Question: Can a woman/girl in shidduchim wax her arms during the 3 weeks/9 days? I would imagine that this would be similar to R’ Moshe’s heter for a woman/girl in shidduchim to shave her legs during the 3 weeks and 9 days, but what’s the halacha? Answer: R’ Moshe doesn’t say that it is automatically […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Hatarat Nedarim
Question: Hi, I recently asked a question regarding hatarat nedarim for Tehillim I have taken upon myself, and your answer sparked another question – A few months ago, I decided to try and recite 10 perakim of Tehillim each Shabbat afternoon – While I didn’t explicitly say to myself, or anyone else, that I was […]
Gift giving in the 3 weeks
Question: Can I buy and give a close friend a picture/picture frame as a birthday gift during the 3 weeks? Answer: During the three weeks it is permitted, however during the nine days according to numerous poskim, the general minhag is not to give presents during the nine days. ( A bar mitzvah however present […]
Making a bracha on a safek mitzva
Question: In siman samach zein in Mishnah birurah there is a disagreement if someone has a safek by say lulav and therefore you must repeat the action whether you repeat the bracha as well. Yet, by sefira if someone has a sefek whether he counted, the Mishnah birurah says he counts during the day and […]
Kaddish in a movie
Question: I was called to play a Jewish funeral in a movie. If the script requires it, could I recite kaddish? the crew (the troupe) is not made up of Jews, and everything would be for the film. For me is job and of course I’m Jewish… Answer: Kaddish is a very holy prayer, even […]
I received a sum of money by mistake
Question: My son collected for an organization (a Jewish one) and as a reward they gave him a debit card and they by mistake gave him a lot more than he was supposed to get. So my question is does he need to give the extra back or is he allowed to keep it. (We […]
Birkas Hatorah when waking up after chatzos
Question: If I wake up at night after chazot do I say birkat hatorah before I learn? What if I slept after chazot and woke up an hour later. My next question is when it becomes Day do I make another birkat hatorah? Thank you Answer: You would only say birkas hatorah once when you […]
Teshuva for lying
Question: Without intending to, I said something to my child’s teacher/babysitter that was untrue about him. (I was trying to think of an example of his ability in an area, and I said something that was an exaggeration and not true). Am I mechuyav to tell her and “take back” what I said? I don’t […]
Swallowing blood
Question: If one has a nose bleed and swallows some blood is that consider being over an a lav of Kares bishogage or the din only applies if it was other blood. Answer: There is no problem with swallowing such blood. Essentially swallowing human blood is not included in the prohibition of not eating blood. […]
ovel attending grandsons barmitzvah
Question: can a grandmother attend a seudas barmitzvah of her grandson if she is in aveilus for her mother but after the shloshim period? there will be no music there as its after 17 tamuz. thank you Answer: It is permitted for the grandparents to attend the bar mitzvah, as it is considered their simcha […]
Can a website that displays only divrei Torah be “open” on Shabbos?
Question: We run a popular website that displays audio, video, transcripts in Hebrew and translations in English, French, Spanish, Russian and Yiddish. Does this site need to be shut down on Shabbos? Answer: If there aren’t any monetary transactions it is permitted, because you are not doing any melacha, and there is not sechar Shabbos, […]
Discussing teacher with husband
Question: Thank you for this incredible service and harbatzas hatorah! It is halachically permitted for me to discuss my son’s teacher with my husband if there is not a specific toeles in mind? I’d like to be able to share her approach, the way she sees our son etc. What if I disagree with elements […]
Money given as a loan that wasn’t paid back
Question: Someone has owed me money for a long time. I do not want to give up on getting the money back, but on the other hand I don’t want him to be punished on my account in the next world if he never pays it back. Is there some kind of formula I should […]
Contracts
Question: לכבודו I wanted to know if you have any essays/ articles on the following topic: “Contracts in Business law vs. contracts in Halakha”. I also have the following question: I know that in business law an oral contract (vs. written) is very often valid. Is it so in Halakha as well, or does Halakha/ […]
Dress for vort during 3 weeks
Question: Can someone who gets engaged during the 3 weeks buy a dress for her vort? (assuming for the sake of this question that the vort is during the 3 weeks but before R”C Av) Answer: The issue during the three weeks is not buying the dress, but wearing it, because we make the shehechiyanu […]
Using a cane on shabbos
Question: Rabbi Moshe says that a blind person should not use a cane on Shabbos. Where is the tishuva , so that I can see it inside Answer: אג”מ או”ח ח”ה ס’ י”ט בהצלחה
Hatarat nedarim
Question: I say tehillim every day, and have been reciting it in Hebrew and then reading it in English. I started doing this in order to understand the tehillim, and it has now become habitual – I’ve been doing it this way for months, despite now understanding the words on their own. I know there […]
Does one need a Mezuzah on doors to a narrow balcony?
