Question: I made a donation to a tzedakah institution and this institution publicly embarrassed a close friend of mine by firing him in a very public way. Am I allowed to ask them to return my donation or to give to another tzedakah? Answer: Hello, You sound very upset, that the institution fired your […]
Author Archives: Rabbonim of the Beis Hora'a
Teshuva for negative thoughts
Question: B”H Kavod haRav, Thank you for your help. I am actively working on correcting anger, davening and reading about how to go about it. Recently, I had a situation where I was triggered, and although I did teshuva on the same day and apologized to the person and they said they forgave me, I […]
Tallis Knot that unraveled.
Question: Hi, One of the knots on my tallis gadol came undone, leaving me with 4 double knots on one side instead of 5. Is the tallis still kosher or must I have the knot redone? Thanks! Answer: You should have the fifth knot redone. you most probably will be able to find the […]
Dressing for davening
Question: I (female) have ADD and struggle with time management and housekeeping. I’m working on myself and improving b”H. My question is that once in a while, such as on erev shabbos, I can either daven dressed not 100% – without socks etc. – or I can give up on davening that day because by […]
Eating meat with dairy food in a shopping bag on the table
Question: If someone is eating meat, and there is dairy in a shopping bag on the table, can one continue eating or does he need to remove the shopping bag from the table. Is the shopping bag considered a heker? Would a heker even work for a single person? If not, would it help if […]
Making up for missed Mincha
Question: What to do if you missed mincha? Answer: It depends on the reason why you missed it. If it can be considered an accident, then you can daven maariv twice. After davenng Shemona Esrei of Maariv, daven a second Shemona Esrei as a makeup one for the mincha that you missed. After that […]
opened box – can I assume it wasnt used?
Question: We ordered something similar to a crockpot from a local store (paying for a new item). When the store delivered it, it appears that it was opened before (box wasnt sealed, and instructions were missing). If the appliance looks basically clean, is there a reason that we would have to assume that it may […]
Hello Rabbi
Question: Good afternoon Rabbi, I had a few questions 1. Is it avodah zarah to have fortune cookies at a Chinese restaurant? Are fortune cookies avodah zarah? 2. Can one dress up for Halloween on October 31st? 3. Can one celebrate Valentine’s Day? Answer: Fortune cookies are not Chinese, rather an American invention.They don’t […]
Bathing on Yom Tov
Question: Why in our days, where we take showers daily, isn’t it permitted to shower on Yom Tov? Isn’t it שוה לכל? Answer: Here is an answer given to this question from Horav Asher Weiss shlit”a. Hatzlocha Question: Can we allow a shower on Yom Tov, especially in Chu”l where Yom Tov is 2 […]
Took food unintentionally that did not belong to me
Question: Many years ago I was a counselor in a camp in Russia. The counselors had a freezer for their use and we all brought meat and kept it there. One day I came in and saw someone feasting on my meat. When I pointed it out to him he said that everyone just put […]
Chanukah Menorah
Question: B”H Shalom and Rosh Chodesh Tov, Please advise what is the Halacha for purchasing a Chanukah Menorah. Do all candle/oil holders have to be in a straight line, or Shamash can be in front of the others? Thank you, Answer: Hello, When purchasing a Chanukah menora the eight candle/oil holders should be in […]
Can an employer charitable matching program count towards maaser kesafim?
Question: As an employee benefit, my employer will match ever dollar that I give to a registered charitable organization, up to a certain amount. Can this match help fulfill my maaser obligation as it is structured as an employee benefit and the non-jewish employer would not donate to a Jewish cause if it were not […]
Sticking/unsticking on Shabbos
Question: Is there a problem with removing nursing pads on Shabbos to throw out / resticking new ones? thanks! Answer: Hello, The old pad that you started using before Shabbos may be removed without a problem, because you placed it there with the intention to remove it after a few hours. Regarding placed new […]
Fruit fly on knife
Question: As I was finishing dinner I noticed a tiny fruit fly landed on my knife. I wiped it off with a paper towel. Do I have to kasher the knife, or just wash it? Thank you! Answer: Washing off the knife be sufficient. The knife is at best a kli sheini, the fly […]
Pouring hot water from pareve into dirty dairy sink
Question: I poured hot water from a parve pot (with boiled eggs inside) into a dairy sink, which presumably had dairy dishes inside (maybe dirty) Does the pouring of hot water and any steam change the status of anything? Thank you! Answer: In retrospect it will not change the status of the pareve pot. […]
Shloshim that started on Chol Hamoed
Question: Someone who this year was buried on Chol Hamoed 19 Tishri. When does the shloshim end Answer: Hello, The relatives of a person who was buried on Chol HaMoed, do not sit shiva until after the end of Yom Tov. However, regarding the shloshim, the thirty-day count starts from the day of the […]
Shmitta questions
Question: Ha Rav, I have the following questions: 1. Carrots (approx. Date of Kedusha) from Tishrei 5782. Is that Tishrei 5782 to 5783? 2. How is a person supposed to know when the vegetables were grown? 3. Orange (approx. Date of Kedusha) Elul 5782 to Kislev 5784, is that a mistake? Thank you so much. […]
