Question: Hi We recently installed an alarm system in our house. There is a sensor on every door and window. There is a way to disarm the alarm system for shabbos so that we can open and close the doors without setting off the alarm or any alerts. The problem is that each sensor has […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Watch pin on Shabbos
Question: If the pin that adjusts the time on a wristwatch falls out on shabbos, is it permitted to push it back in to allow to watch to continue functioning properly? Answer: My understanding of what you are asking is that when the pin is pulled out the watch doesn’t work. Since the watch isn’t […]
Ladies mikvah
Question: I am away on vacation with my husband and im supposed to go to a mikva tonight. There is a mikva in the city that a goy can open for me but no mikva lady. (I dont know any Jews in this city)Is it better for me 1. To go alone 2. Have my […]
Money found in a yeshiva dormitory
Question: Do coins found underneath couch pillows belong to the one who found them? Thank you in advance! Answer: You can keep the money, and enjoy it, (just remember to give maaser on it). You don’t have to worry that it is in the yeshiva which is owned by the rosh yeshiva, because the dormitory is not […]
Saying bore nefashot to corn
Question: Hi rabbi how are you The corn is kazayis but the part i ate is not what should i do say bore nefashot or i shouldnh (Sepharad) Answer: I am fine. Thank you for asking, and I hope things are also good by you. Regarding your question since you didn’t eat a kazayis, (and you […]
Travel Agent Comission
Question: In this case I am clearly their ( travel) agent and have built up trust with customers that I am getting them a good deal and since not everyday is equal sometimes I do takah to do get them a the best deal but some deals I have to add on my own commission […]
paying back for copyright infringement
Question: I used to have illlegally downloaded music and games. I long ago realized it is wrong, and deleted them all. am I chayiv to pay for the benefit I got from them? is it better to? (according to those who say it is assur). does it make a difference if it was non-jews/non-religious jews? […]
Jew only by Jewish mother
Question: BS”D Shalom dear Rabbi, Question: Why is only Jewish who is born of a Jewish mother is Jew, have a specific halakha, in the Torah explains both oral and written? Answer: This is part of the oral torah, and the Talmud (Tractate Kiddushin 68b) explains this. It is written in the Torah, (Deuteronomy 7-3,4) […]
making amends for lashon hara part 2
Question: continuation of previous asked question.(not sure this one should be posted): few questions about your answer: a) when you say in the place of the comment, how specific is that? is the same building good? b) it it based on the hilchos of kabbolas lashon hara, that if no one accepted it or looks […]
cleanliness during davening
Question: I generally try to clean myself thoroughly after a bowel movement. However, on motzoi Shabbos I had a feeling that I was dirty over there, and when I went to the bathroom to check, I realized that I was significantly dirty over there and my underwear was stained from excrement. I do not remember […]
Watching TV/playing games on tablet during Shloshim and the year
Question: During Shloshim and the Year, while mourning for my mother, may I watch television or movies at home, and/or play games on my tablet either alone or with friends? Answer: Without getting into the issue if one should watch television or movies, because of the negative content and images that they contain, it is […]
STICKING TABLE CLOTH ON SHABBOS
Question: If a plastic table cloth gets sticky or dirty on Shabbos. What’s the best way lechatchilla to clean it? Put a little water on the table cloth, and wipe gently with a dry paper towel. Can one use a semi moist cloth towel that is used for drying hands? How hard can one press […]
falling leaves bothering a neighbor
Question: I have a date tree in my backyard. The tree is planted legally. The home and tree existed before the home next door was built. There is a renter in the home next door. They say that the leaves from my date tree are falling (or falling and being blown, potentially) into their property […]
The name Avshalom
Question: The only Avshalom that I am aware of in Tanach was Dovid Hamelech’s son. He rebelled against his father and died a terrible death. Therefore, I was wondering if the name Avshalom is a good name to use to name a child? Is it wrong naming after a wicked person? Thank You Answer: Interesting […]
Why are some children born with a physical or mental defect?