Question: Does one need a Mezuzah on doors to a narrow balcony? Answer: you should put up mezuza there on the right side of the door when you come inside from the balcony, but with out a bracha. the reason is because even though the balcony doesn’t need a mezuzah on it’s own, but the […]
Learning in bed/pajamas
Question: I often find I want to read some Divrei Torah or books of halacha at night as I’m going to bed – is it permitted to learn in bed and/or in pajamas? Answer: It is definitely permitted, and what H-shem wants you to do. Keep on growing Sources:
Garmii
Question: I heard that physical abuse can be considered גרמי to require an abuser to pay for therapy and the like. I am having a hard time finding מראה מקומות on this including current פוסקים and would appreciate any help. Thank you. Answer: I don’t know-perhaps it is repuy-a meaness pays nezek Maybe contact people […]
Monetary business law vs. דיני ממונות
Question: Do you have any essays on the difference between Monetary Business Law and דיני ממונות? Answer: I don’t have anything but I once had a book from Prof Daniel Pollack-he is at Yu and he wrote abt it. I recall an article that I read there from Rabbi Yonah Reiss who is a lawyer […]
What does רעך בתורה ובמצות mean?
Question: The Torah says וְאָהַבְתָּ לְרֵעֲךָ כָּמוֹךָ, Love your fellow as yourself. Actual halacha: Kitzur Shulchan Aruch: It is incumbent upon every Jew to love every fellow Jew as he loves himself. Rambam: It is mandatory upon every man to love each and every one of Israel even as he loves his own self. However, […]
Answering the door
Question: When a person knocks on my door on shabbos, coming to visit without any plans for a visit, I prefer not to answer the door. I am very uncomfortable with unplanned visits, they are very stressful for me. I do not want to sit and chat. I feel that it would not be possible […]
Items Not Sent-Halacha
Question: Hello. Thank you for your help. I ordered several mezuzahs a few months ago and delayed opening the box. I recently opened the box as I was hoping to put them up. I am wrong for delaying opening the box. However, I ordered the mezuzahs with scrolls and only the mezuzahs, not the scrolls […]
liquid health supplement- kosher?
Question: Hello, Thank you for your help. For the purposes of applying to the skin for health benefit, is it ok to use an item with the following ingredients? Distilled water 94%, Potassium Iodide 4%, Iodine 2% Thanks again, Your help is sincerely appreciated. Answer: It sounds fine to me. L’briut- to good health
Challah
Question: Hello, Thank you for your help. When purchasing 6 store-bought kosher challah rolls, that come in one package, is there any requirement to take off bread to separate the dough- even if the dough is already made into bread? Thanks. Answer: If the rolls have a reliable hechsher, the kosher supervision includes the taking […]
Masser deduction para and camp
Question: Can I deduct masser for paying a para for my son at school or camp or even camp tuition. Is camp like babysitting or different ty. Son is five and have other older kids at camp. Answer: A person cannot deduct maser for expenses that he is obligated to do, such as pay tuition […]
Haircut on night of 17th or Tammuz
Question: According to R Moshe he allows haircuts (weddings etc) on the night of the 17th of Tammuz (night before fast) bshas hadchak. My wife is the one who gives me haircuts, financial reasons etc. She is not going to the Mikvah until the night of the 17th, so when she comes home, can she […]
Building on Yom Tov and chol hamoed
Question: Shalom, We recently purchased a house that needs substantial renovations. Lots of Yamim Tovim and Chol Hamoed are coming soon. If we contract out to a non Jewish company to handle the renovations (they are paid per job not per day), are they permitted to renovate on Yom Tov or Chol Hamoed under their […]
Eating on Shabbos before a fast day
Question: Is having something one usually has before a fast mutar to have on shabbos for the Sunday fast if he doesn’t SAY that’s the reason? Answer: Regular food is permitted, because it is a normal thing to do on Shabbos, but the person shouldn’t say that it is in order to prepare for the […]
Whole Foods roasted coffee beans
Question: Can I use Whole Foods coffee beans? If so, can I use their grinder? The beans are unflavored. Thank You Answer: In consultation with a kashrus expert, it seems fine. Best Wishes
Lo Silbosh
Question: It has become a thing in the secular world that a girlfriend would start wearing some of her boyfriends comfortable clothes while indoors (sweatpants, hoodies, t-shirts, etc). These are clothes made for men, although these can also be made specifically for women. Is it mutar for my wife to wear such clothes of mine? […]
Repaying a loan in a different currency
Question: A gutten, I live in England and lent a sum of shekolim to a Yid who was visiting Eretz Yisroel for a short while. We agreed that he would pay me back in pounds for all the shekolim that he used and the rest he would return unused. The exchange rate that we would […]
Coming in contact and delivering with not kosher food.
