Question: Hi I’m in a dira in Bnei Brak and someone has info on me and he is forcing me to give 1000 dollars or he will leak the info. I want to know if he is halachali allowed Answer: It is hard to answer without knowing the other side, but from what you are […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Grind coffee on Shabbat
Question: I own a manual coffee grinder which involves placing coffee beans in the top and then grinding it into powder. The mechanism is that the beans are pulverized by coming into contact with a burr blade inside the cylinder. I know that grinding is generally forbidden on Shabbat but that there are also some […]
Is using whip cream an shabbos an issue because of molid?
Question: Is using whip cream an shabbos an issue because of molid? Answer: Whipped topping that is discharged from a can should not be used on Shabbos according to most poskim. The reason for this is, that when the topping is inside the can it is a liquid. Upon contact with air, the liquid is transformed […]
Pressuring recipient of a Gmach
Question: If someone runs a Gmach that has money that belongs to other people (all the money has to be returned eventually). What principles could there be with regard to someone’s check bouncing? What kinda of limitations are there with regard to contacting him about making the payment? Answer: Essentially the prohibition of “Lo t’hiyei […]
Paying with shekel a credit card fee charged in dollars
Question: A friend used my credit card to pay for several flights over three months time. The card was charged in dollars but she is paying me in Israeli shekel. The first time she paid was before she traveled and she gave me an extra 100 shekel towards the return trip. Then she came back […]
selling a gift card
Question: Someone gave me a gift card as a present, am i allowed to sell it? someone mentioned that it may be עני המהפך בחררא since the person buying maybe would anyway buy from that store? Answer: It is permitted,as long as you are not buying it from inside the store itself. When someone is […]
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Kashrus agancy
Question: I wanted to know if the kashrut symbol of what looks like the luchos habris with a K inside the symbol is a reliable hushgacha? Answer: I never heard of such a hechsher, and you can check up which hechsherim are recommended by the CRC of Chicago at the following link. http://www.crcweb.org/agency_list.php If it isn’t […]
Can you rent an apartment in Chutz Laretz to someone who will bring in idols.
Question: Can you rent an apartment in Chutz Laretz to someone who will bring in idols. Answer: It is permitted to rent him an apartment, even if he will bring his idols inside it, (as long as it isn’t being rented in order to store his idols there). However when he leaves make sure that […]
Geniza
Question: What is required to create a Gueniza “bor” in our school? (only dig a hole and put all material in-papers from students like tests etc or that is another requirement?) Answer: Since you are only burying books and papers and not tefillin, mezuzahs, sifrei torah, or neviim, you do not have to bury them […]
Promising on a form
Question: I am interested in joining a club that has has an application. The application has a paragraph stating that “I promise to do XYZ”. I intend to do it, but I don’t want to get involved in nedarim or any other halachic issues. It is a non-Jewish club that does not involve a mitzvah […]
Is a table considered a michichtzah while walking in front of someone davening shmoneh esrei
Question: If one finishes shemonah esrei and people behind him are still davening shemonah esrei may he take his 3 steps back if there is a table where they’re davening if not what should he do Answer: A table is not enough to permit walking or crossing in front of a person davening shemona esrei […]
Not sure where im up to in shemona esrei
Question: What the halacha if someone is in middle of shemona esrei and spaces out and is completely unsure where he is holding? Does he go back to the the last bracha he remembers even though it was awhile and definitely went further Answer: Someone in such a position is really in a tight spot. […]
Dimensions of Israel
Question: On Bemidbar 13:25, Oznayim Latorah says that Israel measures 400 parsahs by 400 parsahs. Does this mean that it’s a square? It doesn’t look that way on a map. Answer: This idea is not from the Oznayim L’torah, rather it is mentioned in the gemorah and midrashim in numerous places. The Maharal (Chidushei Agados Rosh […]
Kilayim Questions
Question: Dear Rabbonim, I have a number of questions regarding planting a garden and want to make sure I have followed the rules correctly. I planted a number of different spices and plants around the border of the garden: Thyme, Rosemary, Mint, Peppermint, Basil, Lavender, Aloe Vera, lemon grass. (2 or 3 of each plant […]
Hugging and kol Isha with father
Question: I am a married woman and my father who lives afar is coming to visit my family for a short time. I understood that to give a full hug to a parent is not appropriate. Is that true? What if he comes to hug me? What about kol isha? If he wants to sing […]
Tznius with father
Question: I am a married woman and my father who lives afar is coming to visit my family for a short time. Do the same sensitivities in tznius apply? For example, if there is a robe that I wear in my home but wouldn’t wear in front of other men (not only because its a […]
Informing regarding wrong item sent
Question: Hello, Thank you so much for your help, it is sincerely appreciated. I recently ordered something online and the wrong item was sent (there were two color options and the other color was sent instead of the one I ordered). Is there any issue of informing/ lashon hora to mention to the company that […]
Returning lost pen found in Jewish parking lot
Question: I found about a 4 dollar pen half used in a public place,looks like it was there for a while before i found it. After i picked it up i noticed it has a name but with a last name like Cohen in Monsey it will be very time consuming to find the owner […]
prostration
Question: Hello, Do you know or have any information about doing hishtachavoya with pishut yadaim veraglaim and even maskis . Does one need a hefsek? To turn his head? Why don’t we do it today in tachnun? Could one do it when ever he wants? At night? On shabbos? How exactly to do it? etc […]
Taking my boys swimming with female help
Question: Hi, I know in general, mixed swimming is not allowed. But I’d like the take my twin boys (age 6) swimming, and can’t do so by myself. I’d need to go with at least one more adult (female) to help out (in the water). If the female adult is a relative (not sibling, possibly […]
Mezuzah on a mobile home
Question: Hi, If one lives (permanently) in a mobile home, does it need a mezuzah? What if he lives in it but not permanently (i.e. for a week-long vacation)? Thanks! Answer: A person who lives permanently in a mobile home, like those who live in a community of mobile homes, has to put up a […]
What should seller do if package gets lost in the mail?