Question: BS”D Shalom dear Rabbi, Question: I wonder if any book in Judaism (Kabbalah) speaks why children are born with physical or mental defect? Answer: You are asking an important question. Often when things happen to small children we wonder, why were they born this way? They are only a small child and haven’t done […]
Shabbos Knife on Shabbos
Question: Is there a difference in using a Sharp knife on Shabbos to cut Challah…. is there a difference between a serrated knife (saw knife) or a regular knife? both cut the challah? and what is the reason for the Halacha Pesak?? can you please quote sources? Answer: The Rema brings that one should sharpen […]
Beit Din Gueirut
Question: BS”D Shalom dear Rabbi. Question: Can a Beit Din that will make conversions (koshe recognized), charged to the guiur? in the case of the rabbi may provide a necessary price for the person becomes? Answer: Technically a Beit Din should not charge for a din torah etc., the custom is that they do […]
making amends for lashon hara
Question: i used to not be very careful with my mouth, but now b’h I’ve got much more control, an entirely different person. however, i’m trying to do teshuva for things done in the past. two questions: a) was it lashon hara to make a joke how old a certain person is? b)it’s been tearing […]
Havdalah on Coffee
Question: We did not have any wine in the house so we made havdalah on Ice Coffee. Was that allowed? & is one permitted to make havdalah on whiskey? Thank you Answer: You can definitely make havdala on whiskey, however the amount that you have to drink according to most poskim is maleh lugmov, a […]
international shipping
Question: Hello, Thank you for your help. My question is regarding customs declarations. I recently ordered clothing from China and the merchandise is fine. The order totaled around $450 US dollars, and I noticed that the receipt from one of the shipments (they were shipped in I think two packages) said that the declared value […]
Selling property in the process of being recovered from thief
Question: Can owner of movable property that currently in possession of thief sell those items if the original owner is certain they’ll be able to recover the property in beis din (has good eidim, etc) Thank you Answer: True but until you actually get it, it is still not in your possession.
Tefilin Hand
Question: This is a question re my son who is getting Tefilin now for his BM iyH I am unsure if he is considered left or right handed. He writes with his left (but writing with his right is not as difficult as the left of most). He cuts with his left. He will hold […]
Rainbow
Question: In light of the first mishna brura bshem the chayei odom in hilchos rainbow bracha is it not considered motzi diba if you say, “there is a bracha opportunity in the sky outside” or is hinting the same issue? Answer: It is permitted to hint to someone else that they should make the bracha. […]
MCA BROKER
Question: Is it permissible to open a merchant cash advance brokerage – to be the “shadchan” between funders and merchants? Is it assur to send a jewish owned merchant cash advance funding company a deal as a brokerage – “shadchan”. If yes, why? Thanks. Please advise Answer: This sounds like real ribbis, and you can […]
name
Question: If my grandaughter was named Charna in shul but she is called Lani exclusively. (Apparently Charna means black and therefore they gave an official English name of Melanie that also means black.) The parents absolutely object to the name Charna being used and they wouldn’t even disclose that name to a school that asks […]
gifts
Question: A friend asked me to get a negel vasser set for him (he will pay me back). I would like to give it to him as a matana, but I am afraid that he won’t want it as a matana (one who hates gifts will live, plus he might just be embarrassed about taking […]
theft?
Question: Hello, Thank you for your help. My question is regarding taking screen pictures on a computer, whether it be to remember text written or an image. For example, if a person wants to create a “vision board” with kosher images that show for example: sunsets, beautiful homes etc. and they find these images online, […]
Pas Akum.
Question: 1. I am having trouble defining “oleh al shulchan melachim” and “tzuras hapas” as it pertains to bishul and pas akum accordingly. I am also not finding any clear definitions in the poskim/teshuvos. Are there any mareh mikomos that you could help me out with? 2. When there is a heter to eat pas […]
Left shoe before right shoe
Question: What should one do if one accidentally places his left shoe on first before his right shoe? Should he remove the left shoe, then place his right shoe on, then put on back his left shoe? Or do we say that once the left shoe was already put on, he can leave it on […]
Baking then frying or Vice Versa
Question: A gutten. Please clarify for me the halocha of צליה אחר טיגוןand vice versa. If the differentiation in Bishul is between a process in which the food is submerged in liquid (boiling & deep frying) and a process that uses dry heat or little liquid, does that mean that צליהand shallow frying are Muttar […]
Making bed on Shabbos
Question: When sleeping as a guest in someone’s house on Shabbos, and one will not be returning after Shabbos (one is only sleeping there at night), may he make the bed on Shabbos as one does not wish to leave the bed a mess due to derech eretz? Answer: Yes, he may make the bed […]
kiddush
Question: When attending a Kiddush, and the person reciting Kiddush did not necessarily drink a melo lugmav, but rather only a sip, may one rely on such a Kiddush and eat a mezonos, especially if one will later on make his own Kiddush (before eating challa), and the Aruch Hashulchan is meikel that there is […]
yichud
