hi My Mother is sitting Shiva On a Friday , Can I shower and Shave for Shabbos ? Based on כל שמתאבל אליו מתאבל אמו Answer: If you are in the same city, then you shouldn’t, however if you are in a different city then it is fine. Best wishes :
Follow up about Hashem emotionally supporting Dor HaMidbar
Question: Wow how beautiful!!! I didn’t know that about the Ananei HaKavod and it warms my heart to think of it as a constant ongoing hug from Hashem. And also, I think the Mishkan came AFTER Cheit HaEgel, right? So that means Hashem DID give extra love and reassurance after the sin, right? Wow that’s […]
custom/tradition Talit, Bircat Kohanin
Question: BS”D 1 – Is halakha or custom/tradition, of covering yourself with the tallit at Bircat Kohanim? 2 – The left-right movements of covering up with the Tallit, is related to Tefilah’s “Osse Shalom” of Shemoneh Esrei? Answer: It is the wide spread custom, that no one looks at the hands of the kohanim […]
Blubeberries from Chile – Orlah
Question: Hi, Is there any issue with buying fresh blueberries from a country outside Eretz Yisrael? How can you know whether they are orlah? Questions also applies to any fruits grown outside Israel.. Thanks Answer: There is no issue or concern of orlah when buying fruits growing outside of Eretz Yisroel, because the rule is […]
Using tzedakah money for a Chinese auction
Question: My son’s school was collecting charity for Lev Lachim. I told him I would give him $60 for this. I never gave it to him yet as the campaign is ongoing and he wanted to bring it in when the campaign is finishing. I just got a booklet in the mail from a different […]
deleting emails
Question: B”H Thank you for your help. Is it allowed to delete emails from Jewish fundraising sources if we are not sure that the sender is legitimate (meaning they are not a Jewish fundraiser, but someone impersonating a legitimate fundraiser). In case it turns out the email was legitimate, and it was deleted and the […]
nazir medication
Question: grüezi, is it true that a nazir should take medication-pills only in life-threatening situations because they contain alcohol – how is it when he is from a physician’s mispoche? kol tuv, briut shleimah. Answer: As far as I know, alcohol would only be an issue if it is made or derived from grapes. Most […]
Bedika Cloth that turned out to be fine
Question: Yesterday was my onas haveses. My morning bedika looked questionable to me. I’m on birth control and sometimes this happens to me. In my mind I assumed I was a probably in the beginning stages of getting my period and told my husband I might be a niddah but wasn’t sure but we should […]
Immersing keilim in snow
Question: Were in lockdown and mikve keilim are closed. I need to immerse new utensils in the mikve. I’m in Canada and there is plenty of snow outside. Can I immerse utensils in the snow? Somebody told me its a possibility. If yes – how exactly I need to get it done? With blessing or […]
Did Hashem emotionally support Dor HaMidbar?
Question: I’m writing this after reading a recent question/answer on your homepage. I wonder about this a lot. They experienced miracle after miracle, but they also survived horrible pain and trauma in Mitzrayim. Did Hashem soothe their emotional pain and comfort them? They sinned, yes, but if I was in their shoes I imagine I […]
Eating after Shkia Shabbos afternoon
Question: Why don’t we eat after shkiah on Shabbos afternoon unless we wash? Answer: The idea is that after shkiya, it is a little before the time to daven to make havdalah. Before making havdalah we are not allowed to eat or drink anything (except water), therefore we don’t eat or drink after shkiya. The […]
Lashon Hara question
Question: Rabbi, I know Lashon Hara is a sin. Is one allowed to say unkind things about cruel people (like Hitler, Alfred Rosenberg, Goebbels, etc)? Like ridicule and say unkind things about them. I don’t like the cruel things they did. Answer: I agree with you. The laws of Lashon Hora don’t apply to them, […]
Does the surface under a microwave need to be kosher?
Question: Am I allowed to use a microwave on a Treif contertop or Treif table or does the surface need to be kashered? Answer: You can use a kosher microwave even if it is presently sitting on a treif table. The reason is because the microwave is not hot on the outside, and it does […]
Does an electric hot water kettle become treif from the steam when used to Kasher a treif sink?
Question: We used an electric hot water kettle to Kasher a Treif sink. We poured the water directly from the kettle into the sink. Does the steam treif up the kettle? Answer: The steam that comes up from kashering will not make your kettle trief. One of the reasons is because the sink was not […]
Hefsek Tahara
Question: If one’s wife is suppose to do a hefsek tahara, however, she had to see a Doctor which had to introduce an implement in the area; this possibly caused bleeding. If the hefsek tahara comes out questionable, what should be done? What if one cannot see or will not agree to see a nurse […]
Are the brachot on tefillin Rabbinical or bibical?
Question: 1. Are blessings made on Tefillin biblical or rabbinical? 2. When were they instituted? 3. Why were they instituted? 4. How severe is it to say a blessing in vain and why? 5. How important is it to recite the exact wording of the blessing is written in the Siddur? Answer: Almost all […]
Proper Al Hamichya for Shabbos gray insert and Al Hamichya process for adding two brachos simultaneously:
Question: 1. Al Hamichya on the bottom (in the gray box) it says to insert on Shabbos – ורצה והחליצנו ביום השבת הזה – And may it be pleasing to you to give us rest on this day. Does this include Erev Shabbos? Or only the Shabbos hours are counted? 2. In Al Hamichya there […]
Does the glass plate in the microwave require toveling?
Question: Does the glass plate in the microwave require toveling? Answer: In most circumstances it will not need tevila, because we almost always use a plate or bowl under the food. Since the tray doesn’t come into direct contact with the food it doesn’t need tevila. However in the rare instance that one usually puts […]
Ordering items that came on Shabbos
Question: Hello, Is a problem if I order a gift on a Tuesday or Wednesday and it ends up getting delivered on Shabbat? (What if the recipient is Jewish but not religious–I cannot control if they open it on Shabbat) Is this my responsibility? Do I have to know it will arrive on a non-holiday? […]