Question: I’ve been wanting to deliver for a food delivery app for a while (to make a little extra cash on the side) and just realized that there may be some halachic issue with doing so. I understand that one isn’t supposed to receive benefit from non-kosher food, but technically I am only being paid […]
Washing with a kli
Question: Hi, I was wondering if you could clarify for me what actions require handwashing with a kli and which ones just require that hands be washed?If a kli is required, how many times is it necessary to pour over each hand. I currently pour over 3 times, alternating hands, for netillat yadayim in the […]
3 weeks/9 days accept job offer
Question: Is there a problem of accepting a job offer (signed contract) during the 3 weeks? 9 days? In case it matters, it would be a full time salaried job. The business owner seems to be Jewish (not 100% sure) but unaffiliated. Answer: It is permitted to sign the contract even during the nine days. […]
Mistakes in davening
Question: I have a few questions regarding making mistakes in davening (mispronunciation, etc) If while davening I notice I have made a mistake on pronouncing a word, should I go back and repeat it? Or is it not appropriate to go back to what has already been said? If I do go back to repeat […]
Order of importance of Davening
Question: I recently asked a question https://dinonline.org/2019/07/09/order-of-importance-for-tfillah/ about the order of importance for davening for a women who is short on time, and your answer was very helpful- thank you. In your answer you mentioned that if short on time, a women should say Pesukei Dezimra ( at least some or all the Hallelukas) over […]
mother fasting when she can break 17th tammuz
Question: Hi, my wife drinks coffee daily and gets bad headaches on fasts and since we have a 5 year old who is ADHD type kid, she finds herself really screaming and a bit out of it and not able to be a nice mother (whom she normally is under normal circumstances), she’s to the […]
Wearing Clothing with a Label Outside of an Eruv
Question: We were told that a suit on which the label stating the name of the company on the outside of the garment should not be worn outside of the eruv this Shabbos. The label I am referring to is only meant to be on until one purchases the garment and then it is removed. […]
Origins of Mankind
Question: Hello, I am trying to understand how the we reconcile the flood and that all humankind around now descend from Noach and his son’s with the fact that there were and are still civilizations that are or were isolated from the rest of the world. For example, how could American Indians have gotten to […]
Shabbos delivery
Question: Hi. I am leaving for Israel on Sunday. I want to order an herbal supplement for anxiety on Amazon that I would like to take with me in case I need it. It would be delivered tomorrow on Shabbos. Is that allowed? Answer: If it can be delivered to you before shabbos in a […]
Are you allowed to say on a Jew that is dead already”Yimach Shimo”
Question: Are you allowed to say On a Jew that is dead already Yimach shimo even if he was a big rosho Answer: Without getting into the topic or who “earns” this title, if a person is one that indeed can be called this,it also applies after they die. There were a number gedoilim that […]
Pushka Problem with Tzedakkah.
Question: I was recently made aware of a puska in our home (perhaps my wife or children acquired it without my knowledge from someone distributing them in our neighborhood) for a religious institution that promotes shitos/teachings that are contrary to that of daas torah; which if I were made aware of it l’chatchila I would […]
Birthday party during 3 weeks
Question: Dear Rabbi My son’s first birthday falls within the three weeks of mourning. Am I permitted to have a party for him without music or should I wait? Thank you in advance Answer: It is permitted to make a birthday party during the three weeks but not during the nine days. Mazal Tov Sources: […]
New Aron Kodesh for the Shul
Question: The Shul that i daven at is getting a new, big, beautiful Aron Kodesh. Is there a Chiuv to say Shehechiyanu by the Tzibbur, the Gabbai (who invests his life into the shul), or the Rav? Answer: Since the Aron Hakodesh is benefiting a number of people the correct bracha would hatov v’hameitiv. Regarding […]
Removing a Tic from body on Shabbos.
Question: Hello, A child is is found with a tic attached to its skin on Shabbos, is it permissible to remove the tic, which according to the medical profession may carry a risk of spreading serious disease. The removal process will entail a possibility, but not a certainty of i. Killing the tic, or removing […]
Avel visiting married children
Question: Hi, Our mother/mother-in-law is coming to our home for a visit. She in in the first year of aveilus. Are there are any halachos we should know about when hosting her? Can we give her gifts as her host? Thank you Answer: The most important thing that you should know for when you mother […]
Talis by mincha
Question: Why doesn’t the congregation where a talis by mincha? Answer: The idea of wearing a tallis by mincha is only brought regarding a chazan, for kavod hatzibur, but not for the whole congregation. See Mishna Berura 18-5. Best Wishes
skeleton doctors office
Question: RE; https://dinonline.org/?p=52194 Q: I was in a doctor’s office and saw an infant’s skeleton. Do I have to publicize this to make kohanim aware? can I assume that it is not from a Yid? A: It is hard to imagine that the skeleton is real, and not just an imitation made out of plastic […]