Question: I operate an online store located in Israel, with most sales to the US. We ship via Israel Post, which is then handled in the US by USPS. Approximately 1 in 500 or 1 in 1,000 parcels mysteriously disappears, never to be found. In such cases, we don’t know whether the onus falls on […]
Father might not say brachos
Question: My father who lives afar is coming to visit my family for a short time. If I remember correctly, he doesn’t always say brachos, sometimes doesn’t say the correct brachos. When he does say brachos, its quite quick/slurred and I’m not sure if they are considered proper brachos. Is there anything we should know […]
halacha will within the State of Israel
Question: I have been told that a person that does not prepare a will, his family could face a lot of difficulties vis a vis the Israeli court system. Is there service via dayanim that create a halacha will that is accepted by the State of Israel justice apparatus. thanks Answer: We do have tzava’as-it […]
Fruit wax
Question: I was told that fruit wax can have dairy ingredients in it and fruit wax is on the skin of the uncut fruit. Should I be concerned that my apple could be dairy when eating the peel. Do I need to eat it before meat as a precaution. Answer: Technically you might be right, […]
Wearing shoes while sleeping
Question: Regarding what it says in Gemara in yoma about sleeping with shoes – is it a problem to doze off on the train, or while learning, while wearing shoes? Answer: The poskim say that this doesn’t apply to when one is sleeping “shinas aria” just dozing off or a short nap. Sources: Likutei Maharich […]
Tying shoes on Shabbos
Question: May one tie his shoes at the very beginning of Shabbos, when one will not be removing them until after Shabbos (such as one who learns the entire Shabbos and does not sleep)? Answer: If it will stay for more than 24 hours, it is controversial, and therefore the Mishna Berura and other poskim […]
Can I look at Budhas if I am going on vacation to Thailand
Question: I am going to Thailand and the tour includes several Budhas and temples. Can i look at them? Answer: You would be well advised to avoid all such places. The Gemora says that Jews are not allowed to benefit from idols and avoda zara. Included in this are entering a place of worship of […]
yichud with husband at night with door open
Question: I’m staying by a friend in a differant town. she wont be home before 11 pm. I’m exhausted. if her husband is the only one home can i stay there and go to sleep if he keeps the door unlocked and open a fee inches? Answer: The היתר of פתח פתוח applies to any […]
Siyum by both chavrusas separately
Question: My chavrusa and I finished Sanhedrin. Usually we make a joint siyum. Can we each make our own siyum separately if necessary? Answer: Mazal Tov! You can both make separate siyumim, because each one of you has his own simcha, and for each one of you it is a personal accomplishment. Keep on going!
Pareve dishes
Question: SHALOM Can you please explain to me the following. What is better to have in my home ,parev ,milchig and fleishig dinner plates Or Only milchig and fleishig dinner plates Can you please add a reason to the awnser Best wishes Answer: It is fine for you to have only milchig and fleishig, and […]
Cutting sharp food
Question: What should sharp food’s (example ,lemon garlic ,onion or chilli) be cut with ,either a parev knife , a milchig knife or a fleishig knife. And if i cut the sharp food’s (lemon,garlic,onion and chilli) with either a milchig or fleishig knife, does it become fleishig or milchig Answer: All sharp foods should be […]
Closing the Aron Hakodesh
Question: Dear Rabbi I way wondering if you could outline the accepted minhag of when to close the Aron Hakodesh on shabbos morning and indeed every time we open it? Should it be closed after Brich Shemai when the chazan has been given the torah or should it be left open until the chazan has […]
Food plate
Question: Is there any food plates that are made out of certain materials that i can use for both milchig and fleishig Answer: According to some opinions glass doesn’t absorb, therefore technically it can be used for both. However the Ashkenazi minhag is not this way, and even for Sefardim, it is not recommended to […]
Forgot to light shabbos candles.