Clothing washed on Rosh Chodesh
Question: Hello, I have two questions related to clothing. 1. If I live with nonobservant relatives for medical reasons and they wash clothing on rosh chodesh and some got (sock, underwear) got left in the washer or dryer by mistake, and then I do a wash the next day, is that a problem for my […]
Mashing potato on Shabbos
Question: I like to mash potatoes and beans from my cholent with the cholent soup. Can this be done on Shabbos as I’m eating bederech hachilah? Answer: Hello, Yes, this can be done. What you are referring to is the opinion of the Rashba, that it is permitted to cut things into small pieces […]
Breaking matza into soup on Shabbos
Question: Can a person break matza into hot soup on Shabbos kli Shlishi? Pot to bowl #1, then pour soup into bowl #2 then break matza into soup. Answer: Hello, Yes, this can be done. There is controversy among the poskim if “יש בישןל אחר אפיה”, if the prohibition against cooking on Shabbos applies […]
Mistakes in Amidah
Question: If you make a pronunciation mistake, or lose your place in the final section of the amidah, can you go back the the start of a part you have not completed? For example, say a few words into יהי רצון I have doubt that said יהי can I simply return to יהי and restart […]
Daf Yomi
Question: Am I (widow, 62, living alone) breaking a law by following Daf Yomi online? Answer: Learning Daf Yomi is great thing, even if it is online. One does howwever have to be careful when using a computer that it has a proper, filter to filter out many of the unwanted elements of the internet. […]
Eating a Kazayis of bread after dark on Friday night
Question: In Simon Resh Samach Zayin, Mishna Berurah Hei, the Mishnah Berurah quotes a Shita that holds one should eat a Kazayis of bread at “LEILA-night” on Friday night. Is “night” Tzais Hacochivim”? What time is “night” referring to? I know that the Mishna Berurah is referring to persons making Shabbos early, but it seems […]
Limits of Kibud Av v’ Em
Question: I want to understand what is required of me as a daughter to fulfill my obligations of Kibud Av v’ Em to my parents. My parents love me and are proud of me and we have a healthy relationship most of the time. There are times that my father will ridicule, degrade or insult […]
Forgot hataras nedarim
Question: It’s now after hoshana raba and I realized that I never did hataras nedarim. What should I do? Answer: You can still take three people and do it now. Best wishes Sources:
Bread crumbs on breaded fish
Question: Do bread crumbs have tzuras hapas? I keep pas yisroel and I want to know if I can eat breaded flounder that d oes not indicate pas yisroel on the package? Answer: Hello, In general bread crumbs do have a tzuras hapas, because the bracha on bread crumbs is Hamotzei. If however the crumbs […]
Kriyah at kotel
Question: Does one need to tear kriyah at the kotel? After not seeing it a certain amount of time? Is there a bracha on the kriyah? Sefardi or Ashkenazi psak Answer: Hello, A person who has not seen the makom Hamikdash or where Yerushalayim of old was, for thirty days has to rip their […]
When Shabbos falls around the earth?
Question: Shalom Rabbi, You ask an interesting question about when Shabbos falls around the world and across the seas. I believe Hashem answers the question with the fact that He does not exist in daylight savings time. It seems apparent that Hashem answered this question with the fact that Shabbos is based on resting on […]
New Brocho for each kiddush?
Question: Gut Voch Rav, On Shabbos morning I went to 3 Kiddushin. Each one was around a 5 minute walk away from the last one. If I am eating mezonos in each Kiddush, should I make a new brocho and brocho achrona each time or one brocho and keep eating in each new location. If […]
Ona’a Question
Question: Shalom Cvod Harav, Is the following considered underpaying? I can’t find Cheshbon Hanefesh anywhere at a reasonable price in English but it appeared motzei shabbat for 25 dollars on Ebay. I bought it, but am now wondering if I underpaid. It is available used for around 100 – 125 dollars due to the lack […]
Subscription mistakenly extended
Question: I paid for a subscription service that sells researched sales leads. they give 250 leads per account per month. I prepaid for 5 people for a year in 2021-2022. My subscription recently ended. For some reason the company owned privately (nochri) did not cancel access to my subscription. I know of the 1250 leads […]
Tefilah betzibbur
Question: The MB in siman 55 s`k 49 says that if there is a mechitzah materes then the mispalelin are not mitzareph. What if there is a mechitzah materes which is not currently serving as a mattir, such as a partition which on shbs sections off the ezras nashim and is now just there for […]
Took more tickets for raffle than allowed
Question: A child over bar mitzva was in a program for mishnayos that received tickets for the amount mishnayos learned. He said a higher amount that he had learned and therby won a set of sforim. The program does not exist anymore but he knows the donor of the program. What should he do? He […]
Fragrance Intermission
Question: If I’m trying to get 100 brachos in a day and fullfill some of them using smelling fragrances, how long of an intermission do I need after I smell an etrog or a spice, etc before I can repeat the bracha? Kol Tuv. Answer: Hello, The amount of time is not what will […]
Shmitta – Ha Rav, Do we still need to be concerned with Shmitta peels for compost?