Question: May one seclude himself with a lady if the door is unlocked/ open but there is a 0% chance that someone will barge in (such as one who is in his apartment and he never has guests or people that come in there, and there is no realistic expectation that someone will come in)? […]
Rather be killed than transgress
Question: Is this rule of יהרג ואל יעבר applicable today, and does it apply if you are being forced to have relations of an sort with a non-Jewish woman? Answer: This rule does apply nowadays and unfortunately was very applicable during the second world war. Regarding if there is יהרג ואל יעבור regarding a man with […]
Shehechianu Again
Question: BS”D Shalom dear Rabbi. Question: if a person makes a purchase of a new object for his personal use and then makes the B’rakhah of Shehecheianu, but soon after B’rakhah finds that it did not serve well, by making the exchange of the object to another of the same model but in its number […]
Davening behind someone else in shul
Question: Am i permtited to stand SE behind a certain person when I know, or suspect, that this person will daven very quickly and then step back into my dalet amos and/ or sit down in front of me, which is assur? If for some reason the only place where I can daven is behind […]
Handling object placed in mouth before netilas yadayim after awakening
Question: Sometimes my baby wakes up crying in the middle of the night, and I try to calm him by placing his pacifier back in his mouth. In handling the pacifier, I sometimes end up touching the pacifier nipple, i.e. the part that goes into the baby’s mouth. In these situations, I have just woken […]
Bride vs. orphan for tzedakah; concentrating vs. spreading donation
Question:finish sources, Rmbam… Brocho v’Shalom, B”H I am a teenage girl working at a small secretarial job with a modest income. So often, I received emails from crowdfunding platforms such as The Chesed Fund and my heart aches to see so many fellow Yidden in pain and need. They reach out to us, their siblings, […]
Getting enjoyment from a non-jew
Question: If you are staying in hotel and boss jonnie tells his non-Jewish worker they forgot to plug in the warmer . Go plug in now so they will have hot food. Can you eat the food? Answer: If most of the guest or even half of the quest in the hotel are Jews it […]
E-Mail Subscription and Copyright
Question: We are subscribed to a weekly local Jewish news publication. We are paying a yearly fee for a printed version received by regular mail/post – plus an additional fee for an electronic version received by Email. Are we halachically allowed to share the Email version with our children? Would it make a difference, if […]
Goy tripping on the plug
Question: If on shabbos a goy tripped on the crockpot cord and unplugged it and on his own plugged it back in – may the chulent be eaten on shabbos? Any difference in how cooked the item is? Answer: It is considered as if the gentile is doing the action for himself- in order to […]
Embarrassed passer by on street
Question: Dear Rabbis, I embarrassed a passer by on the street. I don’t know who they were, and have no way of finding out. Is there any way of doing teshuvah for this, like someone who doesn’t know who they stole from can give to a public fund? Answer: Do teshuva for the bain adom […]
tehillim at night
Question: Until when can I say tehillim on a regular winter night? Answer: Regarding saying Tehillim at night, according to the Mishna Berura it is permitted to say all of torah shbal pe at night and it is only preferable to say it during the daytime. According to the Arizal though it is stricter. Nighttime […]
Mikvah on Ohr Zarua night
Question: If my wife’s mikvah night is on the night of Ohr Zarua for Ona Beinonis, does she go to the mikvah? Answer: She should go to the mikva and she is muter even though it is the time of the Ohr Zarua, because even those who are makpid on the Ohr Zarua, it is […]
lying
Question: There is a game called “Two Truths and a Lie,” where a person says two truths and a lie and the participants of the game attempt to guess which of the statements was a lie. Is it permissible o participate in this game, and to say a lie? If so, what kind of a […]
breaking minyan
Question: A person is makpid to always daven with asara mispallelim, as required by some poskim, and not to rely on six (which is questionable). If one is in a shul where he sees that he is #10 but they will not have asara misplallelim (some people davened already), does he have the right to […]
I am makpid and the rav is not
Question: If one is invited to partake of shalosh seudos by a certain rabbi, but one knows that the rabbi is not makpid on starting before shkia, whereas I am very makpid, what should I do? Should I simply decline the invitation and offer some excuse, as I do not wish to rely on b’dieveds? […]
Interruptions after kerias shema al ha’mitta
Question: What should one do if he is reciting kerias shema al ha’mitta before going to bed, but is concerned that he might get interrupted (e.g. the baby will wake up and he will need to attend to it) before he ends up falling asleep? Should he recite everything except for the bracha of HaMapil? […]
Brikat Hamazon, Kissing the bread
Question: BS”D Shalom my dear Rabbi, Question: I heard someone say that when we brikat Hamazon must leave a piece of bread and kissing it in the middle of Brikat Hamazon, it is halakha? is truth? Answer: The idea of leaving a piece of bread on the table is brought in Shulchan Aruch O:CH 180-2. […]
Hotel Shampoo
Question: Can I take home unused shampoos that were left in the hotel room during my stay. I used one of them but not the other? Answer: The individual shampoos that were put in your room for your personal use are like your portion of food and if you don’t eat it you may take […]