Question: I forgot to light shabbos candles this week. They where in a fully lit room for the whole shabbos, I’m not sure if this makes a difference or not. What do I do? Answer: The halacha is that a woman[1] who forgot to light נרות one week[2] (and no one else lit for her[3] […]
Massar sefer torah
Question: 1) I recently purchased some nevium on klaf for my shul to use for the Hoftorah. Although the shul is using it they belong to me ( I didn’t give them to the shul ) . I was told I can purchase them with Masser Money as i bought them for the shul use […]
loshon hora and shidduchim
Question: The חפץ חיים writes מותר to ask people about this בחור in תורה, if he did not ask you directly, he just said tell me about this and this student, and you know he really wants better then that student who is asking you about, Is that considered asking you directly about this and […]
loshon hora
Question: If a בחור took off the door of his principle’s office before Purim, and now the Yeshiva is trying to figure out who did it, and the only one who knows is a בחור who, to begin with, didn’t really like that boy who took off the door. DO you know of any היתר […]
Sharing negative impression with husband
Question: Lichvod Harav We are considering playgroup options for our child and I’ve met several people with playgroups. Can I discuss my impressions with my husband openly even if it includes negative impressions or concerns that I have about the various teachers? Answer: Whatever is needed for toeles and relevant to sending your child’s attending […]
Fantasy writing
Question: I have always loved writing fiction and fantasy. Recently I’m becoming more religious and wanted to know if it’s a problem if I write about goy characters that date. Nothing big just a kiss or a date or something Answer: You should be careful not to write anything that will arouse men or women […]
gender
Question: What is the orthodox understanding/explanation of someone who is born one gender and years later feels they are the opposite? Is there remedy? Answer: Before getting into the Orthodox understanding of this, let me just say that a person that has such feelings must be undergoing emotional stress and trauma, as it is very […]
Nursing after relations
Question: Is there a halachic or other problem with nursing a crying baby right after relations? Thank you, yashar kochachem and tizku lmitzvos Answer: The poskim say that for kabala reasons after relations, that a woman should not nurse until 36 minutes afterwards, but if the child is crying that she can nurse after 18 minutes. […]
Fleishig Sauce Spilled on Milchig Sandwich Toaster
Question: A tray of baked turkey came out of the oven and then a sizeable amount of the turkey sauce spilled directly onto a milchig sandwich toaster (known in Israel as a “טוסטר לחיצה”). This is a toaster used to make what Israelis call “toast” meaning you put in it bread with cheese and close […]
Returning lost pen
Question: I found about a 4 dollar pen half used in a public place,looks like it was there for a while before i found it. After i picked it up i noticed it has a name but with a last name like cohen in monsey it will be very time consuming to find the owner […]
Davening between Yishtabach and Kaddish
Question: If someone finishes p’sukei d’zimra ahead of the chazan and has already said Yishtabach, what is permitted for this individual to daven/say before the chazan begins kaddish? Can one say karbonos? Parts of p’sukei d’zimra that may have been skipped? Tehillim? Thank you. Answer: You are allowed to learn with your mind and eyes, […]
Procedure to say Tehillim during night
Question: If I awake in the middle of the night and can’t fall back asleep because I am particularly worried about something, am I allowed to recite Tehillim? Do I need to first get out of bed and wash negel vasser or say burkas hatorah? Or can I just say it lying down as I […]
What did the Leviim do when not officiating in the Beis Hamikdosh
Question: 8:18 Chizkuni says that Leviim didn’t own land, so they would be free to concentrate on their tasks in the Temple. If they ploughed soil, their hands would be too coarse to play instruments. I don’t understand this Chizkuni. Apart from teaching Torah, what did Leviim do when not officiating? Similarly, when the Mishkan […]
What’s the deal with Cotton and Wool Tzitzis?
Question: What is the difference between wool and cotton Tzitzis? Do they have the same Chiyuv? Is there a Hiddur to wear wool? What if one gets hot easily? Thank you. Answer: The difference is like this- according to all opinions a four cornered garment needs tzitzis min hatorah if it is made of wool […]
paying workers
Question: One who has many begadim that need to be checked for shaatnez, should he have the shaatnez checker check each one separately, pay him, and then proceed to the next one, as each time one fulfills a mitzvas aseh of paying his worker? If one has them checked all together, he is passing up […]