Question: Ha Rav, Do we still need to be concerned with Shmitta peels (in the 8th year) of Avocado, tomatoes, cucumbers, oranges, bananas, lemons, tangerines, carrots and potatoes. I wanted to use them for compost? Answer: Hello, Although after Rosh Hashana of the eighth year it is no longer shemitta, and we are permitted […]
Removing top layer from a pile on shabbos
Question: If I have a pile of items (for example, a laundry basket filled with clean clothing) and on Shabbos I want to find an item which isn’t visible from the top, is there a problem with moving away items from the top of the pile (ie to search through the pile) to find the […]
Forgiveness through the mindset of knowing you won’t do a certain Aveira again
Question: Hello Rabbi, Over Yom Tov I was having a conversation with a family who were visiting from Flatbush and during the discussion someone mentioned that he heard from a certain Rabbi speaker that (during the process of teshuva) if you know (I’m assuming in that moment how you feel) that you are not going […]
Feet opposite doorway
Question: I have always been told that one should not sleep with one’s feet towards the door. I understand that it has to do with ל”ע taking a niftar out of the room in that way. Does it mean feet directly opposite doorway or even feet towards the wall which has the door in it? […]
Cats Entering Succah
Question: I am busy packing away my succah and I am wondering if it is suitable for next year. Over Succos numerous times cats managed to make their way into my succah. My neighbor commented to me if you are scared then you are mitzta’er and exempt from sleeping in the Succah. The halachah is […]
Harachamon Hu Yakim
Question: I always said harachamon hu yakim only on chol hamoed sukkos but not on yom tov as this is what I was taught, is there any mekor to this or is it incorrect? Thank You! Answer: The general minhag in Klal Yisroel is indeed to say it even on Yom Tov, however the […]
Chomesh
Question: I have recently been trying to learn the halachos of giving a chomesh, and have seen more than once(from others as well)the idea of “If the person has large aveiros, that are blocking the merit of the tzedakah to take effect”, But have yet to hear or see anyone describe what those “large aveiros” […]
Chillul Hashem?
Question: B”H Kavod haRav, Thank you for your help. I am seeking clarification if something that happened could be considered Chillul Hashem? I had a pleasant interaction with one of the female workers at a supermarket, she offered to help me with something, and I thanked her. I made sure to go to her checkout […]
Waking up on the right side
Question: Moed tov, Someone told me that the halacha is that we are supposed to wake up on the right side. If we wake up on the left, we close our eyes, switch to the right, and then get up. Is this true? I can’t find a source. Thank you Cvod Harav Answer: There […]
Dining in the Sukkah
Question: If a full meal is unavailable would gum and water suffice in the sukkah? Answer: We cannot consider water and gum a meal in order to make the bracha leishiev bsuccah. Otherwise if you don’t have any food, you can still sit in the succah, and enjoy being with Hashem, without making a bracha. […]
Toiveling resin
Question: Do I need to toivel a challah board made out of wood and resin? Answer: You do not need to toel it, as we only have to tovel metal and glass. Moadim Lsimcha Sources:
hilchos chol ha-moed
Question: Can I put stain remover on a shirt on chol ha-moed so when I wash it after chag there is more chance the stain will fully come out? Can I use stain remover on a kitchen surface to try and remove a stain? Thank you Answer: It is permitted to spot clean on […]
Chosson Bereishis for 13 year old boy?
Question: Shalom Harav chag sameach , to buy the Hatan Bereshit for a boy who became bar mitsva few months ago ,is there any Halachic or Hashkafah or any other issues wrong with it please? Ty Chazak Baruch Answer: Technically it is permitted for a young boy to get chassan Bereishis, however the custom […]
Torah learning in the street
Question: I walk a lot on shabbat. Am I allowed to recite words of torah while walking to make my time more productive and to direct my thoughts to more positive things or is there issue of reciting torah in impure spots? Does it matter if I continuously walk and not stop? Thank you […]
Mikva on Motzei Yom tov
Question: I was wondering if you would be able to advise on the below please? I am hoping to go to Mikva on motzei yom tov (motzei simchas torah). What sort of preparations need to be done before yom tov and what can wait until just before mikvah? Is it ok to remove body hair […]
Wearing tie on Chol Hamoed
Question: Does one have to wear a tie on Chol Hamoed? If one looks in the Shaar haTziun in 630:1 he seems to say that there is a chiyuv to wear nicer clothes than the week but not the same chiyuv as Shabbos and Yom Tov. Accordingly, one should be able to just wear a […]